but this is not proper example(IMHO).....Quote:
Originally Posted by app_engine
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but this is not proper example(IMHO).....Quote:
Originally Posted by app_engine
sarna_blr, I agree this is not an example to support women going to job or seeking a career. Just to dispel the myth that 'u is purusha lakshanam'. Agreed it's the respo for man to provide for his family, in general. However, some "extreme" statements need countering by "extreme" situations:-) And if some is happy to be 'avalakshanam', life has to still go on for other family members:-)
avalakshanam..... :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by app_engine
ippdi oru kevalamaana thought-a refined english sonnaa mattum enna aaga poguthu PP madam??Quote:
Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
well said...Quote:
Originally Posted by app_engine
itha post pannanumnu avasiyam illai..Quote:
Originally Posted by pavalamani pragasam
anyway, "naan escapu.. aala vidungadaa saami"-nu sollavareengannu puriyuthu..
app_engine : great posts :)
Thank you sir!Quote:
Originally Posted by ajithfederer
[app_engine: :)
IMO, women need to learn atleast one money-making skill...be it a job or home based small business or other skills...In this fast world, you never know what will happen to the bread-winner(husb) the very next moment... Incase of any mishap, like physical disability or illness or death, she needs to be prepared to take the role of the bread-winner... aprom aludhu polambittu irukiradhula use illai... It's a basic survival skill... Not every woman has support from parents/relatives,monetary or otherwise... & even if they are supportive, better we be prepared for the worse... whatever happens, life will go on...
college degree alone doesn't always give a person enough confidence...I know of enough home-makers who are well educated but are not confident enough to even go to a bank or make a bill payment or talk to an insurance guy or go to a service centre or do such other basic things on their own... Women going for work/doing business(atleast for a short period of time) definitely helps them learn social skills faster & gives them the confidence that they can survive on their own... & also to understand themselves & the real world better...whether they choose to work full-time or part-time or not to work is entirely their choice... but they need to have the confidence they can survive without other's help for basic things... And that confidence shouldn't be 'kuruttu dhairiyam'...;) To me, having the freedom to spend another person's(husb in this case)hard earned money is not financial freedom... :)
Anyway, I don't believe in discussing what is right & what's wrong... Life will teach it's lessons at it's own pace... what we believe is right/wrong is the result of the timing & magnitude of diff experiences one had in life... Some ppl are lucky enough to not to go thru very hard phases in life & so their beliefs might be completely diff from that of one who has gone to a diff exper(hard phases) in life... :)
'kEvalamillaatha' karuththukkaLai 'kEvalamillaatha' vithaththil uraikkum bright boy, you are sadly mistaken! Sleep is my well earned rest! Don't read anything else into it! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Devar Magan