Your take on girls calling guys DA

[pandabear]

The recent trend is that when a girl befriends a guy, the respect quotient is done with and she adds a 'da' for every sentence, but guys refrain to use 'di' and girls feel it is degradory. Why is this trend catching on? Dont guys have any self respect or are they plain despo to spend time with girls? I am a guy and I hate and stay away from these girls. Would like to see comments from the community (both guys and girls) on what they feel about this... Your take on this issue... :twisted:

[kannannn]

Romba naala onnum proyojanama discussion nadakkalayennu paarthen. A big thanks to the author of this thread :clap: .

[Wibha]

:thumbsup: :lol:

[littlemaster1982]

Pandabear, Welcome to the Hub.

Great post to start with :thumbsup:

[madhu]

ennada nadakkudhu ingE ? :confused2:

[madhu]

ennada nadakkudhu ingE ? :confused2:

:notthatway:

idhu thamizh "dA" alla... bengAli-yil sollum respectful "dA" :noteeth:

[crazy]

:lol:

[thilak4life]

Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

[Roshan]

ennada nadakkudhu ingE ? :confused2:

:notthatway:

idhu thamizh "dA" alla... bengAli-yil sollum respectful "dA" :noteeth:

Madhu,

athukku sariyAna meaning ennAnnu solla mudiyumA? I dont know Bengali :(

[Nakeeran]

Enna Roshan

Adhu DADA vil varum DA ! Means highly respected person . Enna Madhu coreetaa ?

Ok, to the topic. Its common now that girls address their men with Da ( more as to show their fondness may be ).
Di is generally considered disrespectful to address a woman by a man. That shows the male superiority IMO.

[thilak4life]

Di is generally considered disrespectful to address a woman by a man. That shows the male superiority IMO.

Male superiority prevailing over generations ascribed by various external factors.

Now that is an interesting topic by itself, Male superiority was(is) deep - Both omipresent and omnipotent, So every action will have some implication towards female degradation, although the action itself isn't intended to be that way. So expect more scrutinizing, I say.

[Roshan]

Thank Nakkeeran for clarifying :)

What ever it is - I have not (even during school days) and dont address my male or female friends - using da or di, however close they are :)

[Roshan]

Now that is an interesting topic by itself, Male superiority was(is) deep - Both omipresent and omnipotent, So every action will have some implication towards female degradation, although the action itself isn't intended to be that way. So expect more scrutinizing, I say.

True !

[Nakeeran]

Thank Nakkeeran for clarifying :)

What ever it is - I have not (even during school days) and dont address my male or female friends - using da or di, however close they are :)

Well Roshan , its bcaz of the evolution . As the generation changes, new habits, culture, practices evolve which puts to rest the old .

For instance, if you watch the movies of the 50s and 60s, the heroene will be virtually worshipping the hero , by falling at his feet .
Frequently addressing him as en thalaivan , en iraivan etc .
Now the same lyricist may write it as an just avan , dai , daa etc.

Kandapadi kattipudidaa song is one such classic example

[Roshan]

Thank Nakkeeran for clarifying :)

What ever it is - I have not (even during school days) and dont address my male or female friends - using da or di, however close they are :)

Well Roshan , its bcaz of the evolution . As the generation changes, new habits, culture, practices evolve which puts to rest the old .

For instance, if you watch the movies of the 50s and 60s, the heroene will be virtually worshipping the hero , by falling at his feet .
Frequently addressing him as en thalaivan , en iraivan etc .
Now the same lyricist may write it as an just avan , dai , daa etc.

Kandapadi kattipudidaa song is one such classic example

Nakeeran - enna naan pOna generation aaLnu nenekkireengaLaa :lol:

Everyone in my friends circle - have this habit of calling di, da except a few. But I dont know for some reason I dont feel comfortable with that - so i do refrain and as result others refrain from addressing me with da or di.

Having said that - I dont even address my own brother or sisters - with da and di. So I think it's a matter of habit than trend, fashion etc.

[crazy]

I never address any male Da .....other than my brothers, and that is only when we r fighting

Di ...i always address my girl/ female friends that way :)

Da'vo Di'o avanga avanga ishtham........pasanga da pottu koopida vituvathaal thaane ponnunga da poduraanga :roll:

[Anoushka]

I should say I do address all my thambis as "da" but that is reserved only for my own brother and cousins who grew up under my care (as good as my own children). But I am trying to reduce using that as well as all of them are grown up now and I have a feeling that they might be embarrased if I address them that way in front of their friends!

As for using "di" I do not use that with anyone!

[Roshan]

As for using "di" I do not use that with anyone!

Anou :)

[Thirumaran]

As for using "di" I do not use that with anyone!

Have u never used the term VaayaDI :mrgreen:

[Anoushka]

As for using "di" I do not use that with anyone!

Have u never used the term VaayaDI :mrgreen: Thiru, andha term use paNNurathu illayE! :)

[Thirumaran]

Thiru, andha term use paNNurathu illayE! :)

Just for Fun, Anou :P

[Nakeeran]

Anoushka

Atleast DAvinci Code ... .eppadi solveenga.

he he

[Anoushka]

nakeeran :lol: Davinci code-ai davinci code endru thaan solvEn, vinci "da" code endru sollamaatEn :)

[thamizhvaanan]

:thumbsup: :lol:hey arshu... why dont u give ur explanation rather than laughing meaninglessly :twisted:

[MADDY]

:thumbsup: :lol:hey arshu... why dont u give ur explanation rather than laughing meaninglessly :twisted:

cos she tells that "da is legal and di is illegal" ...... :rotfl:

[shobana_in]

in this day and age what is this world coming to

girls calling boys da is OK if the boy feels OK

-THIMURU

[Hulkster]

If you really ask me..calling da or di is no wrong...it is just communication terms....it only depends on how the people perceive the statement...if they dunt like the sound of it they will feel insulted..if not they will move on normally..but in reality it is a pin-sized matter...it cant even be considered a issue.

This seems to be a personally conceived matter rather than that of general relevance..more of feelings and an a opinion rather than how it affects the surrounding people....if we just take the da or di as a fun/friendly style of mixing together we wunt even feel disgusted by it...in fact there are friends who address each other with bad names in a fun and figurative way..i guess this is just a case of an individual not being able to take it in a fun way of communication :D

[Sanguine Sridhar]

well what to say, super thread! :lol2:

andha 'da' ku prechana illana..di andha 'da'-va ... 'da'-ne koopdalam! 8-)

andha 'da'ku thanna da-nu koopduradhu pudikalana moonjukku nera solidalam! :yes:

da-nu koopdra andha 'di' konjam super figure-na pasanga gammunu thaan irrupaanunga... --> Idhu oru exception! :mrgreen:

[Nerd]

Soooper thread :lol:

Da -- If that girl is really close with me, I would not mind at all.

(Among guys)vaanga sir, epdi irukkinga-nu solrathukkum, machi epdida irukka-kkum enna vithiyAsam? adhE dhaan oru ponnu oru payyana, vaanga class-kku pOgalaam-nu solRathukkum, class-kku pOgalAm vAdA-nu solradhukkum viththiyaasam.

Da is extremely essential for friendship, between both the sexes. It is not derogatory at all :P

[maithree]

Bloddy Donjenje Double Standards! :angry2: they call us Da all the time, and I called one Di and she acted like I was trying to steal $20 from her purse!! :banghead:

So still, Wibho is the only girl I can call DI and still get away with! :lol2:

[Nerd]

Da sounds cute, Di does not.

Girls can call boys with the suffix da. It will not sound odd. Can any of you guys add the suffix di while addressing your male friends?? :rotfl:

[villan007]

:roll:

[maithree]

Va di Villa! 8-)

[kannannn]

Can any of you guys add the suffix di while addressing your male friends??
Yen, nambalum chellama "Vaadi, irukku onakku"-nnu solradhillaya?

[Sanguine Sridhar]

Can any of you guys add the suffix di while addressing your male friends??
Yen, nambalum chellama "Vaadi, irukku onakku"-nnu solradhillaya?

Point!! Ukkandhu yosipinga pola!! :lol:

[villan007]

Va di Villa! 8-)

:shock: :x

[maithree]

Va di Villa! 8-)

:shock: :x

:lol: Yeah that sounds too awkward. I'm gonna stick with "man" or "machi"

[thilak4life]

Da sounds cute, Di does not.

