Succes in Love

[arr]

Succes in Love:
love is not a succes for every one.
many see failure in their love.

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

So my question is which love was a succes for you?
I mean eat-tha-nai-ya-va-dhu love ungalukku succes acchu?

[arr]

Dear makkale,
I posted this question since love failes.
I really wanted to check how many % of people actually have met atleast one unsuccesful love.

It should be a good consolation for people who have faced love failure!!


Can someone tell me "Really, What is meant by succes in love? "

I want to know "Is the love stories in tamil movies creating a wrong impression about love?"

Some live for their love. If their love failes they become devadass - some even do sucide.

Some say love's nothing at all.
For example kamalHasan says in that alwarpet song - kadhal onnum kadavul iiladaa...
And then he says that it's just a matter of hormones.
He also says, If one love fails then go for another one.
What's the truth!

:( :( :(

[annamalaifan]

arr
kalyanam panrathe muthalle thappu. Intha pirachanaikku naan varalaipa.......in my opinion kadhal waste. Nalla padichama, velai senjama, kasu serthama, oru muppathu vayasula oru pilayai adopt pannama, nalla mathiri valarkanum, vayasana kalathila oru nalla ashram parthu sernthukkanum.....ithuthan inbamana life......enna ungga opinion arr.............

[Bdolf Hilter]

XYZ

[Cindy]

Athu eppadi...SS...ella pasangalum kalyanathukku munnadi...first kadalukku munnadi ore mathiri pesureenga.....

[arr]

As every one even I was not interested in marriage and love at all.
"Love enpathu waste... Athula onnumae ellai..."
Appadi thaan naanum think panninen.
But, it happened in my life.
It will come in every one's life.
It's inevitable....

[annamalaifan]

Athu eppadi...SS...ella pasangalum kalyanathukku munnadi...first kadalukku munnadi ore mathiri pesureenga.....

naan unmai pesuren paa.....unmyile kalyanam pannikkave kudathu......intha vishayatthil naan romba uruthiya irukken....appdi kalyanam pannanumnu kattayam vanthuchuna oru widow parthu kalyanam pannuven.........arr kavalai padathingg....meendum innoru thadavai love pannungga....appuram happyya marriage lifela involve avungga :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Hemant Trived1]

Success of Love lies in your object of love telling you, "I LOVE YOU",
after you have told him/her I Love you.
If you expect that marriage is true love, it is a fallacy.
Love is about Loving and not Love making.

My 2 cents worth.!! :)

[Sandeep]

By Hemand's rule I am damn lucky in love.

I have till now proposed to three girls and all of them loved me back. But i am true geminine :wink: always look for something new

[Bdolf Hilter]

XYZ

[geno]

Succes in Love

Success in love? Well I dont think you can ever "succeed" or "fail" in love! You just "love".. thats all!

If this is too much of mumbo jumbo for you - Dont worry! you would certainly understand it in another 5-10 years!! :wink: :D :D


Success of Love lies in your object of love telling you, "I LOVE YOU", after you have told him/her I Love you.
If you expect that marriage is true love, it is a fallacy.

Hey I agree with this!!! :wink: :D :D


Love is about Loving and not Love making.

hmmm!!! The "implications" of what hemant previously professed - seems to contradict this statement! :wink: :D :D

[arr]

I am totally confused !
:!:
Can someone tell me "Really, What is meant by succes in love "

I want to know "Is the love stories in tamil movies creating a wrong impression about love"

Some live for their love. If their love failes they become devadass - some even do sucide.

Some say love's nothing at all.
For example kamalHasan says in that alwarpet song - kadhal onnum kadavul iiladaa...
And then he says that it's just a matter of hormones.
If one love fails then go for another one.
What's the truth!
:( :(

[blahblah]

Oh,Sandeep!what species are you! :roll: Broiler or the country variety? :lol: :lol: :lol: Try Hit... er...Hilter's advice. :twisted:

[M2J]

Dear makkale,
I posted this question since love failes.
I really wanted to check how many % of people actually have met atleast one unsuccesful love.

