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[madhu]

PP akka !

unga story pathi comment / review solla naan layakkilla..
but idhu solluven..
nalla controversial subject-ai eduthu kathi munaiyile kuthikkama jora nadanthirukeenga !

:thumbsup:

[pavalamani pragasam]

:ty: madhu thambi!

[Shakthiprabha.]

Happens...

Bitter truths of current generation.

NO! Not somewhere happening to unknown ppl or in movies / stories anymore.

These incidents are so frequent that it may happen to our very own dear kith and kins too. We may or may not even be aware.

:(

Seriously...

KALI ROMBA MUTHIRUCHU :(

[sipi]

kadhai arumaiyaga irukinradhu, PP....

idhuvum true story 'aa :o :roll:

:( enaku baima keedhuuuu.... :shaking:

[Shakthiprabha.]

sipi :)

[sipi]

edhuku shakthi sirikiringa??? ungaluku enna partha siripa iruka??? :evil:

[pavalamani pragasam]

ithuvum nija kathaithaan, sipi! :cry3:

[sipi]

ithuvum nija kathaithaan, sipi! :cry3:

adhuku neenga en azhuvuringa, PP... its all in the game (life) ;)

[pavalamani pragasam]

illai, sipi, :notthatway: ithai eppadi 'take it in the stride'? We can't help reacting! nallavai nadakkum pOthu makiznthu aatharikkaNum, allaathathu nadakkum pOthu varunthaNum, kaNdikkaNum! ithu nammai aziththu sella vantha tsunami alla, karai katti thadukka mudiyum kaattaaRu enRu ninaikkaNum, pittukku maN sumantha sivan kaalaththil pOl veLLaththai kattup paduththaNum! :yes:

[sipi]

PP, naan kooriyadhai thavaraga eduthu kondirgal...

1. varutha paduradhu / azhuvuradhunala edhuvum maaradhu... neenga sonna maadhiri kandikanum na, adhuku varutha pattu time waste panna koodadhu... :D

2. neenga thiruvilaiyadal la irundhu ex. kaatineergal. angu, vellathai vara vazhaithadhu yaar? sivan thaane? adhe pol idhu pola oru manadhai koduthadhum iraivan thaane... angu vellathai ataika vandhadhu pol, ingum sivane vandhu manadhai maatratum.. :D (JK... )

3. indha maadhiri oru nilamai vara yaaaru kaaranam??? andha mana penna???

ulagathil love pannadhavanga yaarum illa.. marriage ku minnadi ellarume love panni irupanga... ellarukume love failure irukum... love ey naan pannala arrange marriage nu sonna kooda, first alliance ey marriage seidhukiradhu illa...

99% ellarukume love failure undu... 1% love pannalainu poi thaan solluvanga... :D (ennoda karuthu mattum thaaan...)

andha ponna purinjikama, kattaya paduthu marriage panni vachadhu, andha ponnoda parents thappu... edhaiyum visarikama (enna reason oo??? ponnoda azhagu / vasadhi / enna venum na irukalam) avasara pattu marriage panni vachadhu andha paiyanoda parents thappu...

atleast, andha maapilaiyavadhu ponnu kitta oru varthai kettu irukalam. marriage pannika sammadhamanu... (real life la enna aagicho theriyadhu, but mostly yaarum ponnoda virupatha ketkadhadhunala thaan problem varudhu...)

thappa ellarum pannitu, andha ponna mattum kurai sonna ???

ok... onne onnu eduthukalam... 99.99% love failure aana girls yaarum marriage ku appuram avanga x-love aa ninaikiradhu illa... some exceptional case, idhu pola... konjam visarichi marriage seidhu irundha idhu pola problem varadhu...

but, boys la 0.01% thaan x-love aa ninaikama irupanga... indha azhagula adha perumaiya kadhai ya / movie aa kooda edupanga... idhaiye oru girl senja thappu...

oru aanuku venumna, sex romba sadharnama irukalam... manasula oruthiya vachinu innoruthi kooda vazhuradhuku... but, girls apadi illa... avanga romba sensitive... avangala porutha varaikum, kalyana vazhkai punidhamana onnu...

kadaisila appadi oru mudivu eduthadhu, varaverka thakka onnu... andha ponnukum viduthalai, ivanukum vazhkai amaiyum...but, idha andha paiyan firstey solli irukalam...

anyway, :clap: to PP... super aa kadhai ezhudhuringa...