Girls can call boys with the suffix da. It will not sound odd. Can any of you guys add the suffix di while addressing your male friends?? :rotfl:

Adha daan naa appove sonnaen.. Maybe indirectly when I said gals pick on the 'tags' that Guys use. I agree that none of the friendly tags are derogatory but as I said before, people would create noise in vacuum!

Nerd,

Are the foll. words substitute for da/di in English?? :p

'dude' for 'da' and 'babe' for 'di'????

[maithree]

'dude' for 'da' and 'babe' for 'di'????

Dude is Da.

Babe is "Ur Hot"

So when someone says "Wassup Babe" they're saying, "Wassup...ur hot."

I don't think an ugly girl has ever been called a babe. :confused2:

[kannannn]

Point!! Ukkandhu yosipinga pola!! :lol:
opice-la vera enna velai? :lol:

[Nerd]

Can any of you guys add the suffix di while addressing your male friends??
Yen, nambalum chellama "Vaadi, irukku onakku"-nnu solradhillaya?

adhu kalaaikkiRathukku kannan :lol:

generally speaking, vaadi namba movie pOlam-nA solluveenga. ingeyE paarunga villan tension aayittaaru :rotfl:

Thilak, sema point. ponnunga saga ponnungaLa dude pottu koopiduRAnga, babe pOttu koopiduRAnga. Let me try:

Hi villan babe, whats up :lol2:

[thilak4life]

'dude' for 'da' and 'babe' for 'di'????

Dude is Da.

Babe is "Ur Hot"

So when someone says "Wassup Babe" they're saying, "Wassup...ur hot."

I don't think an ugly girl has ever been called a babe. :confused2:

then what for 'di'?

I've heard some of my friends (gals) addressing themselves as 'babe' in spite of looks? Has it become that way?

Anyway, whats 'di' in English?

[villan007]

Hi villan babe, whats up :lol2:

right , next-u meet panren :irked:

[kannannn]

Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

[thilak4life]

Thilak, sema point. ponnunga saga ponnungaLa dude pottu koopiduRAnga, babe pOttu koopiduRAnga. Let me try:

Hi villan babe, whats up :lol2:

:rotfl:

[thilak4life]

Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

Seriously. I thought it was the case everywhere. :?

[Nerd]

Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

kannan, you are probably too old for all this :lol2:

It has been happening for the past 3-4 years, I guess. ellAm ultra-modern ponnungaLAm :lol: USA and other western countries-la OK, theynampettai-lErunthu varra ponnungaLLAm babe use panna aarambichuttAnga :cry:

[Wibha]

Bloddy Donjenje Double Standards! :angry2: they call us Da all the time, and I called one Di and she acted like I was trying to steal $20 from her purse!! :banghead:

So still, Wibho is the only girl I can call DI and still get away with! :lol2:

ada paavi :hammer: :hammer: i never allowed u to put DI :hammer: :angry2:

[thamizhvaanan]

It may be arrogant to call girls "di" but its cute to call them "da" ... like hi da, saaptiya :lol:

My friend uses this technique so that his dad wont know that he is talkin to a gal :lol2:

[crazy]

I dont know why, but if my annas says Di to me, i get mad :oops:

[Wibha]

:thumbsup: :lol:hey arshu... why dont u give ur explanation rather than laughing meaninglessly :twisted:


solrean iru :evil:

i use DA to most my close frnds..........and my cuz brothers......................i use it to some ppl wen dey put DI to me................:hammer: :hammer:

DA is a more friendly,down to earth word...DI sounds more disrespectful :x

[kannannn]

Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

kannan, you are probably too old for all this :lol2:
:cry: :cry: truth hurts.. the only touch I have with what's happening in the current generation is through movies. Innum pudhu padangal paarkanum..


It has been happening for the past 3-4 years, I guess. ellAm ultra-modern ponnungaLAm :lol: USA and other western countries-la OK, theynampettai-lErunthu varra ponnungaLLAm babe use panna aarambichuttAnga :cry:
:rotfl: :rotfl:

[crazy]

:thumbsup: :lol:hey arshu... why dont u give ur explanation rather than laughing meaninglessly :twisted:


solrean iru :evil:

i use DA to most my close frnds..........and my cuz brothers......................i use it to some ppl wen dey put DI to me................:hammer: :hammer:

DA is a more friendly,down to earth word...DI sounds more disrespectful :x

:rotfl: :rotfl:

[ajithfederer]

Nerd gaaru , do u call anni as da or di?? :lol2:


Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

kannan, you are probably too old for all this :lol2:

It has been happening for the past 3-4 years, I guess. ellAm ultra-modern ponnungaLAm :lol: USA and other western countries-la OK, theynampettai-lErunthu varra ponnungaLLAm babe use panna aarambichuttAnga :cry:

[Nerd]

Nerd gaaru , do u call anni as da or di?? :lol2:

Strictly, no digressions allowed here :twisted:

[thilak4life]

Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

kannan, you are probably too old for all this :lol2:

It has been happening for the past 3-4 years, I guess. ellAm ultra-modern ponnungaLAm :lol: USA and other western countries-la OK, theynampettai-lErunthu varra ponnungaLLAm babe use panna aarambichuttAnga :cry:

:rotfl: :rotfl: :exactly:

And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For some reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

[Wibha]

I dont know why, but if my annas says Di to me, i get mad :oops:

:lol: not just u :P

[ajithfederer]

:exactly: Machi



Nerd, adhuvum saridhaan :lol: Yaaraiyaavadhu pagaichikkanumnna appadi koopdalam. Thilak, girls addressing themselves as 'babe'? Idhu enna pudhu kadhai? :shock:

kannan, you are probably too old for all this :lol2:

It has been happening for the past 3-4 years, I guess. ellAm ultra-modern ponnungaLAm :lol: USA and other western countries-la OK, theynampettai-lErunthu varra ponnungaLLAm babe use panna aarambichuttAnga :cry:

:rotfl: :rotfl: :exactly:

And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For the same reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

[ajithfederer]

:twisted:


Nerd gaaru , do u call anni as da or di?? :lol2:

Strictly, no digressions allowed here :twisted:

[crazy]

I dont know why, but if my annas says Di to me, i get mad :oops:

:lol: not just u :P

wibha, thats not my fault actually
my annas let me say da.........so i say da :)
avangalukku pidichi iruppathaal thaane da solla vituraanga :D

[Nerd]

And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For some reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

But there is a disadvantage :lol2:

Hey that thilak dude can't speak english, ya

ya ya

:rotfl: Just kidding.

[Wibha]

And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For some reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

But there is a disadvantage :lol2:

Hey that thilak dude can't speak english, ya

ya ya

:rotfl: Just kidding.


:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

[thilak4life]

And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For some reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

But there is a disadvantage :lol2:

Hey that thilak dude can't speak english, ya

ya ya

:rotfl: Just kidding.

Cha cha..you're not. One day, there was some discussion about condescension of non-English speakers. I spoke in English to prove a point :lol:

But later, a friend (gal) : I always thought you can't speak half-decent English.

:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:

[ajithfederer]

Girls :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead:





And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For some reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

But there is a disadvantage :lol2:

Hey that thilak dude can't speak english, ya

ya ya

:rotfl: Just kidding.

Cha cha..you're not. One day, there was some discussion about condescension of non-English speakers. I spoke in English to prove a point :lol:

But later, a friend (gal) : I always thought you can't speak half-decent English.

:banghead: :banghead: :banghead:

[crazy]

:lol: :oops: :roll:

[Nerd]

Girls :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead:


:notthatway:

only a FEW girls are peter (Mary :lol2: )

[Wibha]

Girls :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead:


:x

[crazy]

Girls :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead:


:notthatway:

only a FEW girls are peter (Mary :lol2: )

:exactly:

[ajithfederer]

jk :P


Girls :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead:


:x

[thilak4life]

Girls :rotfl: :rotfl: :banghead:


:notthatway:

only a FEW girls are peter (Mary :lol2: )

:exactly:

Yeah, I agree too. Thats why I said 'a friend'. Not generalizing 'everyone'. Even Feddy didn't mean that way.

But this supposedly 'hip' culture is catching up in Indian metros. This is both good and bad. This Englepees thingy isn't bad but just that, sometimes it irks the heck out of you! :evil:

[Wibha]

Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl

[crazy]

hayya........enakku English pesa theriyaathu :oops: :ashamed:

[thamizhvaanan]

And some of 'em say it with a fake accent - For some reason, I don't speak in Englepees with any girls - Either they would assume I am a Peter or they would think I am flirting - No Englepees, strictly!!!!