It should be a good consolation for people who have faced love failure!!


Can someone tell me "Really, What is meant by succes in love? "

I want to know "Is the love stories in tamil movies creating a wrong impression about love?"

Some live for their love. If their love failes they become devadass - some even do sucide.

Some say love's nothing at all.
For example kamalHasan says in that alwarpet song - kadhal onnum kadavul iiladaa...
And then he says that it's just a matter of hormones.
He also says, If one love fails then go for another one.
What's the truth!

:( :( :(




its tru dat the love stories in tamil movies do create a wrong impression about love. the love in most tamil movies is like in first sight of the gal, and if u fall for a gal with looks u would be lucky to find out shes a nice person inside, but in the movies they end up being a nice person, but in reality it aint tru wel its my opinion

[Sandeep]

Oh,Sandeep!what species are you! :roll: Broiler or the country variety? :lol: :lol: :lol: Try Hit... er...Hilter's advice. :twisted:

blahblah, hilter - you guys wont let me live, isnt it? :(

Poor me living a simple humble life and you guys want to me to get into trouble :evil:

[Sandeep]

I am totally confused !
:!:
Can someone tell me "Really, What is meant by succes in love "

I want to know "Is the love stories in tamil movies creating a wrong impression about love"

Some live for their love. If their love failes they become devadass - some even do sucide.

Some say love's nothing at all.
For example kamalHasan says in that alwarpet song - kadhal onnum kadavul iiladaa...
And then he says that it's just a matter of hormones.
If one love fails then go for another one.
What's the truth!
:( :(

Most of the love affairs last only for little time. But then I have seen some exceptions where they went against all odds. It really needs a lot of determination that is seldom found in real world.

Movies only speak about these people.

[arr]

Dear People ...
those who visit this page ...
Plz don't forget to vote...

[Roshan]

But then I have seen some exceptions where they went against all odds. It really needs a lot of determination that is seldom found in real world.

Movies only speak about these people.

Yeah True!! I agree ! :)

[blahblah]

arr,I was the first one to vote on this.Now you know something about me-right? :lol: :lol: :lol:

[arr]

Most of the love affairs last only for little time. But then I have seen some exceptions where they went against all odds. It really needs a lot of determination that is seldom found in real world.
Movies only speak about these people.

That's true.

Some one said to me
" I have never seen anyone fighting in real world as shown in movie.
We know for sure that those fights are total reel (lie)."
As such, the kind of love shown in movies are also not totally realistic.
Mostly it's highly exagerated.

[Gayathri]

There's no success and failure in love.

You like someone and they like you too!! and you both fall in love and if things are serious you see each other constantly, spend more time with each other and even live with each other or in most cases get married!!.

Some people might not reach the last stage for different reasons. This doesnt mean they have failed, its just LOST love you are very upset cos it hurts a lot. But still you eat, sleep, work nd life goes on. Then you meet someone else and if things are the working and there is love again.......

It might sound very passive but this is how life is and this is the truth.

[Sandeep]

There's no success and failure in love.

You like someone and they like you too!! and you both fall in love and if things are serious you see each other constantly, spend more time with each other and even live with each other or in most cases get married!!.

Some people might not reach the last stage for different reasons. This doesnt mean they have failed, its just LOST love you are very upset cos it hurts a lot. But still you eat, sleep, work nd life goes on. Then you meet someone else and if things are the working and there is love again.......

It might sound very passive but this is how life is and this is the truth.

Hey dont take away fun out of romance :( . When you are in love you should feel like you cannot live without your partner. Then after you break up should cry and cry and make a mess. Then back to square one.

It is like a roller coaster ride that takes the hell out of us. But you enjoy it nevertheless.

[Bdolf Hilter]

XYZ

[Bdolf Hilter]

XYZ

[Sandeep]

Hi Sandeep,

if you are too feminine then you should go for men otherwise I don't know where to begin and when to end my desire to watch you engaed with three girls, I mean with you 4. :lol:
I hope admins don't delete my post :) This should not become their main profession.

