THIRUp-PAVAI - SUN TV Serial

[Sudhaama]

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. Shall we discuss... on the various aspects of this Serial.?

I am surprised to note the Character named Desikachari... a Purohit Pandit..

...often making some funny statements... MISLEADING about Hindu Vedic Sasthras' stipulations..!

One such statement is...

That the Hindu sasthras permit and authorize a Woman... for a second marriage...

..under FIVE Circumstances.!

(1) If she becomes a Widow.

(2) If her Husband has deserted her... and declared so.

(3) If the Husband has absconded and his whereabouts are not known.

(4) If he becomes impotent.

(5) If he becomes seriously sick as invalid.

No doubt some of these causes can justify... the DIVORCE petition by the aggrieved consort ...

...according to the current Hindu Laws in India.

But do the Vedic Sasthras too authorize so.?

I think... in some of the above cases... Sasthras do not authorize...

Because if authorized so liberally...

..without any role for her close Relatives and Well-wishers as well as the Commoin Society....

... there can be heavy and frequent Divorce petitions... resulting in innumerable REMARRIAGES...

....within a short duration of Marriages.!...

..resulting in heavy population of Hyppies... a new Generation of Wagabonds... with Un-Known Parents.!... or Parent-deserted.!

..similar to the current USA and some such Western countries.!.
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[aanaa]

knock!! knock!!!!




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[Sudhaama]

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NO RELIGION sanctions SEXUAL- PLEASURE based decision on Marriage.!...

...although "Sexual-Pleasure" is ONE of the IMPORTANT Factors.!


All Religions.. including the Vedic-Religion so called Hinduism... categorically assert that...

... the Marriage is MORE A SOUL-UNION.. than any other sort of Relation.

According to Hindu sasthras... Marriage is SOLEMN CEREMONY... sanctified by Gods as One and Once for all through the Couple's Life.

However if a Husband violates his responsibilities and moral-commitments...

..then the Wife is NOT AUTHORISED...to decide at her own will.!

But with the support and intervention of her Parents, Brothers and the Society as well...

..who are supposed to correct the injustice if meted out... to the innocent and blotless wife.

According to Hindu Sasthras... all through her Life... every Girl or Woman... has to be under the shelter of Males only... in the names of

... Father / Husband / Brother..

Even if she becomes a Widow... her Brothers become her Gaurdians.

So... let not the Author take shelter on any Religion...

..nor Authorisation to denigrate the Vedic-Sasthras... just to justify one's own UNFOUNDED Inference or Surmise

Vedic-Sasthras on Marriage-criteria.. according to the so called Hindu-Religion are the EMULATIVE LIFE-CODES...

...EVER-RELEVANT... and ANYWHERE APPLICABLE.!
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What Hindu Vedic-Doctrines stipulate on Marriage.?


According to Hinduism... similar to Catholic Christianity...

...Marriage is a SACRAMENT... NOT AN AGREEMENT... as classified by others.

"Sacrament"... SACRED COMMITMENT"... as committed to God...

...since approved by Him.. on the appeal by both the Parties concerned...

...prior to the holy Wedding ceremony...

Wedding is HIGHLY VALUED... as the SOUL-UNION... of Two Souls.. Bride and the Groom.

Sex too is holy... since the Wife offers herself totally... by Body, Heart and Soul... only to her Husband...

..unlike any other Human-relations

And so Hinduism do not authorise Divorce... JUST ON THE BASIS OF SEXUAL needs and the related Competence Consideration.

..because if so allowed.. Marriage will become a VERY CHEAP AFFAIR...

..Especially the Women-folk.... whom the Vedic -doctrine regards very high... as the EMULATIVE EXAMPLE for HUMAN-VALUES.!

Yes... Dharma-Pathni and the Motherhood are the Topmost status... Highest of Human-values.. according Hinduism.

However Hinduism practically concedes and relaxes the Regulations...

..commensurate with subsequent development after the Wedding.

..Not on SEXUAL FACTOR... but on the Violation and fAILURE of Reciprocal commitment of the Husband.

But even under such extreme circumstances.. culminating in Desertion or Destitution...

..her Guardian Father / Brothers / Uncles.. Only have to intervene and solve the Problem.

...including Re-Marriage with another Groom.

Widows Re-marriage with another Husband is NOT AUTHORISED BY VEDIC-DOCTRINES...

..although now permissible by Law.
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[aanaa]

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