But there is a disadvantage :lol2:

Hey that thilak dude can't speak english, ya

ya ya

:rotfl: Just kidding.

:rotfl:

[Nerd]

[b]If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'


Out of all this, IMHO ya is the most irritating :twisted:

But nothing is as irritating as chEran suffixing da with each and every word he says to navya :banghead:

[thilak4life]

[b]If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'


Out of all this, IMHO ya is the most irritating :twisted:

But nothing is as irritating as chEran suffixing da with each and every word he says to navya :banghead:

:exactly: :banghead: :banghead:

[thamizhvaanan]

Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl:x he is talking abt gals.. nee edhukku nadula vara ? :evil:

Maybe thilak is correct... i dunno. I never listen (eavesdrop) on gals discussions.... they are so boring :banghead: :lol2:

[Wibha]

[b]If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'


Out of all this, IMHO ya is the most irritating :twisted:

But nothing is as irritating as chEran suffixing da with each and every word he says to navya :banghead:

:rotfl2: :rotfl: :rotfl2: :rotfl2:

[ajithfederer]

:rotfl: :rotfl:



Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl:x he is talking abt gals.. nee edhukku nadula vara ? :evil:

I never listen (eavesdrop) on gals discussions.... they are so boring :banghead:

[Wibha]

:rotfl: :rotfl:



Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl:x he is talking abt gals.. nee edhukku nadula vara ? :evil:

I never listen (eavesdrop) on gals discussions.... they are so boring :banghead:

i thought someone PAGES ago told me to tell da reason i put da :hammer: in 2 pages i never new a girl will change :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: AF :hammer: :hammer:

look who's talking bout boring conversations..............r's are better dhan guys conversations :banghead:

[thilak4life]

Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl:x he is talking abt gals.. nee edhukku nadula vara ? :evil:

Maybe thilak is correct... i dunno. I never listen (eavesdrop) on gals discussions.... they are so boring :banghead: :lol2:

But seriously, you don't have to eavesdrop, because most of the time, some unique gals in the group do the talking among themselves, about everything from their attire to what colour was the soap dabba they bought from T-nagar the previous day!!! :banghead:

But even though there are few irritations, they are very good friends.

Talkin' about having friends who are gals, I don't know how people have blabbermouths as girlfriends!!!!! No offense meant. Could be the same for gals who have such bfs!!!

[villan007]

hayyo hayyo :lol2:

[crazy]

wibha :rotfl:

[ajithfederer]

Machi ungalukku neraya vishayam therinjirukku :lol2:




Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl:x he is talking abt gals.. nee edhukku nadula vara ? :evil:

Maybe thilak is correct... i dunno. I never listen (eavesdrop) on gals discussions.... they are so boring :banghead: :lol2:

But seriously, you don't have to eavesdrop, because most of the time, some unique gals in the group do the talking among themselves, about everything from their attire to what colour was the soap dabba they bought from T-nagar the previous day!!! :banghead:

But even though there are few irritations, they are very good friends.

Talkin' about having friends who are gals, I don't know how people have blabbermouths as girlfriends!!!!! No offense meant. Could be the same for gals who have such bfs!!!

[Wibha]

Well, as much as we guys keep calling our friends - 'dai', 'mappille', 'machan', 'maama', etc

If you pay close attention, Girls address each other as
'di',
'pa' - yaen pa varalla?,
'ya' - What ya, okay ya, etc!
'babe' - hi babe, wassup babe?', etc - to sound more 'hip'
'da' - it has become common between gals as well', etc..

Now between the Sexes, Guys generally avoid such 'tags' to address the gal while most of the gals have jumped into the 'da' - bandwagon (to call both gals/guys) as they can relate to the 'guy-talks' flying around them while most of us (guys) don't pay much attention to 'gal-talks'.

:lol: :yes: but v never use babe a lot while talking to another girl:x he is talking abt gals.. nee edhukku nadula vara ? :evil:

Maybe thilak is correct... i dunno. I never listen (eavesdrop) on gals discussions.... they are so boring :banghead: :lol2:

But seriously, you don't have to eavesdrop, because most of the time, some unique gals in the group do the talking among themselves, about everything from their attire to what colour was the soap dabba they bought from T-nagar the previous day!!! :banghead:

But even though there are few irritations, they are very good friends.

Talkin' about having friends who are gals, I don't know how people have blabbermouths as girlfriends!!!!! No offense meant. Could be the same for gals who have such bfs!!!

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy :banghead: forever cinema cinema cinema or v girls ;)

[thilak4life]

Machi ungalukku neraya vishayam therinjirukku :lol2:

Feddy, nambA group appidi. NerayA unique and different kinds of interaction has become mandatory !!! :D

[thilak4life]

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy :banghead: forever cinema cinema cinema or v girls ;)

Adhu seri, Naanga appidi koopida maattOm. I've never used the term 'tomboy' - Seriously! And almost every girl in the group have a say over cinema or anything under the sun - I do agree that some people's taste is unique as well :lol:

[thamizhvaanan]

forever cinema cinema cinema or v girls ;):rotfl: nenappu thaan :lol2:

[thilak4life]

forever cinema cinema cinema or v girls ;):rotfl: nenappu thaan :lol2:

:lol: :rotfl:

[Wibha]

forever cinema cinema cinema or v girls ;):rotfl: nenappu thaan :lol2:

it's da FACT :hammer: :banghead:

[maithree]

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy

R u denying the fact that ur a tomboy? :shock:

[thamizhvaanan]

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy R u denying the fact that ur a tomboy? :shock::lol: true... if being there in guyz' MSN conferences always, counts :lol2:

[Wibha]

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy

R u denying the fact that ur a tomboy? :shock:

:banghead: no i'm not............ i meant on behalf of the girls who don't like to be called tomboys

[Wibha]

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy R u denying the fact that ur a tomboy? :shock::lol: true... if being there in guyz' MSN conferences always, counts :lol2:

who adds me in the conference :huh: :angry2:

[thilak4life]

all guys talk bout is cinema,sports,cars,bikes................. if a girl joins u,u call her a tomboy R u denying the fact that ur a tomboy? :shock::lol: true... if being there in guyz' MSN conferences always, counts :lol2:

who adds me in the conference :huh: :angry2:

Kanungala yenna pesukiringa!!! :evil:

[ajithfederer]

:notworthy:


Machi ungalukku neraya vishayam therinjirukku :lol2:

Feddy, nambA group appidi. NerayA unique and different kinds of interaction has become mandatory !!! :D

[ajithfederer]

Maami :rotfl:

[thamizhvaanan]

:lol: true... if being there in guyz' MSN conferences always, counts :lol2:

who adds me in the conference :huh: :angry2:edho oru sadhigaran :banghead:
avan mattum en kaila kidachaan :curse: :hammer:

[Wibha]

:lol: true... if being there in guyz' MSN conferences always, counts :lol2:

who adds me in the conference :huh: :angry2:edho oru sadhigaran :banghead:
avan mattum en kaila kidachaan :curse: :hammer:

uneyea nee :hammer: panipeya? or will u :hammer: ur frnds? :poke:

[Wibha]

Maami :rotfl:

:x enna sirippu?

[ajithfederer]

ellarum ungalai nanna kindal panraal adhaan siriipu :noteeth:


Maami :rotfl:

:x enna sirippu?

[Roshan]

Talkin' about having friends who are gals, I don't know how people have blabbermouths as girlfriends!!!!! No offense meant. Could be the same for gals who have such bfs!!!

:lol: AyyO dont remind - Chance-E illa to tolerate those kinds . thoorathula pArtha udanE OdiduvOm :lol:

[Wibha]

ellarum ungalai nanna kindal panraal adhaan siriipu :noteeth:


Maami :rotfl:

:x enna sirippu?

pasanga :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :banghead: :hammer: :hammer:

[villan007]

freeya vudunga maami :cool:

[Roshan]

ellarum ungalai nanna kindal panraal adhaan siriipu :noteeth:



haha Feddy :rotfl:

[thilak4life]

Talkin' about having friends who are gals, I don't know how people have blabbermouths as girlfriends!!!!! No offense meant. Could be the same for gals who have such bfs!!!

:lol: AyyO dont remind - Chance-E illa to tolerate those kinds . thoorathula pArtha udanE OdiduvOm :lol:

:lol:

[tvsankar]

Ennoda period la girls boys kuda pesaradhae thappu.Appadiyae pesinalum closea pazhaga kudadhu.
(Co Education aga irundhalum)

En son ippo +2 padikaran.Ivan period la ippo idahi pakkiren.