Hey i am not engaged :? . Remember I was responding to Hemants post. What I said was I had three girlfriends at various times (I was not engaged with any of them, i think my saying "proposed" made a confusion, my mistake).

Then what is feminine in enjoying romance and feeling bad when you break up. Or is it crying that you consider feminine.

And i dont know who this Ronan Keating is ? :?:

Have you seen difference between children and some macho men riding on roller coaster. Children scream and shout and they really enjoy it while macho men sit as if they are on India-Pak border. Do you think children are really afraid no they are enjoying it?

[arr]

Sandeep Wrote:
What I said was I had three girlfriends at various times

Well, it's common in NEWYORK to switch between patners one-by-one...
But, not so common here in TamilNadu!!

[arr]

There's no success and failure in love.
- - - - - - - -
It might sound very passive but this is how life is and this is the truth.

Do you have any experience in love affairs to say such a statement?

[Gayathri]

There's no success and failure in love.
- - - - - - - -
It might sound very passive but this is how life is and this is the truth.

Do you have any experience in love affairs to say such a statement?

I should correct your statement, I did NOT have any love AFFAIRS!!

Affairs meaning illegal relationships!!

If your question was if I have had loved anyone before then read on....

Yeah I've been in love!!

my marriage!! is LOVE marriage!!....

But the first love.....its only a vague memory!!

So what? In your words my first love is a failure and my second is a success?? No I dont agree!!

[arr]

I should correct your statement, I did NOT have any love AFFAIRS!!
Affairs meaning illegal relationships!!


I really feel sorry, if I have meant anything wrongly!
But, anyway you figured out the right meaning!

[Bdolf Hilter]

XYZ

[Sandeep]

And i dont know who this Ronan Keating is ? :?:


Oh, that does not matter. I did not even met him yet. :lol:

He is a singer from I think Republic Of Ireland, he sang a song about the life being a roller coaster that has to be ridden.

See great people think alike :)

Only that I better not sing.

[Gayathri]

And i dont know who this Ronan Keating is ? :?:


Oh, that does not matter. I did not even met him yet. :lol:

He is a singer from I think Republic Of Ireland, he sang a song about the life being a roller coaster that has to be ridden.

See great people think alike :)

Only that I better not sing.

Ronan Keating is very popular in UK and Ireland, he has some good numbers, If you had watched the movie Nottinghill starring hugh grant and julia roberts, there is a good song 'When you say nothing at all' and this was by Ronan Keating!!

[Bdolf Hilter]

If you had watched the movie Nottinghill starring hugh grant and julia roberts, there is a good song 'When you say nothing at all' and this was by Ronan Keating!!

His best song for me:(though it is not his original)

Sometimes late at night I lie awake and wathch her sleeping
She is lost in peaceful dreams so I turn off the light and let her in the dark
And a thought crosses my mind
If I never awake in the morning
.....

I better not continue because I don't sing thing this song anymore for the last 9 weeks and I won't in the future.

[Querida]

If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be.

[Sathya]

Hold on,
Let me clarify here,
What is Love? Is it not just a mere Chemical Reaction?

[Sathya]

Or is there anyone here who thinks that Love is a divine thing?

[Querida]

Sathya if you believe love is a mere chemical reaction then let it be so :) ...but for me i cannot explain what love is....but yes i do think that beyond its obvious areas of distress, pain and unnecessary time spent dreaming away....it is divine because it has inspired many as well as given many a meaning to their life.

[a.ratchasi]

when love is measured, it is no longer love

[davie]

aww ratchasi . pularika vachuta

[nirosha sen]

Boy Ratchasi!!! That was DEEP!!!!!

[xlntbarani]

First know What is Success...

Success has measures... But Victory hasn't

Let me explain...

If one aims to get something he needs... if he gets it.. that is success... and if he doesn't... that is failure....

