Varshini's diary

[varshini]

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[varshini]

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[Badri]

Hmm.

Melum padikka vendum endra aavalai undu pannum alavirkku azhagaana nadai! :)

[VENKIRAJA]

welcome.good intro.keep it up.write continually.coz such writings wont be nice if with gaps.

[crazy]

welcome varshini'ka

hm interesting pls do continue :)

btw my b.day is also on 8th of july!

[madhu]

welcome varshini'ka

hm interesting pls do continue :)

btw my b.day is also on 8th of july!

but varusham is different ! adhai correct-a sollidanum :roll:

[crazy]

welcome varshini'ka

hm interesting pls do continue :)

btw my b.day is also on 8th of july!

but varusham is different ! adhai correct-a sollidanum :roll:

naanum avanga enna patthi ezhuda poraangannu ninachu thaan year'a mention pannaama vittutten :oops:

btw yr 1986 :(

[varshini]

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[madhu]

:clap: varshini.. very nice. keep it up and write your opinon about other vital topics too ! :thumbsup:

[crazy]

wow :clap:

[Sanguine Sridhar]

very good :clap:

[Sanguine Sridhar]

[tscii:7835a3afed] :evil: ¦¿¡ö¼¡. . . :evil:



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Great work!! excellent thoughts Varshini!! :clap:

[varshini]

[tscii:c85a305d1c]«ý¦ÀÉôÀÎÅР¡¦¾É¢ø. . .

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[crazy]

:)

[varshini]

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[madhu]

hi varshini..

கணவரின் உறவினர்களிடமும் அன்பு காட்ட வேண்டியது
ஒரு பெண்ணின் கடமை என்று அழுத்தம் திருத்தமாகச்
சொல்லும் சமுதாயத்தில், பல இடங்களில் பெண்ணே தன்
சொந்த உறவினர்களை கணவனுக்கு முன் விட்டுக் கொடுக்கும்
பரிதாபங்களும் நடந்து கொண்டுதான் இருக்கிறது.

சுற்றம் என்பது மணமான பெண்ணுக்கு எல்லா உறவினர்களும்
என்றே கொள்ளுதல் வேண்டும் இல்லையா ?

மாமியாரிடம் தர மறுத்து தன் தாயிடமே குழந்தையை விட்டு விட்டு அலுவலகம் செல்லும் பெண்கள் நடுவில் தன் தாயிடம்
குழந்தை அதிக பாசம் காட்டத் துவங்கி விட்டதை அறிந்து
கோபத்துடன் அதை "குழந்தைகள் காப்பகம்" ஒன்றில் விட்டுச்
சென்ற பெண்ணை அறிவேன்.

நீங்கள் சொல்லியிருப்பது போல உண்மை அன்பு மனதில் இருந்தாலே போதும். பகையெல்லாம் கூட உறவாக மாறும்

continue.....

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[Anoushka]

Varshini: interesting... I always think there is more than one side to a story :)

It is not just the girl to be blamed, the mother-in-law, who is much more matured and has been in the d-i-l's shoes before knows what is going on and can talk and help..., the mother of the girl should have spoken to her about this as well...

When our children say "my parents are the best and no one should talk to my parents, etc" we are so proud, we don't think of correcting them that possesiveness is wrong then....

Don't you think this itself becomes a problem later on in life?

I grew up in a family where my parents would have spent a lot of time, energy, money and effort equally on all our cousins just as much as us...

So when I got married it never mattered to me whether my m-i-l or any of my sisters in law got all the attention...

It also comes from what surroundings the children grow up in... if her mother treated her grand parents in a particular way, that stays in the mind and that becomes "the right way" for her to treat her in-laws.

I am not trying to justify what this friend of yours did or said, all I am trying to say is that she is not the only one to blame...

One recent example is that I found it amazing that my sis-in-law could not handle taking care of her sick m-i-l... for a me it was something I couldn't digest...

I grew up in a big family, I've spent many of my summer holidays in hospital taking care of one relative or the other... so taking care of someone sick comes naturally... so much so that I would boss around my bed ridden grand mother when I was hardly in my teens... if she shouted at me for hurting her (when I did physio for her) I would tell her to keep quiet and bear with it... whereas my sis in law was never used to anything like that all her life... I can't blame her for that! All of a sudden this task seems to be a daunting one to her... The fact that she loves her husband and m-i-l dearly doesn't have any effect on this!

:)