Avanai, Avan Girl friends Da enru solvargal.(Indha Girls pechil soft aga Da sollgirargal.)

En paiyanum avan Girl friends ai Di solli than kupidvan (Avargal style layae Soft aga Di solvan.Anal mudhalil sandaiku vnadhargal.Di solladhae enru.IVan sonnan - Nee da sonna naan di solven enru)

[ajithfederer]

good mom and dad :P
serthutein :)

Ennoda period la girls boys kuda pesaradhae thappu.Appadiyae pesinalum closea pazhaga kudadhu.
(Co Education aga irundhalum)

En son ippo +2 padikaran.Ivan period la ippo idahi pakkiren.

Avanai, Avan Girl friends Da enru solvargal.(Indha Girls pechil soft aga Da sollgirargal.)

En paiyanum avan Girl friends ai Di solli than kupidvan (Avargal style layae Soft aga Di solvan.Anal mudhalil sandaiku vnadhargal.Di solladhae enru.IVan sonnan - Nee da sonna naan di solven enru)

[crazy]

:)

[tvsankar]

Dear ajithfederer,

Good dad mattum illae.Good mum aiyum serthukonga. :)

[rachel]

:lol: :banghead: :lol:

[hi]

I dont like when guys use "di" sounds.. male dominance :x

but when they/we use "da" it's cute :P

[tvsankar]

I dont like when guys use "di" sounds.. male dominance :x

but when they/we use "da" it's cute :P - appo idharku per enna? Female dominance ? :roll: - i feel like that. But en sonoda girl friends ku avan solra di pidichu iruku ... :lol:

[shobana_in]

nerd.......using di for boys is weird ofcourse...

but kavundamani has used it!

vadi parthasarathy :lol:

[crazy]

- appo idharku per enna? Female dominance ? :roll: - i feel like that. But en sonoda girl friends ku avan solra di pidichu iruku ... :lol:

so simple, pidichirundha da/ di pottu koopitadum, pidikkalana........da/di pottu koopitaathe'nu sollitta pocchu :)

ithulla yenna irukku?!

[swathy]

so simple, pidichirundha da/ di pottu koopitadum, pidikkalana........da/di pottu koopitaathe'nu sollitta pocchu :)

ithulla yenna irukku?!

adhane :roll: :wink: :D

[tvsankar]

adhanae - apparama enna - male dominence?

[hi]

adhanae - apparama enna - male dominence?

:lol: anyway it depends on each individual.. personally i dont like when sumone use "di"

crazy,
:D

[selvakumar]

This thread just reminds me the conversation b/w Rajini & Radha in "Raajaaathy Raja"

Rajini : EMAAAA !!

Radha : No response

Rajini : Engaaa ...

Radha : No response

Rajini: AenDI ? :rotfl:

Radha : :angry2: :rotfl:

P.S: ella pasangalum DI podunga... appo thaan INTIMACY jaasthi aagum :lol2:

[Raghu]

Romba naala onnum proyojanama discussion nadakkalayennu paarthen. A big thanks to the author of this thread :clap: .

Kannan, :rotfl:

[Raghu]

P.S: ella pasangalum DI podunga... appo thaan INTIMACY jaasthi aagum :lol2:

thalaiva pinteenga :rotfl:

[Raghu]

Enna Roshan

Adhu DADA vil varum DA ! Means highly respected person . Enna Madhu coreetaa ?



oh athukuthaan Mithun Chakaraborti , Sourav Ganguly ya ellam DADA nu koopiduvangala :roll:

[crazy]

Rajini: AenDI ? :rotfl:

Radha : :angry2: :rotfl:

P.S: ella pasangalum DI podunga... appo thaan INTIMACY jaasthi aagum :lol2:

:rotfl: :rotfl:

[dsath]

9 pages in 2 days !!!!!!!!!! bale CCku sariyana potti.

[Anoushka]

Enna Roshan

Adhu DADA vil varum DA ! Means highly respected person . Enna Madhu coreetaa ?



oh athukuthaan Mithun Chakaraborti , Sourav Ganguly ya ellam DADA nu koopiduvangala :roll: adhE... adhE :)

[thilak4life]

:rotfl:


This thread just reminds me the conversation b/w Rajini & Radha in "Raajaaathy Raja"

Rajini : EMAAAA !!

Radha : No response

Rajini : Engaaa ...

Radha : No response

Rajini: AenDI ? :rotfl:

Radha : :angry2: :rotfl:

P.S: ella pasangalum DI podunga... appo thaan INTIMACY jaasthi aagum :lol2:


:rotfl: :clap:

[swathy]

DI :twisted:

DA :D

I don't like guys calling me DI . DA is ok

I use DA only with guys younger than me and ppl who are very close to me.

[tvsankar]

Oru Di solradhuku boys ku urimai illaiya?

I hate female chavanism........... :banghead:
ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?

idhu friends kite mattum illai. HUsband and Wife relationship lum indha female chavanism .... I hate it.

[Raghu]

Oru Di solradhuku boys ku urimai illaiya?

I hate female chavanism........... :banghead:
ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?

idhu friends kite mattum illai. HUsband and Wife relationship lum indha female chavanism .... I hate it.

:rotfl:

[Wibha]

Oru Di solradhuku boys ku urimai illaiya?

I hate female chavanism........... :banghead:
ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?

idhu friends kite mattum illai. HUsband and Wife relationship lum indha female chavanism .... I hate it.

female chavanism ean irukka koodadhu? :huh:

[tvsankar]

Dear Wibha,
Ungaluku female chavanism pidichu iruka? Enjoy.

Sila vishayangal sila per seinja nalla irukadhu.

indha Da vishayam Betewen Husband and Wife -

Indha Wife ammava agum podhum Da nu kupta - avanga kid um appa vai Da sollum.

Yenna Amma dhan ulagathai uravai relationship ai kaati kodukanam and kathu kodukanam.

Adhanal sila vishayangalil Female chavanism kekka and pakka nanna irukadhu. Idhu en feelings.Thats all.

With Love,
Usha Sankar.

[pavalamani pragasam]

:lol:

[thamizhvaanan]

Oru Di solradhuku boys ku urimai illaiya?

ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?
aangalukku irukkra paranda manapanmai ponnugalukku illai :cry:

:lol2:

[crazy]

Oru Di solradhuku boys ku urimai illaiya?

:notthatway: thaaraalama Di sollittu pogattum :)


ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?

Ellam pasanga thappu akka. Pasanga mattum Da sollathennu solli iruntha, yendha ponnum Da pottu pesaathu (i guess so) :roll:



idhu friends kite mattum illai. HUsband and Wife relationship lum indha female chavanism .... I hate it.


:exactly:

[Wibha]

Oru Di solradhuku boys ku urimai illaiya?

ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?
aangalukku irukkra paranda manapanmai ponnugalukku illai :cry:

:lol2:

:banghead:

TVS:- i agree with you when it comes to husband and wife..........

but otherwise :twisted:

[Wibha]

ADhu enna - ponnunga mattum da sollalam? Pasanga kettukanam?

Ellam pasanga thappu akka. Pasanga mattum Da sollathennu solli iruntha, yendha ponnum Da pottu pesaathu (i guess so) :roll:



:exactly: :yes:

[Lambretta]

Ha! I DARE ne girl younger than me to call me DA! MWAA HAHAHA!! :twisted: :devil:
U jus try, whoever u r, unak'iruku DEE!! JAGARTHAI! :evil:

J/K

:poke: @ girls!
:lol: :rotfl:

[tvsankar]

Lambi,
Ennagareenga? Romba Dhairiyam dhan.......... :lol:

thappu right garadhu issue illai.

Piriyama solra varthaigal within the level - edhuvum nanraga irukum.Edhuvum limit thandinal - konjam nanraga irukadhu.Thats all.

[thamizhvaanan]

TVS:- i agree with you when it comes to husband and wife..........

but otherwise :twisted: otherwise you have a mistaken notion :poke:

[Lambretta]

TV,
:lol: :exactly:

PS- Ebbidi'keerai? :D

[tvsankar]

Dear friends,
Thanks for the nice responses. (Manasila konjam bayam.Thappa indha thread ku vandhutamo nu.Bayam seri achu... He He He..)