If one aims to fail in some thing ... and if he doesn't ... than too people will say that it is a success for him...
If he does attain his aim... He got victory but others will blame that he failed....

Got it...

So Success was based upon what other think of it or its off public opinion...


And so I tell...

Your Love cannot conluded or judged by others... You are the one to judge your love and even your partner cant do the thing from your part... Ok

So there is no success in love ...

Each drop is counted as a drop only...
even if it is a dew or few

....

And there is no first love, second love, third and so on...

In life you are having a plate in your hand with hungry in your mind ...

if you get one who can afford your hunger... then you wont go to the next door...

if you are not satisfied and if you like fulfill it you will go to the next door... that dosent mean second ... its will continue till end ... with a date or time as a marking, for a color, or a taste, or a smell to store by sense, for a fulfilment to store mentally, or for a satisfaction to store physically... what ever you like to get in plate to stop your hunger...

If you are fair enough to sustain your hunger, when some body refuses to afford you... that also means....

Love is line. it may go straight... it may have turns and look like a square or circle or triangle but for sure it is a line which has two ends for one who see from outside and

one start and one end for the one who is on the line...

Thats it for now...

will continue later.... as i am now online... my offline jobs are pending...

Love all...
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Love not for Success or Failure

[Querida]

wow xlntbarani....i was wondering why you were called xlnt :D ...thank for coming down from kavidhaghal...but i think again your words are just as poetic here as they are there...your analogy was very much appreciated :D

[xlntbarani]

//i was wondering why you were called xlnt :D //

Sorry ...



//thank for coming down from kavidhaghal...//

thanks for letting me in....



//but i think again your words are just as poetic here as they are there...//

Well. Hope the way it wings ... and thinks



//your analogy was very much appreciated :D//

Glad to hear your appreciation....

See you later... BTC

[mandangi]

I loved a girl who is 4 years elder than me in age. She rejected my love. She also belong to my community. She loved a brahman boy and maried him. Different people have different opinions on love. So she rejected my love by name of age and married brahman boy.

[arr]

Hold on,
Let me clarify here,
What is Love? Is it not just a mere Chemical Reaction?

If you think it's just a chemical reaction then it's.
But, every simple thing has some thing hidden in it which is nothing less than divine.

Why do every one is trying to make himself comfortable and happy.
Is it juust not a change in energy level of some neurons in your brain !!

So, if you think this way then you won't live for anyone or atleast anything.

[arr]

I loved a girl who is 4 years elder than me in age. She rejected my love. She also belong to my community. She loved a brahman boy and maried him. Different people have different opinions on love. So she rejected my love by name of age and married brahman boy.


Why don't people think before they fall in love.
Look before you leap.

[Sandeep]

I loved a girl who is 4 years elder than me in age. She rejected my love. She also belong to my community. She loved a brahman boy and maried him. Different people have different opinions on love. So she rejected my love by name of age and married brahman boy.


Why don't people think before they fall in love.
Look before you leap.


Hey if you "Look" why will you "fall". You always "fall" in love, why because you dont "look". :)

[arr]

Hey if you "Look" why will you "fall". You always "fall" in love, why because you dont "look". :)

Good sayings!

[scorpio]

Hi arr,

I just voted in yr poll.

We have to be careful about what we define as 'Love' and not mix any infatuations that we may have had during those turbulent teens.

I too fell in love and got married to the same person. But, I dont think success in love ends in marriage. It continues..............

I dont believe in 'Love at first sight' theory so common in Tamil films. I think love can blossom only if 2 individuals understand each other.

[Shekhar]

I dont believe in 'Love at first sight' theory

I also don't believe in love at first sight..
But I believe in love at first site, second site, third site..... :lol: :lol:

[arr]

Hi arr,
I too fell in love and got married to the same person. But, I dont think success in love ends in marriage. It continues..............


How do you feel now with your first love's sucess?

Do you feel 'as if you have attained the moksha in life' and 'very very happy in your life' as shown in tamil movies?