PP, x-lover ninaikiradhum, aanamai kuraiyum pathi ezhudhuringale... idhu romba sadharna vishayam... nivarthi senjika koodiyadhu... silar ellarum illa, AIDS irukuradhu therinjum, society prestige kaga marriage seirangale... adha thaaki oru story ezhudha koodadha?

[Designer]

இந்த மாதிரி உன்மை சம்பவங்களை கதை மூலமாக எல்லோருக்கும் சொன்னதற்காக உங்களுக்கு என் மனமார்ந்த பாறாட்டுக்கள் :clap: . நீங்கள் கூருவதுபோல் இது சுனாமி அல்ல, அணை கட்டி தடுக்க கூடிய காட்டாறு தான். இந்த மதிரி நடப்பதை தடுக்க எல்லோரும் முயற்சி செய்ய வேன்டும். சுதந்திரம் என்ற பெயரில் எப்படிவேன்டுமானாலும் வாழலாம் என்று நினைக்கும் இளைஞர்களுக்கு, அப்படி வாழ்வது நமது கலாசாரதுக்கு புறம்பானது என்று புரியவைக்கவேன்டும். அது யானை தன் மீது தானே மண் தூவிகொள்கிறது போல் ஆகும் என்றும் எடுத்து கூரவேன்டும். அதற்கு இந்த ஹப் (மய்யம்) போன்ற இளையதளங்கள் ஒரு வழிக்காட்டியாக இருக்க உதவுகிறது என்று சொல்லலாம். :thumbsup:

[Shakthiprabha.]

P

3. indha maadhiri oru nilamai vara yaaaru kaaranam??? andha mana penna???

andha ponna purinjikama, kattaya paduthu marriage panni vachadhu, andha ponnoda parents thappu... edhaiyum visarikama (enna reason oo??? ponnoda azhagu / vasadhi / enna venum na irukalam) avasara pattu marriage panni vachadhu andha paiyanoda parents thappu...

atleast, andha maapilaiyavadhu ponnu kitta oru varthai kettu irukalam. marriage pannika sammadhamanu... (real life la enna aagicho theriyadhu, but mostly yaarum ponnoda virupatha ketkadhadhunala thaan problem varudhu...)

thappa ellarum pannitu, andha ponna mattum kurai sonna ???


oru aanuku venumna, sex romba sadharnama irukalam... manasula oruthiya vachinu innoruthi kooda vazhuradhuku... but, girls apadi illa... avanga romba sensitive... avangala porutha varaikum, kalyana vazhkai punidhamana onnu...



TYPICALLY my views.

:thumbsup:

The girl infact is TOO GOOD, that she does not wanna live a hypocrite life.

Manasala orutharai virumbarathu is equal to commitment.
Definitely.

Apdi irukkum pothu, sila pengaL kaathal enbathai AVVALAVU eLithil sulabamaay vittu vida mataargaL.

MANAM MAARATHU. maarivittathaay poiyaay nadikka sila peNgaL viruppam ilaamal irupaargaL.

vaazhthaal unmaiya vazhanam, enbathu avanga koLgaiyaay irukkalaam.

manathil oruvarai uruvaga paduthi kondu, kanavanai varintha piragu, innoruvarin uravu KASAKKALAAM.

This is typically a case of woman refusing remarriage after her husband's death. For most woman, LOVE, SEX, DESIRE, LUST and everything related to it, blossoms JUST ONCE just with ONE PERSON.

thappu ponnu mela nichiyama illai.

[Shakthiprabha.]