[crazy]

:)

[Lambretta]

Lambi,
Ennagareenga? Romba Dhairiyam dhan.......... :lol:
:ty: :lol:
Ennavo........ippidi post pannanum-nu thonithu....:P :D

[thamizhvaanan]

Lamby ... naan sooopera keeren.. :twisted:

come to CC :D

[Wibha]

Lambi,
Ennagareenga? Romba Dhairiyam dhan.......... :lol:
:ty: :lol:
Ennavo........ippidi post pannanum-nu thonithu....:P :D

ungalukku iruku :poke:

[Lambretta]

ungalukku iruku :poke:
Nyanyaninyahnyah :poke: :boo: :2thumbsup: :lol:

[Wibha]

ungalukku iruku :poke:
Nyanyaninyahnyah :poke: :boo: :2thumbsup: :lol:

:confused2:

[Lambretta]

Ha! Gotcha! :2thumbsup: :froggrin:

/DIG :yessir:

[Wibha]

Ha! Gotcha! :2thumbsup: :froggrin:

/DIG :yessir:

kadavulea :banghead: :banghead: :arrow:

[ajithfederer]

Avarayavathu freeaa vidunga maami :yessir:


Ha! Gotcha! :2thumbsup: :froggrin:

/DIG :yessir:

kadavulea :banghead: :banghead: :arrow:

[kb]

naan unnaiye da potu koopitaal uravu koodum allava..

naan unnaiye di potu koopitaal urimai koodum allava :oops: :oops:



i generally dont like this da's and di's..
kalyanam aanapram husband and wife-na it will be more meaningful :lol: :lol:

[rachel]

:rotfl:

[Lambretta]

:rotfl:
:roll:

[podalangai]

Are people here familiar with the "ela" / "elai" type of address which is used in some parts of Tamil Nadu? How comfortable are you using that with members of the opposite sex? :)

[Lambretta]

Are people here familiar with the "ela" / "elai" type of address which is used in some parts of Tamil Nadu? How comfortable are you using that with members of the opposite sex? :)
:?
ela/elai-na leaf illeyo? :confused2: :lol2:

[podalangai]

Are people here familiar with the "ela" / "elai" type of address which is used in some parts of Tamil Nadu? How comfortable are you using that with members of the opposite sex? :)
:?
ela/elai-na leaf illeyo? :confused2: :lol2:
:lol: :rotfl2: :notworthy:

[kb]

Are people here familiar with the "ela" / "elai" type of address which is used in some parts of Tamil Nadu? How comfortable are you using that with members of the opposite sex? :)

i use this to address my friends when i was in india..

but if u use it in front of girls.. it always ends as a joke and they start laughing..

tirunelveli slang always has the gethu and egathaalam effect..

elaai enna look-u... solromilla :)

[ssanjinika]

Romba naal-kku aparam hub ule etti pathen. Ella topic-um romba yosikavekaramadiri errundadhu...eppo post pannarathu kashtam-nnu nenaichu pogalam errunden. Then I saw this thread :lol:
Total vetti thread :wink:

[ssanjinika]

BTW I always thought (assumed) that DA was someform of chella attachment. Guys also call their girlfriends da right?

[RC]

makkaL romba serious-aa discuss-ittu irukkaanga...neenga maasathukku oru thadava etti paathuttu, vetti thread-nu solreenga? :evil:

[ssanjinika]

Romba seriousA eppadi vetti threads create panarathu-nnu yosikaranga pola RC :D

[Lambretta]

BTW I always thought (assumed) that DA was someform of chella attachment. Guys also call their girlfriends da right?
I donno bout GF/BF relationships...:roll:
But I found some husbands call their wives as such....like enna da chellam...... :)

[dsath]

i use this to address my friends when i was in india..

but if u use it in front of girls.. it always ends as a joke and they start laughing..

tirunelveli slang always has the gethu and egathaalam effect..

elaai enna look-u... solromilla :)

Its sort of sweet when i hear them speak like that. My cousins who live in Tirunelveli use that slang and i find it nice, but then again they are boys and don't call a girl elaai.

[Anoushka]

podalai: I've used "ela" with my own brother and no one else... specially when we spend a month or two on holidays in Tirunelveli and come back, I'd use it till the effect wears off :lol:

My Mom still uses "ela" with my brother....

[podalangai]

Its sort of sweet when i hear them speak like that. My cousins who live in Tirunelveli use that slang and i find it nice, but then again they are boys and don't call a girl elaai.

It isn't just slang. Andal uses it in Thiruppavai ("Ella ilangkiliye innam urangudhiyo.."). :) I don't think it is at all common to use it with persons of the opposite sex, other than siblings, cousins, and perhaps spouses. That was why I asked - it is an interesting contrast with "da".

[dsath]

It isn't just slang. Andal uses it in Thiruppavai ("Ella ilangkiliye innam urangudhiyo.."). :) I don't think it is at all common to use it with persons of the opposite sex, other than siblings, cousins, and perhaps spouses. That was why I asked - it is an interesting contrast with "da".
Oh, i didn't know that Andal used it. Thanks for the info Podalangai. :)
In Triunelveli my cousins speak among themselves with le at the end, like 'enle eppadi irruke'. In Madurai they use elai as 'elai eppadi irruke'. My grandma used to address all her younger sons as elai and only in anger she would address women as ela.

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[thamizhvaanan]

:lol:

<digr>
hi TSO, eppadi irukeenga
LTNS :fishgrin:
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[temporary sori-Observer]

TV :fishgrin:

[kb]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q09Anf1S-Rw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-bu_pUX9Yw

:oops: :oops:

[RC]

inga thinnEli kaaranga romba peru irukkaanga-nu theriyudhullA !

Two of my brother-in-laws are from tirunelveli and I used to make fun of them talking(/trying to talk) to them like this.

[Anoushka]

RC: thinevEli karavahugha kita vambu vachukatheeha, appuram aruva eduthuduthu vandhuruvOmla :lol:

[Raghu]

intha da - di ella maana piraichanai pola iruku

[Raghu]

Questionof the day-

athu en namma Prakash raj Ghillie padathila, trisha-va paathu,

nee en chellam -DA -nu solurau, should it not be chellam DE?


:lol2:

[crazy]

romba mukkiyam? :?

[madhu]

romba mukkiyam? :?

edhu ? :confused2:

[crazy]

raghu question'a sonnen :)

[Braandan]

I though that "Da" is the first syllable for "Darling" and "Di" is the first syllable for "Dear". Would anybody who studied all sanga kaalathu Tamizh make sure whether the syllables were used in addressing before the Britishers came to India?

[Hulkster]

I though that "Da" is the first syllable for "Darling" and "Di" is the first syllable for "Dear". Would anybody who studied all sanga kaalathu Tamizh make sure whether the syllables were used in addressing before the Britishers came to India?

finally after 12 pages the topic becomes a serious one from a vetti one :lol2:

I think it might be coincidence as possible the da or di might have come as a result of slang or as a sort of "adding word"...like if we address someone our tongue somehow feels comfortable after adding a "comfortable" word at the end..i feel this is one of them...and if it is true that it is darling and dear then the british have to credit us in the origins of the darling and dear syllables :evil:

[selvakumar]

Braandan,
YOu mean to say if I address a girl as "Aendi", then it means "Aen Dear" :?
If that is the case, alteast few of them should tolerate this way of addressing na :?

[Shakthiprabha.]

oKEI Here is my personal view.

Da / Di is same (Its not that one is cute and other is arrogance)

I basically believe

* WHEN USED between husband and wife (WHEN THEY ARE alone or with themselves at some fond moments) adds to the cuteness of the word :roll:

* When u are very close to some friends (irrespective of gender) WE CAN use da/di if the other person does not have problem with it

* whatever be the case, DO NOT USE IT, amidst 3rd person, WHERE THE RESPECT OF EITHER U OR THE OTHER PERSON may go down, because of such usage.

[Wibha]

Braandan,
YOu mean to say if I address a girl as "Aendi", then it means "Aen Dear" :?
If that is the case, alteast few of them should tolerate this way of addressing na :?


:lol: :lol:

SP akka :cool:

[Tia]

omg "da" is such a frendly way to call a boy...as in close m8 o brother o woteva....or "da" could mean sumthign when sum1 is annoyed....

its just a more casual way to call someone that you know welll....

[Lambretta]

Braandan,
YOu mean to say if I address a girl as "Aendi", then it means "Aen Dear" :?
'hope my wife wud accept this! J/K :P :lol: :lol2:

Aside, 'da chellam' is also used by (some :roll:) men while addressing their wives....