[scorpio]

Hi arr,

I am married for more than a decade now. Attaining moksha in life is not dependent on marrying a loved one. Yes, I felt happy, contented and relieved to get married to a person of my choice. Not that, life is without misunderstandings at all. One positive aspect is such skirmishes do not last long as our understanding is quite matured.

Do not get carried away by tamil movies. Life is something real.

If u r in love with someone special now, all the best!

[Shakthiprabha.]

hmm, success in love means NOT NECESSARY THAT IT SHOULD END IN MARRIAGE.

May be mutually for various unavoidable reason, one can REFRAIN FROM marrying the loved one...

Life still goes on, with good memories.
Love is wonderful, and can be shown on any person, worthy of it.

Love can happen only once is ABSURD.

[Idiappam]

My first love was a success - I married her!
My second love was also a success - I have a mistress! My wife did not mind!
The rest of my loves were disasters. My mistress won't tolerate!

[Querida]

My first love was a success - I married her!
My second love was also a success - I have a mistress! My wife did not mind!
The rest of my loves were disasters. My mistress won't tolerate!

love the username..quite famous from the greetings you got in Hemant's thread...anyways also extend my greetings to you....even though am just newbie hubber :P ha ha very funny :P your first love should have taken lessons from your mistress...as an aside i think if wives do not mind then they should be entitled to their own mistre.. :D

[mellon]

Well I am shocked to know that Idiappam could love, marry and have mistress too. I thought it usually has a very short half-life as people generally like to eat the idiappam before it is getting cold. :roll:

[Querida]

:lol: @ mellon!

[jaiganes]

Mellon wrote

Well I am shocked to know that Idiappam could love, marry and have mistress too. I thought it usually has a very short half-life as people generally like to eat the idiappam before it is getting cold
Since when did mellons and other fruits acquire the rest of the half life required to comment !!!!????
Pun intended!! :wink: Offense unintended :)

[mellon]

Since when did mellons and other fruits acquire the rest of the half life required to comment !!!!????

Hello!!!! "ithu" saathaaraNa pazham illainga, GNAANA PAZHAM :lol:

[Idiappam]

love the username..quite famous from the greetings you got in Hemant's thread...anyways also extend my greetings to you....even though am just newbie hubber ha ha very funny your first love should have taken lessons from your mistress...as an aside i think if wives do not mind then they should be entitled to their own mistre..

Amma Querida, Senior Hubber - no newbie! Thank you very much for your support!

Huh, Wives having mistre... No way! They lose interest after the second chilD. Poor Husbands!

[Querida]

@ Idiappam-sambar sir :P no only senior hubber here...not in the old forum...and is only because i have found the hub helps me alot when to get ideas going when working on assignments and course it's fun too :D oh yes women do lose interest after their second child...of their husband that is....that is why there are mistre to the rescue....all jokes aside though i really don't think a mistre or mistress is needed in a loving marriage each partner should be friend, spouse and lover all in one...

[Idiappam]

Yes ma, Querida, agreed! .... till death do us apart....

[mandangi]

My second love also failed. She is also elder than me in age. And also belong to other caste.

[scorpio]

Quite understandable, Mandangi dear !!

Keep trying and all the best !! ( for the girl :wink: )

[blahblah]

Quite understandable, Mandangi dear !!

Keep trying and all the best !! ( for the girl :wink: )

:lol: :lol: :lol:

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"The best way to convince afool that he is wrong is to let him have his way"-Josh Billings

[Akash]

My second love also failed. She is also elder than me in age. And also belong to other caste.

WHAT A MAN!! :shock:

[Akash]

arr
kalyanam panrathe muthalle thappu. oru muppathu vayasula oru pilayai adopt pannama, nalla mathiri valarkanum
I think, Live togather is good, if we feel like beeing to gather in long term!!
The thing is, Wedding is always followed with LOCK!! Wedding Lock!!