இந்த மாதிரி உன்மை சம்பவங்களை கதை மூலமாக எல்லோருக்கும் சொன்னதற்காக உங்களுக்கு என் மனமார்ந்த பாறாட்டுக்கள் :clap: . நீங்கள் கூருவதுபோல் இது சுனாமி அல்ல, அணை கட்டி தடுக்க கூடிய காட்டாறு தான். இந்த மதிரி நடப்பதை தடுக்க எல்லோரும் முயற்சி செய்ய வேன்டும். சுதந்திரம் என்ற பெயரில் எப்படிவேன்டுமானாலும் வாழலாம் என்று நினைக்கும் இளைஞர்களுக்கு, அப்படி வாழ்வது நமது கலாசாரதுக்கு புறம்பானது என்று புரியவைக்கவேன்டும். அது யானை தன் மீது தானே மண் தூவிகொள்கிறது போல் ஆகும் என்றும் எடுத்து கூரவேன்டும். அதற்கு இந்த ஹப் (மய்யம்) போன்ற இளையதளங்கள் ஒரு வழிக்காட்டியாக இருக்க உதவுகிறது என்று சொல்லலாம். :thumbsup:

DES,

What is KALAACHARA KEDU HERE? can u please elaborate?

Sunthanthiram endra peril nadantha thavaru ingu ethu?

[Designer]

SP : what i understand from this true story is that, the girl kept her ex-lover's photo with her even after marriage (maybe even kept in touch with him?). and that she went on loving her ex-lover even after marriage. that's the "kalaachaara kEdu" i mentioned about.

if she's bold enough (before marriage) to have a secret love affair without her parents' knowledge, she should also have had the guts to protest to her parents, against such a forced marriage in the first place.

if she had divorced her husband after explaining things to him, then that would have been the proper thing to do. there are some girls (and boys) who meet their ex-lovers even after marriage. ithu thaan "suthanthiram enRa pEril nadakkum thavarugaL". intha mathiri seiyyum payyanaiyum paarthirukkEn, peNNaiyum paarthirukEn.

maybe i am old fashioned or an idealist, but i believe that, after marriage a person should not have any contact with his or her ex lover. however one may have been in the past, once a person has married another, he (or she) must be 100% loyal to the wife (or the husband), as the case may be.



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TYPICALLY my views.

:thumbsup:

The girl infact is TOO GOOD, that she does not wanna live a hypocrite life.

Manasala orutharai virumbarathu is equal to commitment.
Definitely.

Apdi irukkum pothu, sila pengaL kaathal enbathai AVVALAVU eLithil sulabamaay vittu vida mataargaL.

MANAM MAARATHU. maarivittathaay poiyaay nadikka sila peNgaL viruppam ilaamal irupaargaL.

vaazhthaal unmaiya vazhanam, enbathu avanga koLgaiyaay irukkalaam.

manathil oruvarai uruvaga paduthi kondu, kanavanai varintha piragu, innoruvarin uravu KASAKKALAAM.

This is typically a case of woman refusing remarriage after her husband's death. For most woman, LOVE, SEX, DESIRE, LUST and everything related to it, blossoms JUST ONCE just with ONE PERSON.

thappu ponnu mela nichiyama illai.

SP : the girl should have explained her feelings to her parents BEFORE the marriage itself, instead of marrying another guy and spoiling his life too. neither was she happy nor could she make her husband happy. some girls start loving a guy, but on parental pressure or due to fear of society, end up getting married to another guy. why can't the girls think twice, thrice and as many times as required, before entering into a love affair ? when the girl very well knows that her parents will not give their consent for a love marriage, then why does she do it in the first place ? THAT is her mistake - in not realising that life is not some kinda film story where love affairs usually succeed.

I am not saying the girl ( in this true story ) alone is to blame - her parents must also share in it since they forced her to marry another boy inspite of knowing about her love affair.

It may be a digression, but i wish to add that parental attitudes HAVE changed in recent times as can be witnessed in the increasing number of love marriages and inter caste marriages taking place nowadays.