[Wibha]

Braandan,
YOu mean to say if I address a girl as "Aendi", then it means "Aen Dear" :?
'hope my wife wud accept this! J/K :P :lol: :lol2:

Aside, 'da chellam' is also used by (some :roll:) men while addressing their wives....

i've heard guys using it to thier younger sis also :roll:

[crazy]

thangacchiya "chellam, da" pottu koopituvathil enna thavaru or aacharya padurathukku enna irukku? :roll:

[selvakumar]

Braandan,
YOu mean to say if I address a girl as "Aendi", then it means "Aen Dear" :?
'hope my wife wud accept this! J/K :P :lol: :lol2:

Aside, 'da chellam' is also used by (some :roll:) men while addressing their wives....

Machi,
Think about the other possibility. You wife expecting you to accept the usage of "DA" :rotfl: Namakku thaan problem. :oops: :oops: :lol: :lol:

[skanthan]

Girls calling guys DA


Double standards

How about the double standards of men in Indian culture?!!! :banghead: :argh:

[Jilaba]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

[bingleguy]

I love my friends calling me DA :-)

i too call them back the same way .... particularly if they are my very close friends :-)

evvalavu azhagaa irukkum theriyumaa :-)

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

[kb]

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

unga prayer kandipa veena pogaathu.. :smile:


da nu sonna thappu illa.. dai-nu sonna :lol: :lol:

[Sanguine Sridhar]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

ithoda :roll:

[kb]

anthunaala thaan ippaellam.. ponnungala koda pasanga DA potu koopidraanga :D

[selvakumar]

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

No need to PRAY ! The moment your wife hears this, she will be happy instantly and will think about implementing the same ASAP ! :lol: With this, you are giving her "SOMETHING THAT WON'T AFFECT HER IN ANYWAY" ! So, DADEE ! ellam pottu koopitugonga !
&
VASANTH, Idhu neenga rendu perum pesikkum podu mattum thaan. Illa public aagavum allowed ah ! :roll:

[selvakumar]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

ithoda :roll:

:notthatway:
In Jilaba's logic, A women calling men as DA won't come under "Pen Aathikka Veri" :twisted:

[Roshan]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

:banghead: :banghead:

[dev]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

:banghead: :banghead:

:rotfl:

[mgb]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

:banghead: :banghead:
Roshan.. you can ask mazhaikuruvi to read this.. he/she might get an idea of various types of mokkais :rotfl:

[Roshan]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

:banghead: :banghead:
Roshan.. you can ask mazhaikuruvi to read this.. he/she might get an idea of various types of mokkais :rotfl:

hahahahaha - Ganesh :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl2:

[Raghu]

aaaha

inth topic innum thiranthu iruka?? :shock:

pohira pokila parthaal, ithu Tamil Film section-la ulla Super * in Shivaji thread-a beat panidum pola :lol2:

[selvakumar]

omg "da" is such a frendly way to call a boy...as in close m8 o brother o woteva....or "da" could mean sumthign when sum1 is annoyed....

its just a more casual way to call someone that you know welll....

Ithellam OK !
But point is : Why girls don't allow boys to address them as DI ? :lol2:

[tvsankar]

ஒரு பெண் தன் நண்பனை 'டா' போட்டு அழைப்பது தவறில்லை. அது அவள், அவனுக்கு எந்த விதத்திலும் குறைந்தவளில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் தன்னம்பிக்கையின் வெளிப்பாடு..

ஆனால், அதே சமயம், ஒரு ஆண், தன் தோழியை 'டி' போட்டு அழைப்பது மிகவும் தவறு, அது அவனது ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தை உணர்த்துவதாக அமையும். அதற்கு பெண்கள் இடமளிக்கலாகாது.

:banghead: :banghead:

Roshan :notthatway:

Jilabavai :hammer: :hammer: :hammer:

[mr_karthik]

evvalavu azhagaa irukkum theriyumaa :-)

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

yenda, innaikku enna tiffin pannattumda?. naan kitchenla busya irukkenda. Adhanaala kuzhandhikku dress panni ittududa. Pogumbothu kuzandhayai schoolla vittuttu poda. Evening varubothu malligaipoo vaangittu vaada.

[Wibha]

omg "da" is such a frendly way to call a boy...as in close m8 o brother o woteva....or "da" could mean sumthign when sum1 is annoyed....

its just a more casual way to call someone that you know welll....

Ithellam OK !
But point is : Why girls don't allow boys to address them as DI ? :lol2:

di is a very disrespective word :notthatway: da is very down to earth so its' very nice to call da ;) plus ponna public-la di potu koopida koodadhu.wereas u can call a guy da :lol: :|

[thilak4life]

I've called a few of my close friends 'di', slip of lip, :lol2: and not to 'address'. And I don't think, they took it badly. But, they use 'da's all the time, Sure! :)

[ajithfederer]

:rotfl: :rotfl:


evvalavu azhagaa irukkum theriyumaa :-)

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

yenda, innaikku enna tiffin pannattumda?. naan kitchenla busya irukkenda. Adhanaala kuzhandhikku dress panni ittududa. Pogumbothu kuzandhayai schoolla vittuttu poda. Evening varubothu malligaipoo vaangittu vaada.

[Sanguine Sridhar]

oru ponnu oru payyana 'da''da' -nu rendu thadava sonna avvana dhadha-nu nenachupaanga :evil: ....adhey oru ponna payyan 'didi'-nu rendu thadava sonna andha ponna andha payyan sister-a paakuraanu artham...ippo theridha pasanga manasu poo-pola nu? :cry:

[thilak4life]

oru ponnu oru payyana 'da''da' -nu rendu thadava sonna avvana dhadha-nu nenachupaanga :evil: ....adhey oru ponna payyan 'didi'-nu rendu thadava sonna andha ponna andha payyan sister-a paakuraanu artham...ippo theridha pasanga manasu poo-pola nu? :cry:

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl2:

[Wibha]

oru ponnu oru payyana 'da''da' -nu rendu thadava sonna avvana dhadha-nu nenachupaanga :evil: ....adhey oru ponna payyan 'didi'-nu rendu thadava sonna andha ponna andha payyan sister-a paakuraanu artham...ippo theridha pasanga manasu poo-pola nu? :cry:

poi solla oru alavea illama pochu :x

[Lambretta]

Evening varubothu malligaipoo vaangittu vaada.
:lol:
Ibbidipattava mallipoo ellam potukarala? :P :lol2:

[Kreedam]

Oru super figureu "DA" nu sona... Urchaagamdhaan More More

Oru Sothai Figureu "Da" nu sona ... sethu pilayada More more

[saradha_prakash]

Oru super figureu "DA" nu sona... Urchaagamdhaan More More

Oru Sothai Figureu "Da" nu sona ... sethu pilayada More more
Idhu maadhiri pengalum, aangalidam 'super figure', 'sappai figure'nu paarkka aarambichaa enna aagum?.

[Kreedam]

Oru super figureu "DA" nu sona... Urchaagamdhaan More More

Oru Sothai Figureu "Da" nu sona ... sethu pilayada More more
Idhu maadhiri pengalum, aangalidam 'super figure', 'sappai figure'nu paarkka aarambichaa enna aagum?.


Paarkatum :huh:

Onum aagadhu, its all nature female nature needs money and male nature needs beauty ! Idhai VIJAY TV "NEEYA NAANA" liye paarthom ellam girlsum car, flat, panam thaan, aambalainga looks, adakkam etc.!!

Ivalo naal ulagathula Sooriyanum maaravilai manidhargalum maaravilai!