[mandangi]

My second love also failed. She is also elder than me in age. And also belong to other caste.

WHAT A MAN!! :shock:
I can also make more and more attempts like Mahmood Bin Ghazni.

[Akash]

My second love also failed. She is also elder than me in age. And also belong to other caste.

WHAT A MAN!! :shock:
I can also make more and more attempts like Mahmood Bin Ghazni.
I thought love is some thing like Natural free flow of water. :roll: Do you wanna Dig for it?? :lol: :lol:

[scorpio]

Akash,

:rotfl: :rotfl:

Ever since Mandangi has started to grace the hub, I am entertained to the CORE!!

Laughter is the best medicine, sure, but this is the Ultimate.

People around me are looking at me as though I've lost my senses, laughing with my palms on my mouth for most of the time staring at my monitor :banghead:

[NM]

Same here.... :lol: :lol: :banghead: :banghead: :rotfl:

[blahblah]

Here too! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead: :banghead: :lol2:

I have shown some other guys and they too can't stop laughing. :lol:

[Akash]

Hey, who does'nt wanna chew?? if you have a gum in yr hand!! :roll:

[mandangi]

Nothing to laugh. I know some people who are 15-20 years younger than their wives.

[Akash]

Nothing to laugh. I know some people who are 15-20 years younger than their wives.SORRY!! That Might be yr fault on yr miss identifying on people..
Hey.. by the way, where you can alone find these kind of people?? huh??

[scorpio]

" I know some people who are 15-20 years younger than their wives."

Mandangi,

Can u kindly enlighten in which planet u r living??

One more request, as you've crossed 100 posts and now become a 'regular' hubber, kindly stop postings for the day and let us all do some WORK !! :roll:
Will be more than honoured to meet u again, tomorrow :wink:

[mandangi]

In our relatives also one person married woman elder than him in age.

[blahblah]

Scorpio,Don't argue with him.Read NOV's signature line.I too have the temptation to make some things clear to this guy.I will tell you that I haven't seen a better idiot for a long time.First his beauty[ :lol: :lol: ],then his confidence. :lol:

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"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves,and wiser people so full of doubts"-Bertrand Russel

[Akash]

In our relatives also one person married woman elder than him in age.
So you r all relatives!!

[mandangi]

I never bother about arguements of blunt people.

[Akash]

blahblah, You r such an EYE OPENER
Thanks for remaining me the things..... :D :D :D

[scorpio]

""The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves,and wiser people so full of doubts"-Bertrand Russel"

BlahBlah,

No truer words have been spoken in the hub today! 8)

Romba thanks saare!

[mandangi]

Already i said that i am extra ordinary person. I dont bother about people who think that i am fool.

[visu]

thalaiva! Carry on!

"Manam irunthaal maarkam undu"

[Querida]

I too have the temptation to make some things clear to this guy.I will tell you that I haven't seen a better idiot for a long time.First his beauty[ :lol: :lol: ],then his confidence. :lol:


"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves,and wiser people so full of doubts"-Bertrand Russel

Ouch! :P

[mandangi]

Using vulgar words like idiot shows that person is how civilised. I dont bother about such uncivilised people.

[Badri]

Good Grief! Some people just don't take a hint, what?

What do they expect you to do, hit them on the head with it?

I joined the club just recently, and have been having a hoot with this guy's postings! Shouldn't the moderator move all of these into "Joke A Day" or some such post?

I just hope people don't think me mad, laughing at the monitor while reading these posts!

:rotfl:

[NM]

Welcome Badri...
Aren't U glad U joined us?? Well..join the club, we all laugh at the monitor :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Badri]

Thanks much, NM...and yeah, I sure am glad to have joined this club.

here's to many more days filled with hilarity...

[Supreme]

Sachin Tendulkar's wife is 5 years elder than him in age. Marrying women 4 or 5 years elder in age is not rare case.