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atleast, andha maapilaiyavadhu ponnu kitta oru varthai kettu irukalam. marriage pannika sammadhamanu... (real life la enna aagicho theriyadhu, but mostly yaarum ponnoda virupatha ketkadhadhunala thaan problem varudhu...)

sipi : intha kaalathule neraya pEr poNNaiyum payyanaiyum thaniya pEsa anumathikkaraanga. they are allowed to talk privately in a room in the girl's house itself, either during pOn paarkum padalam or soon afterwards. after a frank exchange of each other's views, both are assured of each other's commitment for the alliance. but the boy cannot go about asking each and every girl whether she has an on going love affair, and whether she wants to marry him only. ( whenever the boy & his parents go to see a girl ).




thappa ellarum pannitu, andha ponna mattum kurai sonna ???

ok... onne onnu eduthukalam... 99.99% love failure aana girls yaarum marriage ku appuram avanga x-love aa ninaikiradhu illa... some exceptional case, idhu pola... konjam visarichi marriage seidhu irundha idhu pola problem varadhu...


your 2nd sentence answers your own question : antha mathiri senjathanaalEthan antha peNNai kurai solraanga.



but, boys la 0.01% thaan x-love aa ninaikama irupanga... indha azhagula adha perumaiya kadhai ya / movie aa kooda edupanga... idhaiye oru girl senja thappu...

oru aanuku venumna, sex romba sadharnama irukalam... manasula oruthiya vachinu innoruthi kooda vazhuradhuku... but,girls apadi illa... avanga romba sensitive... avangala porutha varaikum, kalyana vazhkai punidhamana onnu...

appo aaNgaL kalyaNa vaazhkaiyai punidhamaanathaaga ninaikkale nu solreengaLa ?



kadaisila appadi oru mudivu eduthadhu, varaverka thakka onnu... andha ponnukum viduthalai, ivanukum vazhkai amaiyum..but, idha andha paiyan firstey solli irukalam...


ya he could have done that, but maybe the boy thought or hoped that she would love him eventually, who knows ?

[sipi]

atleast, andha maapilaiyavadhu ponnu kitta oru varthai kettu irukalam. marriage pannika sammadhamanu... (real life la enna aagicho theriyadhu, but mostly yaarum ponnoda virupatha ketkadhadhunala thaan problem varudhu...)

sipi : intha kaalathule neraya pEr poNNaiyum payyanaiyum thaniya pEsa anumathikkaraanga. but the boy cannot go about asking each and every girl whether she has an on going love affair, and whether she wants to marry him only. ( whenever the boy & his parents go to see a girl ).

naan enna sollureno, adhaiye neenga maathi solluringa designer... ella time laiyum girl ey vandhu solluvangannu edhir parkalama... namma life nalla irukanum na, naama ella girl kittaiyum kettu thaan aaganum.... marriage ku sammadhamanu... parthadhum, andha ponnu manasula enna iruku nu onnum kandu pidika mudiyadhe...

adhuvum illama, innum namma country la girls ku full freedom kodukula... avanga virupa padi nadandhuka viduradhu illa... innum poliyana pechukalilaiye emathinu irukom... culture, tradition nu...

neengale sonninga, thaniya pesika vidurangannu... thaniya en pesa viduranga?? unaku endha hero / heroine pidikum or enna colour pidikum nu therinjikava??? pidichi iurka pidikalaiya nu therinjika thaane...

boys, unaku indha marriage la sammadhama, enna marriage pannika virupamanu oru varthai ketta en idhu pola problems ellam vara pogudhu???




thappa ellarum pannitu, andha ponna mattum kurai sonna ???
some exceptional case, idhu pola


your 2nd sentence answers your own question : antha mathiri senjathanaalEthan antha peNNai kurai solraanga.

again wrongly understand... some exceptional case, idhu pola...ponna ketkama ponnu sammadhatha therinjikama kattaya paduthi marriage seiradhunala thaan idhu pola problem varudhunu sonnen...