[bingleguy]

evvalavu azhagaa irukkum theriyumaa :-)

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

yenda, innaikku enna tiffin pannattumda?. naan kitchenla busya irukkenda. Adhanaala kuzhandhikku dress panni ittududa. Pogumbothu kuzandhayai schoolla vittuttu poda. Evening varubothu malligaipoo vaangittu vaada.

naan sonnadhu en pondattiya DA ;-) :P :lol:
assuming u a guy ;-) avvalavu kashtamaa ya ungalukku da nnu koopta .... :lol:

[madhu]

evvalavu azhagaa irukkum theriyumaa :-)

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

yenda, innaikku enna tiffin pannattumda?. naan kitchenla busya irukkenda. Adhanaala kuzhandhikku dress panni ittududa. Pogumbothu kuzandhayai schoolla vittuttu poda. Evening varubothu malligaipoo vaangittu vaada.

naan sonnadhu en pondattiya DA ;-) :P :lol:
assuming u a guy ;-) avvalavu kashtamaa ya ungalukku da nnu koopta .... :lol:

:P

[bingleguy]

i pray that my wife calls me da ... instead of some boring ... ennna or ennganga :thumbsup:

No need to PRAY ! The moment your wife hears this, she will be happy instantly and will think about implementing the same ASAP ! :lol: With this, you are giving her "SOMETHING THAT WON'T AFFECT HER IN ANYWAY" ! So, DADEE ! ellam pottu koopitugonga !
&
VASANTH, Idhu neenga rendu perum pesikkum podu mattum thaan. Illa public aagavum allowed ah ! :roll:

DA or DEE comes basically out of affection. and u really cherish if it is somebody dear to u calling u out that way ......... ASAP or ALAP i dont mind ..... i feel there is no reason tat ur wife should call u with utmost respect (da mariyaadhai illai nnu makkal ninaikkira patchathil) and u taking her down for a toss with dee in every sentence ..... appadi DA pottu koopta enna koranju poidumo ;-) pasangalukku ...... :lol:

wat a question ...... idhu enna room or veetula mattum koopidurathukka???? :lol: oru oru idathulayum oru oru maadiri yaa koopiduvaanga ????? enna poruthavarai DA vai oru affection aa thaan paakaren .... NOT a RESPECT factor !

[bingleguy]

en vaarthaigal CRITISISM ai thaanga mudiyaama .... naan bayangaramaa emotional aayi idhai sollivitten nnu irundha karuthaal ;-) indha post ai official aa delete panren ":P

[madhu]

pudikkaadhavanga munnadiye appadi koopidaadha nnu wife kitta sollunga ;-)

vera orutharoda wife koopidurathai paathu kindal pannaaama ;-)

vasanth..

vEra orutharOda wife ungaLai "dA" pOttu koopittA kiNdal seyyavA thONum ? kObam varAdhA ? :evil:

( unless avanga vayasaanavangaLAgavO alladhu appadi koopida koodiya urimai uLLavangaLaagavO irundhAl thavira :cool: )

[saradha_prakash]

pudikkaadhavanga munnadiye appadi koopidaadha nnu wife kitta sollunga ;-)

vera orutharoda wife koopidurathai paathu kindal pannaaama ;-)

BG...

Then why you announced your "PRAYER"(!!!!!!!) in the public?.

So, be ready to face criticisms.

[bingleguy]

pudikkaadhavanga munnadiye appadi koopidaadha nnu wife kitta sollunga ;-)

vera orutharoda wife koopidurathai paathu kindal pannaaama ;-)

BG...

Then why you announced your "PRAYER"(!!!!!!!) in the public?.

So, be ready to face criticisms.

well, truly said .....

[bingleguy]

pudikkaadhavanga munnadiye appadi koopidaadha nnu wife kitta sollunga ;-)

vera orutharoda wife koopidurathai paathu kindal pannaaama ;-)

vasanth..

vEra orutharOda wife ungaLai "dA" pOttu koopittA kiNdal seyyavA thONum ? kObam varAdhA ? :evil:

( unless avanga vayasaanavangaLAgavO alladhu appadi koopida koodiya urimai uLLavangaLaagavO irundhAl thavira :cool: )

:-)

[skanthan]

Da, da, da, da! :lol:

[saradha_prakash]

Da, da, da, da! :lol:

enna periya joke adichuttathaa ninaichu neengale sirichukkireenga?.

[Lambretta]

DA or DEE comes basically out of affection. and u really cherish if it is somebody dear to u calling u out that way ......... ASAP or ALAP i dont mind ..... i feel there is no reason tat ur wife should call u with utmost respect (da mariyaadhai illai nnu makkal ninaikkira patchathil) and u taking her down for a toss with dee in every sentence ..... appadi DA pottu koopta enna koranju poidumo ;-) pasangalukku ...... :lol:
Good point kaka! :thumbsup: :D

Atlhough I would feel a tad uh, uncomfy w/ my wife calling me da :oops: ....I for one, OTOH would NEVER resort to calling her dee :x ....even my dad never addressed my mom tat way!
I agree w/ u on how it sounds degrading while expecting respect from the wife on top of tat! Its mainly such double-standard traits in the previous gen. men tat is the reason y today's girls/women feel like slinging c**p at our culture! :evil:

[bingleguy]

Ys Lamby ..... idhukku munnadi irundha generation eppadi venum naalum irukkattum.... namma generation eppadi irukkaanga appadingardhai paathu dhaan naama decide pannanum ....

This generation ... gals n guys feel pretty close to each other and they treat each other as friends..... also of the same age mostly .... Software industry la CEO vai ye peru solli dhaan koopiduvaanga ! nobody addresses SIR .... which was been done earlier ....... changes are coming up everywhere ...

evvalavo vishayangalil change aaga therinja namakku idhula mattum change aaga enna kashtam nnu enakku purila :roll:

[pavalamani pragasam]

Yes, kaalangaL maaRivittana! oru Padmini, Banumathi, AnjaliDevi oru MGR, Sivaji, Gemini-yai da-nnu vasanam kaRpanai paNni paarkka mudiyaathu! oru Asin, Trisha, Shreya appadiththaan kooppiduvaaLuka! Great trendsetters we have in our hand!

[tvsankar]

Padmnini kaalam mudhal Revathi kaalam varai - kids nos adhigam irundhadhu.Adhanal Brothers and sisters uravugalum irundhadhu.

Pona generation mudhal kids nos kuraindhu, indha brohters and sisters uravugalum kuraiya arambithu vittadhu.

Irandhu pengal mattumae irukum oru veetil, DA enra varthaikae idam illai.So ivanga boy friend and husbandai Da solla asai padalam.

ADhae pol, 2 boys mattumae irukum oru veetil, Di enra varthaik idam illai.So ivargal thangalin Girl friend ai or wife Di solla asai padalam.

Indha DA and DI culture ku idhuvum oru kaaranamga irukalam enru ninaikiren.

Anal , oru ques - Girls DA sollum podhu BOys accept seidhu kolvadhai pol, Girls um BOys Di sollum podhu accept seidhu kondal,
AAnN Aadhikkam vandhadhaga thonravillai.

[pavalamani pragasam]

There is a lot of weight given to words when considered in their proper social setting/context. peN kuzanthaikaLai periyavanga 'da' enRu kooppidum pOthu paasam veLippadum. vaay saNdaiyil 'da'-vum, 'di' yum nichchayamaaka mean disrespect. casual-aaga pesum pOthu 'da'-vum, 'di'-yum neutral enRuthaan ninaikkaNum - no respect or disrespect. But intimate relationships/moments make 'da' & 'di' precious, endearing terms. For those who cherish such relationships/moments casual use of 'da' & 'di' can be unacceptable, kochchaipaduththapaduvathaaka thONum. In other words antha viLichoRkaL for special people only. Blood relations also are included under the special category. Blood ties have an undoubtedly strong case for urimai!

[Lambretta]

Software industry la CEO vai ye peru solli dhaan koopiduvaanga ! nobody addresses SIR .... which was been done earlier .......
Hmm..tats interesting! :) Analum, boss eppuvume boss thaan! :P :lol:
Nope I dont mean 'Sivaji'! :P

Ok ok 'nuff of digression here ( :evil: @ self!)

[bingleguy]

Anal , oru ques - Girls DA sollum podhu BOys accept seidhu kolvadhai pol, Girls um BOys Di sollum podhu accept seidhu kondal,
AAnN Aadhikkam vandhadhaga thonravillai.

Oru velai adhatuvadharkku mattume aangal ubayoga padutharaangalo ennamo ???

[bingleguy]

There is a lot of weight given to words when considered in their proper social setting/context. peN kuzanthaikaLai periyavanga 'da' enRu kooppidum pOthu paasam veLippadum. vaay saNdaiyil 'da'-vum, 'di' yum nichchayamaaka mean disrespect. casual-aaga pesum pOthu 'da'-vum, 'di'-yum neutral enRuthaan ninaikkaNum - no respect or disrespect. But intimate relationships/moments make 'da' & 'di' precious, endearing terms. For those who cherish such relationships/moments casual use of 'da' & 'di' can be unacceptable, kochchaipaduththapaduvathaaka thONum. In other words antha viLichoRkaL for special people only. Blood relations also are included under the special category. Blood ties have an undoubtedly strong case for urimai!

