namadhu sondha anubavangalai mattume vaithu naam mudivu seidhu, piragu manadhai iruga moodi kondu adhudhaan ulagam ena pidivaadham pidippadhu thavaru :)Quote:
Originally Posted by mr_karthik
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namadhu sondha anubavangalai mattume vaithu naam mudivu seidhu, piragu manadhai iruga moodi kondu adhudhaan ulagam ena pidivaadham pidippadhu thavaru :)Quote:
Originally Posted by mr_karthik
adhu mattum illAmal... naam irukkum soozhnilaiyil uruvAgum eNNangaLum, mudivugaLum adhE soozhnilaiyil irukkum innoru individual-ukku uruvAgAmal pogalAm..Quote:
Originally Posted by mgb
chinna vayasula irundhE strict vegetarian-a irukkaravangaLukku non-veg items pArthAl kumattum. avanga ahimsai, kollAmai ellAm pEsuvAnga. adhaiyE pure non veg sApidaravangaLukku adhu thappE illai. adhu oru way of life.
enakku therindha peNgaLil sila pEr dowry problem vandhu kashta pattu irukkanga. innum niraiya arranged marriage-leye paiyan veetuleye selavu ellaam senju kalyanam senjukittu irukkanga.( usual-a paiyan veetula selavu seyyanumna register marriage senju simple-a nadathuvaanganu solradhu vazhakkam :lol: ).. but ivanga nallAve selavu senjaanga. idhu pola ovvonrum ovvoru vidhamA iruppadhAl generalise seyya vENdaam enRudhAn thonRugiradhu.
certainly dowry is an evil. adhai ozhikkaNum. domination either male or female is bad. ippadi vENumAnaal generalise seyyalaam.
Jail-la warden-a irukkaravar daily kolai senjavangaLaithAn pArpAr. Hostel warden dhinamum student-sai pArpAr. adhukkAga reNdaiyum oNNa ninaikka mudiyumA ?
aaNgaL kettavargaL enRu solli koNdu kalyANam seidhu koLLAmal irukka ninaithAl avargaLai pArthu paridhAba padathAn thoNRugiRadhu.. adhE kadhaithAn.. peNgaL meedhu thappu sollikoNdu kalyANam seyyAmal sutRum aaNgaLukkum :P
Nobody can give a fitting reply to Jilaba, like this.Quote:
Originally Posted by mgb
Wonderful mgb.
I do accept that everyone sees the world through their window and make perceptions out of it. But isn’t it sad that the window that Jilaba looked thru has had such a negative impact on her? Just because we don’t look thru her window we can’t deny the happening. Can we? Who knows, if we look thru her window we might form the same opinions.
Its not the window or the viewer that is the problem, the incidents that are happening on the other side of the window is the real problem and we have to acknowledge that. :(
Jialaba, the reason as to why we have this ‘all women must marry’ attitude is because of our society’s perception of woman and womanhood. A woman is always seen as an object that had to be ‘owned’. :twisted: There is no value to the object if is not ‘owned’. Also according to our society’s rule women can’t live alone.
Even today with IT booming and women having the same footing as men, discrimination hasn’t died off completely. Women are working away from home, but how many can stay alone and work. In today’s culture few people together rent a house and stay together. If a man wants he can rent/buy a house and stay on his own, but a woman doing the same will be looked differently and her integrity will come into question. So it kind of becomes mandatory to live with some company. Parents can’t provide this company forever and hence it becomes mandatory for women to marry.
The problem here is society’s attitude in general. All I can say is that you are barking at the wrong tree.
mr_karthik, nenge entha side goal poda try panringe? :roll:
Is it just the social attitude that matters? Are not man & woman complementary, meant to live in fullness by uniting together? Does not Nature has it in its original, eternal design?
The answer to all those questions is Yes. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
But is it not also true that there is no equivalent term for Brahmachariam for the feminine gender?
When men can opt out of marriage and live a life of abstinence, why is there no provision for women to do the same?
Why did Avaiyar turn into an old lady to lead a spiritual life?
Just imagine for a minute that Abdul Kalam was born a woman (same intelligence and same personality). Would she have reached the same position?
A point to ponder. But in christianity celibacy of nuns is quite possible, acceptable, laudable. Hindu men have the trick of calling a virgin woman, mother! Somehow, I can't fully understand the reverence enjoyed by Ramakrishnar & Saradha Devi!
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Originally Posted by Jilaba
ninaipputhaan pozappa kedukkuthu! :lol:
Y not?? Didnt we have a woman as PM- Indira Gandhi? :huh: :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by dsath
Or r there not women who r CMs in sum states today?