naan solla vandhadhu... andha ponna kurai solradhu thappu... thappu la ellarukume pangu iruku nu thaan.... innum keta, andha ponnoda pangu romba romba kammi....



girls apadi illa... avanga romba sensitive... avangala porutha varaikum, kalyana vazhkai punidhamana onnu...
appo aaNgaL kalyaNa vaazhkaiyai punidhamaanathaaga ninaikkale nu solreengaLa ?

not 100 % but, mostly.... enna porutha varaikum, mostly endha aanum kalyana vazhkaiya oru ponnu pola punidhama ninaikiradhu illa / thannoda vazhkaiya ninaikiradhu illa... venumna, child elam pirandhadhuku appuram venumna, aangal, life / marriage mela romba akkarai kaatalam... adhu varaikum illa.. (ennoda karuthu)



but, idha andha paiyan firstey solli irukalam...


ya he could have done that, but maybe the boy thought or hoped that she would love him eventually, who knows ?

hmmm... acceptable point... like mouna raagam movie maadhiri??? hmmm

[sipi]

:evil: PP, stories ellam thadai seiyanum.... vitta, adithadi vettu kuthu ellam nadakum pola... :D just joking...

stories, ellam romba kaara saarama comments varudhu... good writing...

[sipi]

Manasala orutharai virumbarathu is equal to commitment.
Definitely.

MANAM MAARATHU. maarivittathaay poiyaay nadikka sila peNgaL viruppam ilaamal irupaargaL.

vaazhthaal unmaiya vazhanam, enbathu avanga koLgaiyaay irukkalaam.

This is typically a case of woman refusing remarriage after her husband's death. For most woman, LOVE, SEX, DESIRE, LUST and everything related to it, blossoms JUST ONCE just with ONE PERSON.

thappu ponnu mela nichiyama illai.

very true words shakthi.... idhu girl mattum iruka koodadhu... boys um ippadi thaan irukanum...

[sipi]

KALI ROMBA MUTHIRUCHU :(

enakum idha ninaicha thaan baima iruku....

[sipi]

PP, x-lover ninaikiradhum, aanamai kuraiyum pathi ezhudhuringale... idhu romba sadharna vishayam... nivarthi senjika koodiyadhu... silar ellarum illa, AIDS irukuradhu therinjum, society prestige kaga marriage seirangale... adha thaaki oru story ezhudha koodadha?

PP, ennoda request niraiveruma???

[sipi]

the girl kept her ex-lover's photo with her even after marriage (maybe even kept in touch with him?). and that she went on loving her ex-lover even after marriage. that's the "kalaachaara kEdu" i mentioned about.

hmmm correct designer... idhu kalachaara kedu thaan... but, ipadi valarava vittadhu yaaru??? ponnoda manasa purinjikama irukura sila parents thaane (maybe, some times parents are too good... avanga than ponnu nalla vazhanum nu kooda aasai pattu seiyalam...) but, idhu pola exceptional case mattum solluren...



there are some girls (and boys) who meet their ex-lovers even after marriage. ithu thaan "suthanthiram enRa pEril nadakkum thavarugaL". intha mathiri seiyyum payyanaiyum paarthirukkEn, peNNaiyum paarthirukEn.

idhu pola niraiya iruku.... adhuvum girls aa vida boys la jasthi... enaku therinji oru paiyan, avanoda ex-lover aa second marriage pannikitanga... first wife um sammadham koduthutanga... (oru vela vera vazhi illama irukalam...)


maybe i am old fashioned or an idealist, but i believe that, after marriage a person should not have any contact with his or her ex lover. however one may have been in the past, once a person has married another, he (or she) must be 100% loyal to the wife (or the husband), as the case may be.

no designer... you words are 100 % true... Whether I or Shakthi, never say like that... kandippa loyal aa irukanum... but, thanna emathinu aduthuvangalukaga unmaiya irukuradhula enna iruka pogudhu???