[mandangi]

Sachin Tendulkar's wife is 5 years elder than him in age. Marrying women 4 or 5 years elder in age is not rare case.
William Shakespeare's wife was 8 years elder than him. Not only Sachin Tendulkar and William Shakespeare, there are so many such examples.

[arr]

Sachin Tendulkar's wife is 5 years elder than him in age. Marrying women 4 or 5 years elder in age is not rare case.

Isn't this unnatural??

[arr]

Sachin Tendulkar's wife is 5 years elder than him in age. Marrying women 4 or 5 years elder in age is not rare case.
William Shakespeare's wife was 8 years elder than him. Not only Sachin Tendulkar and William Shakespeare, there are so many such examples.

Then their wives get older soon than the hsubands!!

[mandangi]

Then their wives get older soon than the hsubands!!I too know that. That is not problem to me.

[Shakthiprabha.]

//
Isn't this unnatural??//

//Then their wives get older soon than the hsubands!!//

I PRESUME WE ARE LIVING IN 2005

Anyway, ages back gandhi's wife was elder to him.
Krishna's wives/lovers were elder to him (in mythology).

Wonder why age plays that imp role....! and what if wife gets older soon? Does someone marry for beauty sake??????????

[Sandeep]

Does someone marry for beauty sake??????????

:? What else?

[Shakthiprabha.]

// What else?//

I AM CLULESS AS TO WHAT TO SAY....:huh:

[Sandeep]

// What else?//

I AM CLULESS AS TO WHAT TO SAY....:huh:

Hey SP let me help you in answering me.

Take an arranged marraige.

You see a girl may be talk in private for total 30 mins before you say Yes/No. What will you look for then.

Ofcource caste, social status etc will be taken care by parents but what will you look for.

Take a love marraige.

Do you really think Boys (boys never grow up) look more for character or looks (Ignore the exceptions)

[Shakthiprabha.]

sandeep,

IT MAY BUILD BECAUSE OF LOOKS. Start because of beauty.

But does not LAST because of beauty (which itself is not permanent)

Love lasts because of

UNDERSTANDING,
CARE,
CHARACTER
ATTITUDE
APPROACH

AND JUST LOVE...

NEVER BECAUSE OF BEAUTY (YES, THOUGH I AGREE, to a great extent it starts because of physical attraction)

So one may marry for beauty, BUT....THEY DONT SUSTAIN FOR SHEER BEAUTY SAKE.

Hence, comin back to the topic, IF A WOMAN IS ELDER TO A MAN, and they live for 15 years ....he and she are devoted to each other for other reawsons than beauty.

let her be the first to lose the youth and beauty, THE MARRIAGE STILL STAYS, cause beauty becomes secondary

[Akash]

Do you mean to say Marriage is such 'Complex' Chaos?? :wink: or some thing that you can't get in a Package :roll:

[Sandeep]

Love/Life was so simple before this thread was started.

[Shakthiprabha.]

//Love/Life was so simple before this thread was started.//

//Do you mean to say Marriage is such 'Complex' Chaos?? or some thing that you can't get in a Package //

:rotfl: rotfl:, :rotfl:

I relieve u all, and log out now.....POSTED ENOUGH FOR THE DAY!

I am competing with madangi these days!

TOUCH COMPETITION! lol

and NO........LOVE IS NOT COMPLICATED...

ITS JSUT A *PACKAGE* WHICH HAPPENS.... :lol: and w hich existed even before this thread started :lol:

[mandangi]

//
Isn't this unnatural??//

//Then their wives get older soon than the hsubands!!//

I PRESUME WE ARE LIVING IN 2005

Anyway, ages back gandhi's wife was elder to him.
Krishna's wives/lovers were elder to him (in mythology).

Wonder why age plays that imp role....! and what if wife gets older soon? Does someone marry for beauty sake??????????
I dont feel any problem if my wife get older soon. If marriage is for beauty sake there is nothing wrong if my wife enjoys my beauty more.

[Shakthiprabha.]

