Well-said Shekhar!
Problem lies at both ends of the spectrum.
And davie, :)
Printable View
Well-said Shekhar!
Problem lies at both ends of the spectrum.
And davie, :)
yep real men never beat their wives. but they are not dummies.
i know my uncle who washes dishes daily. my aunt just commands/orders him to wash dishes.
talented real men never give an opportunity to fight, or they know how to divert a fight into a mutually agreable decision.
beating and tongue lashing are just crazy things whichwill spoil the relation. According to you, Don't respond to whatever the wife says. Its similar to the common saying the best way to win the argument is not to argue. yea if u want to be abuddha dats also fine. infact most of us are buddhas when some employer rebukes us. :lol:
@cute ratchasi. pls tell us what u think.
very true davie :)
but you know just as the boss riles you up...that also at times means y'all come home and pass on the negativeness...and dont worry im not saying that us ladies are all good either..i know some open their mouth the moment the husband sets foot thru the door.... :x
guess we all need a lesson in buddhism...but hell call me selfish but if i enter Nirvana there is no way im going to come out and wait till 'everything to last piece of grass enters with you' :wink:
wow i like ur quote corida and ratchasi where are u
....that also at times means y'all come home and pass on the negativeness...
I was succumbing to the above at one point of time.
Even a non-issue would annoy me to the max.
Fortunately, I realised what I was doing and took control of the whole situation.
The moment I reach home, I make it a point to inform whoever at home that I had a bad day in the office.
They would understand that and leave me all alone.
Within no time, negativity was left at the doorstep of my office!
And just for the record, the cause of stress is not because of my boss and no she is not one of the hubbers! :wink:
honey u should stop worrying too much. Life is not for worrying. Just because of worrying or getting frustrated no change is gona result. Just think what can be done about the situation and how to tackle that problem. If u want help always consult or talk to some sweet persons likeu
In India even well educated people harass women. In Vijayawada famous psychiatrist Dr Indla Rama Subba Reddy raped a women belonging to backward community. He also used to harass his wife. His wife divorced him.
education does not constitute intelligence...intelligence does not constitute feeling....
hence i am not a bit surprised that educated people would do so....we can only hope that in education they also learn of what is truly important in life....though to blindly expect it and then be surprised just separates us from the tragedy...
How true Querida..Quote:
Originally Posted by Querida
Concept of education in ancient India was holistic. Education meant imbibing the right vaues, skills and knowledge to handle one's life efficiently. It was not simply learning what is right and what is wrong, but acquiring the capability to judge and decide what is right and what is wrong, what nurtures life and what destroys.
Woefully, today, perhaps allover the world, education means only acquisition of knoweldge (more bookish than useful), which hardly helps one to decide right path of life.
Whatever values and philosophy I have derived to handle my life, whatever little wisdom I have acquired, has been invariably AFTER my formal education. through voluntary reading.
So sadly, today 'educated' doesnot mean any thing of personality attitudes and maturity of a person.... :(
that people atleast realize this and go so far as to make efforts on their own to learn more of this 'informal education' is certainly encouraging :D