nee sonna ore oru point acceptable... photo va vachinu irundha girl endha level kum pogalam nu... avalo theiriyam irukura parents kitta fight panni irukalam nu...

but, indha story la one side mattum thaane iruke??? ella vishayathulaiyum rendu side iruku....

inga PP ku therinja real life la nadandhadha ezhudhitanga... andha boy side la irundhu... andha girl enna ninaichi irupannu yosikala....

photo vachinu irukuradhunala mattum endha level kum povangannu solla mudiyuma? avalo theiriyam irundha oodiye poitu irukalame....



why can't the girls think twice, thrice and as many times as required, before entering into a love affair ? when the girl very well knows that her parents will not give their consent for a love marriage, then why does she do it in the first place ?

good question... love is like a super star... adhu eppo varum eppadi varum nu yaarukum theriyadhu... vara vendiya time ku correct aa varum... :D (just a joke... dont take it as serious)

unmailaiye, idhu romba seriya question... love panradhuku minnadi yosichi irukalam... but, namma parents sammadhipanngannu kooda senji irukalam...

anyway, enaku kaadhal pathi avalava theriyavum theriyadhu.... adhu mela romba periya eedu paadum illa... so, ennala correcta sola mudiyala... kaadhal yosichi varradha, or thannala varradhanu...



It may be a digression, but i wish to add that parental attitudes HAVE changed in recent times as can be witnessed in the increasing number of love marriages and inter caste marriages taking place nowadays.

yes, mostly.... but, not always...

but, enga??? nalla padichitu, nalla job la irukura ponnu ivaru thaan maapilainu sonna thatta mudiyadhu... enga sollama kollama marriage pannika poralo, maanam pooidumo nu venum na othukalam...

but, innum niraiya girls aa veliya vidama kattu paduthi thaan naama vachinu irukom....

neenga sonna inter caste / love marriage ellam city la vena ok... but innum towns / villages ellam andha alavuku maarala....

ada love aa vittu thaallu... innum girls ku full freedom ey kodukama vachinu irukanga... even in education too...

[madhu]

:evil: PP, stories ellam thadai seiyanum.... vitta, adithadi vettu kuthu ellam nadakum pola... :D

adithadi vettu kuthu.... :omg:
:notthatway:
appuRam mod vanthu :hammer: :froggrin:

everybody can share their opinion and views..

idhellam true enraalum stories-thane.. ?

ellarume avangavanga life-la kidaicha experience-ai vachukittu entha mudivaiyum decide seyvanga.. inge thappu yaar mela enru mudivu seivadhu mudiyatha vishayam.. we cant generalise everything.

society thappa ninaikkira vishayam individual manasukku sariya theriyalam. adhai vehement-a support seyyavum seyyalam.. Unless we are somewhere a part of the problem, we cant understand the reality. Even then, it'll be only just one angle from which we can see and understand the problem.

pengalukku suthanthiram illai appadinnu solla mudiyathu. pengal thangaL suthanthirathin alavai sariya purinjukkalai.. avlothan..
power :wink: idhai neenga edhirkkareengala ? ( idhu en individual opinion)

KB padathula vara maadhiri odum varai naai thurathum.. nidhanama ninru thirumbi parthaal adhu bayanthu thirumba odidum.. ( idhukkum avanga avanga real life experience different aga irukkalam. naan idhai 100 % sari enru solven. But en friend ippadi senjabodhu 3 anti rabbies injection poda vendiya nilaimai vanthadhu :( )

oru pazhaiya song ninaivukku varudhu..

"idhayathai thiranthu nyayathai pesu
vazhakkugaL mudivaagum"

inge marupadi.. yaar pEsi irukkanum enru oru debate varalam.

As the title suggests "nivaranam" is the panacea.

yaar meedhu thappu enru thedi kondu iruppathai vida enna remedy enru paarthu sari seyvathuthan nallathu.

mudintha kathai thodarvathillai..

( but ippo ellam adhukku kooda adutha episode varuthu.. :lol)

[pavalamani pragasam]

:clap: Very interesting exchange of ideas!