True ... very true ....
:clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap::clap:

[Lambretta]

Oru velai adhatuvadharkku mattume aangal ubayoga padutharaangalo ennamo ???
:exactly: Nammakellam semma ego ba.....! :x :oops:

[bingleguy]

Oru velai adhatuvadharkku mattume aangal ubayoga padutharaangalo ennamo ???
:exactly: Nammakellam semma ego ba.....! :x :oops:

:roll: well ... then this is something tat has to be pondered over !

[Jilaba]

Oru velai adhatuvadharkku mattume aangal ubayoga padutharaangalo ennamo ???
:exactly: Nammakellam semma ego ba.....! :x :oops:

உண்மைதான்.

எல்லாமே ஆணாதிக்க வெறித்தனத்தின் வெளிப்பாடு

[Jilaba]

Padmnini kaalam mudhal Revathi kaalam varai - kids nos adhigam irundhadhu.Adhanal Brothers and sisters uravugalum irundhadhu.

Pona generation mudhal kids nos kuraindhu, indha brohters and sisters uravugalum kuraiya arambithu vittadhu.

Irandhu pengal mattumae irukum oru veetil, DA enra varthaikae idam illai.So ivanga boy friend and husbandai Da solla asai padalam.

ADhae pol, 2 boys mattumae irukum oru veetil, Di enra varthaik idam illai.So ivargal thangalin Girl friend ai or wife Di solla asai padalam.

Indha DA and DI culture ku idhuvum oru kaaranamga irukalam enru ninaikiren.

என்னவோ பெரிய மனோதத்துவ டாக்டர் ரேஞ்சுக்கு பதில் சொல்றீங்க..

வீட்டில்தான் வெறும் ஆண் பிள்ளைகளாகவோ அல்லது வெறும் பெண் பிள்ளைகளாகவோ இருந்தார்கள்... சரி...

ஆனால் பக்கத்து வீடுகளிலும், தெருவில் விளையாடும்போதும், பள்ளியில் படிக்கும் போதும் கூடவா அப்படியே இருந்தார்கள்...??.

நீங்கள் சொல்வது நகைப்புக்கிடமாக இருக்கிறது.

இதுக்கெல்லாம் மூல காரணம் ஆண்களின் அடக்குமுறைதான். அவை அடக்கப்பட, ஒடுக்கப்பட வேண்டும் என்பதோடு, அப்படிப்பட்ட ஆண்களும் சமுதாயத்திலிருந்து தூக்கியெறியப்பட வேண்டும். (ஆனால் அப்படிச்செய்தால் ஒரு ஆணாவது மிச்சம் தேறுவார்களா என்பது கஷ்டமே). இனிமேலாவது இந்த உலகம் பெண்கள் உலகமாக மாற வேண்டும்.

[Jilaba]

Anal , oru ques - Girls DA sollum podhu BOys accept seidhu kolvadhai pol, Girls um BOys Di sollum podhu accept seidhu kondal,
AAnN Aadhikkam vandhadhaga thonravillai.

காலம் காலமாக ஆண்கள் பெண்களை 'டி' போட்டுப் பேசித்தான், பெண்களை அடிமைப்படுத்தி தங்கள் காலடியில் போட்டு மிதித்து வைத்திருந்தார்கள்.

பெண்கள் இப்போதாவது 'டா' போட்டுப் பேச ஆரம்பித்து இருக்கிறார்களே என்று சந்தோஷப்படுங்கள். ஆண்களுக்காக இரக்கப்படாதீர்கள். அவர்கள் எருமைகளோடு பழகிப் பழகி அதுபோலவே ஆகி விட்டனர்.

புதுமைப்பெண்கள் போர்ப்பரணி கொட்டி புறப்படும் காலம் துவங்கி விட்டது. ஆண்கள், பெண்களிடம் மண்டியிட்டு கெஞ்சும் காலம் ஆரம்பித்து விட்டது.

[pavalamani pragasam]

Jilaba, you surprise me a lot! Your vehemence against the opposite sex is tremendous! What has made you so bitter against them? Don't you think it is totally unfair to cry down the whole lot for the sake some erring specimens? Have you never met any gem from that unfortunate half of the human species? I really pity you!

[Nakeeran]

Jilaba, you surprise me a lot! Your vehemence against the opposite sex is tremendous! What has made you so bitter against them? Don't you think it is totally unfair to cry down the whole lot for the sake some erring specimens? Have you never met any gem from that unfortunate half of the human species? I really pity you!

PP Madam

I think , a majority of the previous generation , up to my Dad have been using DEE at will , either out of fondness or arrogance that stems out of a male .
So, I am not surprised by Jilaba's outbursts here

cool 8-)

[pavalamani pragasam]

If that was an evil how will another evil right it? By calling men 'da' with vengeance, not love!!!!

[tvsankar]

Anal , oru ques - Girls DA sollum podhu BOys accept seidhu kolvadhai pol, Girls um BOys Di sollum podhu accept seidhu kondal,
AAnN Aadhikkam vandhadhaga thonravillai.

காலம் காலமாக ஆண்கள் பெண்களை 'டி' போட்டுப் பேசித்தான், பெண்களை அடிமைப்படுத்தி தங்கள் காலடியில் போட்டு மிதித்து வைத்திருந்தார்கள்.

பெண்கள் இப்போதாவது 'டா' போட்டுப் பேச ஆரம்பித்து இருக்கிறார்களே என்று சந்தோஷப்படுங்கள். ஆண்களுக்காக இரக்கப்படாதீர்கள். அவர்கள் எருமைகளோடு பழகிப் பழகி அதுபோலவே ஆகி விட்டனர்.

புதுமைப்பெண்கள் போர்ப்பரணி கொட்டி புறப்படும் காலம் துவங்கி விட்டது. ஆண்கள், பெண்களிடம் மண்டியிட்டு கெஞ்சும் காலம் ஆரம்பித்து விட்டது.

Edho andha kaala aangal ippodhu irukara madhiri sonnal enna artham?

Di pottu pesum angal irukum andha kaalathil dhan ,mosanamana gunam ulla pengalum irundhu irukirargal....

SEri illadha aangal or pengal eppodhum irukirargal...

Anal adharku solution, Da solvadhu onrum illai.

Ingae pesuvadhu, pengal piriyamaga aangalai DA solvadhu patri than Jilaba.pazhi vanguvadhu pol solvadharku illai.

ஆண்கள், பெண்களிடம் மண்டியிட்டு கெஞ்சும் காலம் ஆரம்பித்து விட்டது - Appadi oru kaalam vandhal, UNMAIYILAYAE ULAGAM AZHIYUM KAALAM VANDHU VITTADHU ENRU ARTHAM.....

PENN Enbaval - Thaimai , karunai indha madhiri nalla ullathai kadavul Iyarikaiyilae koduthu irukar.

Unga personal bad experience ku ottu mothamaga oru mosamana mudivai edhir paarkadheergal...

[Nakeeran]

If that was an evil how will another evil right it? By calling men 'da' with vengeance, not love!!!!

Madam

I am not justifying it. Vouching for Jilaba's version on men calling women with Dee yesteryears !

No . No. No vengeance is to be followed. Mutual love is the best

[Shakthiprabha.]

:lol2:

[Wibha]

:lol2:

:roll: enna aachu :roll:

[skanthan]

Da, da, da, da! :lol:

enna periya joke adichuttathaa ninaichu neengale sirichukkireenga?.

When I saw everyone here talking about this word, "da", I remembered a song I heared 10 years ago in which that "Da, da, da, da, da" appears and I just broke down laughing! :lol:

Sowwy! :oops2:

[pavalamani pragasam]

MLV song?

[Shakthiprabha.]

I think he meant

da da da da da da da da da da da da
da da da da da da dadda daddaa

un kaN unnai Emaatrinaal

:?

[Lambretta]

Adadadada.......enna da nadakathu inge? :? :roll: :P

[skanthan]

I think he meant

da da da da da da da da da da da da
da da da da da da dadda daddaa

un kaN unnai Emaatrinaal

:?

:lol2: @ akka!

Hareeee Bhagavaaaaan! :rotfl2:

The song I was talking of was either Russian or German. :lol:

[madhu]

enakku kooda daa di daadi O my daa di
appadinnu oru song ninaivuku varudhu :noteeth:

[Wibha]

enakku kooda daa di daadi O my daa di
appadinnu oru song ninaivuku varudhu :noteeth:

ayyo madhu anna :rotfl2: :banghead:

[Lambretta]

Incidentally, 'da' means yes in Russian! :P