//I dont feel any problem if my wife get older soon. If marriage is for beauty sake there is nothing wrong if my wife enjoys my beauty more.//

:lol: ABSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS NO COMMENTS MANDANGI..............

ur wife is ...er... eh...well.........too lucky i guess :D

[mandangi]

If i marry i will mary the woman elder than me only. My style is always extra ordinary.

[scorpio]

"I dont feel any problem if my wife get older soon. If marriage is for beauty sake there is nothing wrong if my wife enjoys my beauty more."

:rotfl: :rotfl:

Oh, I was only smiling at the monitor for the last 2 days, but, today, thanks to Mandangi, I'm back to what I was last week -laughing by clutching my stomach! :roll:

[mandangi]

Laugh or cry. It is your own problem. Not my problem.

[Sandeep]

Women are from Venus
Men are from Mars
Mangandi is from Pluto

[nirosha sen]

:lol: No other hubber is more entertaining than Mandangi Pa!!

Three cheers for Mr M..... :notworthy:

[mandangi]

In Greek mythology Lord Pluto is Yama Dharma Raja. Do you want to say that i am equal to Yama Dharma Raja? No problem. What ever you call. I dont bother.

[blahblah]

In Greek mythology Lord Pluto is Yama Dharma Raja. Do you want to say that i am equal to Yama Dharma Raja? No problem. What ever you call. I dont bother.

Ok Then,alittle amendment-Mandangi is from Saturn. 8)

[Sandeep]

In Greek mythology Lord Pluto is Yama Dharma Raja. Do you want to say that i am equal to Yama Dharma Raja? No problem. What ever you call. I dont bother.

Yes you are proving to be our Yamaraj

[Akash]

Blah Blah did you mean any thing like Satan??

[NM]

In Greek mythology Lord Pluto is Yama Dharma Raja. Do you want to say that i am equal to Yama Dharma Raja? No problem. What ever you call. I dont bother.

Yes you are proving to be our Yamaraj...... :lol: and needs a Yamarani.... :lol: :lol: :lol: any takers??

[blahblah]

:lol: and needs a Yamarani.... :lol: :lol: :lol: any takers??
Ladies,I seriously warn you against the temptation!Particularly becuase the guy involved is beautiful,confident and extra ordinary! :lol:

[NM]

:lol: and needs a Yamarani.... :lol: :lol: :lol: any takers??
Ladies,I seriously warn you against the temptation!Particularly becuase the guy involved is beautiful,confident and extra ordinary! :lol: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

[Shakthiprabha.]

//Ladies,I seriously warn you against the temptation!Particularly becuase the guy involved is beautiful,confident and extra ordinary! //

:D :lol: poor mandangi, I guess he has had his due of being ragged. Lets spare him :(

[arr]

If i marry i will mary the woman elder than me only

Are you already married or about to marry !!

[mandangi]

Are you already married or about to marry !!
I am about to marry.

[Akash]

Congrats, Mandangi!! Advanced wishes for your Married Life...
Soon we like to c, Married Mandangi!!

[buddha_brixton]

"Love means neaver having to say you're sorry" - Erich Segal "Love Story" :)

"Married means having to say you're sorry every time" Buddha_Brixton :(

[jaiganes]

And success means it is always the other person who says sorry to you!! :lol:
I wonder why such a non-existent thing as love should spawn such an interest ???

wonders of in search of bodhi satva....

[buddha_brixton]

Love is state of MIND :?

Marriage is the reality :(

BB

[jaiganes]

Karma is when mind does not accept reality.
Dogma is when mind is compelled to accept the fiction.
I guess Karma really ran over the Dogma!
Marriage wins and Love is lost .. I guess.
exclaims ! I found the buddha! He is in the bulletin board

[scorpio]

Do any of you read Director Selvaraghavan's articles on love called -Kana kaanum kalangal in Anandha vikatan? He narrates true and realistic stories about Love and how it ended in a subtle, nice way.

Now, that Vikatan portal has become a paid site, I've missed reading it for the past couple of weeks.