Regarding AIDS, I have discussed it in some other threads, lastly in SP's thread answering madhu's topic of the week. Not very inclined at at present to write a story abt it!!! But I want to share here, Sipi, a news I read in the papers about Andhra Pradesh government planning to make AIDS test mandatory for all brides & grooms before marriage. Do we see a light at the end of the tunnel?...or new/unexpected/deplorable 'sOthanai' to the institution of marriage!!!

[sipi]

:evil: PP, stories ellam thadai seiyanum.... vitta, adithadi vettu kuthu ellam nadakum pola... :D

adithadi vettu kuthu.... :omg:
:notthatway:
appuRam mod vanthu :hammer: :froggrin:


:o joke nu sonnadhuke ivalo periya built up aa??? :shock: :oops:

[sipi]

PP, me too heard about that news... parkalam, endha alavuku success aagudhunu...

[pavalamani pragasam]

But, sipi, there too I have my trepidation; the hitch is: when a person is infected it takes very long, months, even years before the person's HIV positive status could be confirmed by blood test; it lies dormant, I think. So, what if an affected person who is declared 'safe' gets married & the truth comes out later?

[madhu]

:evil: PP, stories ellam thadai seiyanum.... vitta, adithadi vettu kuthu ellam nadakum pola... :D

adithadi vettu kuthu.... :omg:
:notthatway:
appuRam mod vanthu :hammer: :froggrin:


:o joke nu sonnadhuke ivalo periya built up aa??? :shock: :oops:

Hi Sipi..

stories thread-leyum oru story maadhiri builtup kodutha ...

:lol: mathapadi ellame joke-than sipi.. ( kadaisiya irukkara :froggrin: emoticon-ai gavaninga... )

ofcourse.. except ellarum serious-a yosichu solra comments and reviews thavira..

[sipi]

:evil: PP, stories ellam thadai seiyanum.... vitta, adithadi vettu kuthu ellam nadakum pola... :D

adithadi vettu kuthu.... :omg:
:notthatway:
appuRam mod vanthu :hammer: :froggrin:


:o joke nu sonnadhuke ivalo periya built up aa??? :shock: :oops:

Hi Sipi..

stories thread-leyum oru story maadhiri builtup kodutha ...

:lol: mathapadi ellame joke-than sipi.. ( kadaisiya irukkara :froggrin: emoticon-ai gavaninga... )

ofcourse.. except ellarum serious-a yosichu solra comments and reviews thavira..

:lol: :lol: :lol: aiyooo again 'aa??? naan idhuvum chumma joke ku thaan sonnen.. neengalum joke adichingannu theriyum....

[sipi]

But, sipi, there too I have my trepidation; the hitch is: when a person is infected it takes very long, months, even years before the person's HIV positive status could be confirmed by blood test; it lies dormant, I think. So, what if an affected person who is declared 'safe' gets married & the truth comes out later?

oops!!!! hmm... prechanaiyana vishayam thaan...

ore oru sandhosham enna na? atleast child aa kaapathalam ... but, ippo neenga solradha partha adhu kodoa kashtam pola... :cry:

[madhu]

Hi Sipi, PP akka..

indha vaara vikatan-la oru article vandhirukku.. adhula HIV +ve aana parents-ukku pirakka pora child-ai HIV -ve aaga senjirukkanga..

Atleast adhu varaikkum santosha padalam..

[pavalamani pragasam]

naanum padichchEn! antha doctorammavukku vaazththukkaL!~

[sipi]

Hi Sipi, PP akka..

indha vaara vikatan-la oru article vandhirukku.. adhula HIV +ve aana parents-ukku pirakka pora child-ai HIV -ve aaga senjirukkanga..

Atleast adhu varaikkum santosha padalam..

hmm... thats a good news... but, konjam PP oda posting paarunga... HIV +ve oda result therinjikiradhuke romba naal aagum nu solli irukanga.. indha between time la child conceive aana, kaapatha mudiyuma?

[pavalamani pragasam]

pothuvaaka ellOrum neruppukkOzi maathiri thalaiyai maRaikka virumbuRa subject! Government must make use of the MEDIA to propagate proper, relevant, correct info on all these factors.

[Designer]

But, sipi, there too I have my trepidation; the hitch is: when a person is infected it takes very long, months, even years before the person's HIV positive status could be confirmed by blood test; it lies dormant, I think. So, what if an affected person who is declared 'safe' gets married & the truth comes out later?

problematic situation. the girl & her parents will accuse the boy & his parents of hiding the fact before marriage and cheating them. the boy's side will deny it. Recriminations will follow - unless a specialist can certifiy, that the HIV was dormant all the years and surfaced only recently.

[VENKIRAJA]

நல்ல கதை,கதையை சொன்னதும் நல்ல விதமாகவே இருந்தது.ஆனால் அம்மையாரே உங்கள் சிறுகதைகள் மொத்தத்தையும் நீங்கள் கோத்து ஒரு திரியில் அடையுங்களேன்.எப்போதாவது உங்கள் பழைய கதைகளின் நினைவை முகர,அது இன்னும் வசதியாய் இருக்கும்.வாழ்த்துக்கள் கூற இளையவன்,கைதொழ இனியவன்.

[pavalamani pragasam]

:ty:

[sipi]

pothuvaaka ellOrum neruppukkOzi maathiri thalaiyai maRaikka virumbuRa subject! Government must make use of the MEDIA to propagate proper, relevant, correct info on all these factors.

hmmm unmai thaan PP... govt, compulsary aakinale oralavuku control senjidalam... atleast veliya therinjidum bayathula kooda thappu seiyama irupanga...

[pavalamani pragasam]

Interestingly I have been reading Sujatha's 'vinjana siRukathaikaL'. He shares almost all of my concerns about the present trends! And he expresses them in his characteristic humour picturising the world in future centuries devoid of our nagging problems, moral, political, social etc, & the bizarre life people lead, definitely far less attractive than ours!!!!

[sipi]

oh.. PP, whats the publication...i am searching sujatha's writings... but, i didnt know any publication...

[pavalamani pragasam]

uyirmai!

Happy to inform I got it among my chosen books prize for Hub contest prizes!!! :D

[sipi]

whats that PP???

anyway, congrates...

[pavalamani pragasam]

3 prizes: 2 for Hub magazine contests(one crossword & one puthir set) & one for TFM crossword contest! :D

[Designer]

PP madam : Congrats :thumbsup: thats cool 8-)

[sipi]

3 prizes: 2 for Hub magazine contests(one crossword & one puthir set) & one for TFM crossword contest! :D

wow!!! thats really great :clap: is magazine contacting contests too?

PP, TFM contest answers & result parthen... Hub Magazine ku enga iruku?

[pavalamani pragasam]

http://hubmagazine.mayyam.com/jul06/?t=6662

The above is one contest. I am not able to find the prize announcement page with the answers.

[pavalamani pragasam]

Here is the other one:

http://hubmagazine.mayyam.com/mar06/?t=6071

[crazy]

what is this story all about?

ellaarum ivalo comments kodutu irukkeenga? enakku onnume puriyala. mannikkanum :(

[pavalamani pragasam]

Crazy, try to read again & again, ask yourself who are the two characters speaking, who/what are they are taliking about. Grasp sentence by sentence. Though you are a chinna ponnu you can understand the theme certainly.

[crazy]

okie amma, shall do it
so far the only thing i got, they r parents and they r talking about their sons's life..................anyway poi meendum padikkiren :)

[VENKIRAJA]

suggest something about the closing of the contests in the respective threads buddies,i'm helpless. :roll:

[pavalamani pragasam]

:?: :roll:

[madhu]

venki

innum 3 days irukku..

We can just tell other friends to post some more stories..

wow.. idhu moolamaaga niraiya nalla nalla stories kidaikkudhu..

[pavalamani pragasam]

:yes: A forum, very truly!