expectation abt your future better-half

[Fire111999]

go on. tell us abt your expectation. then after you get married, you can come back to the forum and see how wrong you were abt what you wanted! :wink:

this thread is inspired by thamizhvaanan!

[great]

Nerupu , started ur todays thread :clap: :clap:

[Hulkster]

:lol:..thamizh sir kalyanam penaal avarodeiya pondadi pathi keika intha forum hubbers torture penna poraanga....paavam

Since i have already listed my expectations in opposite attracts thread...i will give other hubbers a chance to post their expectation

(PS:It aint a matrimonial ad service is it?)

[Fire111999]

(PS:It aint a matrimonial ad service is it?)

no way! just a place for you to put down your current expectations so that u can come back once you get married and check how wrong you were abt what u wanted

[Alien]

go on. tell us abt your expectation. then after you get married, you can come back to the forum and see how wrong you were abt what you wanted! :wink:

:rotfl: ... years to go for me ..... this thread or my post in this thread, I doubt would still exist then .....
anyway will post later ....

[bingleguy]

:clap: super Fire !

No expectation ... aval avaLAga irundhAl podhum :-)

[bingleguy]

Vanakkam Alien ! Kamal kalakkuraaru ... super super :clap:

[hi]

No expectation for me.. as i already got one ;)

[Hulkster]

BG...ungalakku thaikulamae vanangum.... :notworthy: :notworthy:

[Alien]

Vanakkam Alien ! Kamal kalakkuraaru ... super super :clap:
Vanakkam BG(aka vasanth) ! .... Thank u , thank u ... :P

[bingleguy]

Hulk ... vanangumaa ? :roll:

Madhikka vendam ... Midhikkaama irundhaa seri :lol:

[Alien]

No expectation ... aval avaLAga irundhAl podhum :-)
:P ...... :)

[bingleguy]

Alien ... enna ;-)sirikireeeeenga

[Alien]

Actually ur words were very meaningful .... :)

[Fire111999]

enna vasanth? ethavathu ponnu kadaicha pothum-nu solreengala?
kalyanam aana sari-nu solreengala? (just kidding :wink: )

[Hulkster]

Yeaps....Actually we should not ask for qualities in a woman like as if we are looking for some car or shopping for some products..i feel it is not right as first we must also understand that women also wish how their husbands should look like...like BG said...aval avalaga irukkettum..naan naanaga iruppaen..kalyanam kalyanama irukkettum...:)

[hi]

:clap: super Fire !

No expectation ... aval avaLAga irundhAl podhum :-)

expectation illama.. eppadi? :roll:

[bingleguy]

:lol: Fire ...

Manaivi amaivadhellam iraivan kodutha varam ! :-)

[Hulkster]

BG appadina kaduvul thaan ungalodeiya broker nu solla vareinga..:lol:

[Fire111999]

Yeaps....Actually we should not ask for qualities in a woman like as if we are looking for some car or shopping for some products..i feel it is not right as first we must also understand that women also wish how their husbands should look like...like BG said...aval avalaga irukkettum..naan naanaga iruppaen..kalyanam kalyanama irukkettum...:)

it's not asking for qualities. you can just say that u like women with these values or qualities better.

[bingleguy]

expectation irundha vambu ... adhunaala anjali ;-) :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: just kidding !

[Fire111999]

:lol: Fire ...

Manaivi amaivadhellam iraivan kodutha varam ! :-)

yup, i believe the same. of course for me it will be kanavan amaivadhellam iraivan kodutha varam! :wink:

[bingleguy]

hulk ... ... . vera nalla peraavadhu vechu koopidakoodaadhaa :lol:

Avar namma vazhikatti !

[Hulkster]

Saari pa...chinna vayasilae naan kaduvul kuda friendu mathiri palagitaen..intha mathiri peru veichi thaan koopiduvaen..:lol:

Anybody else with expectations for their wives? Married ones can also post what they expected before they get married to their wives/husbands and also post their after reactions after knowing their wives/husbands...:)

[bingleguy]

Every human is given basic qualities ! It is we who shape it good n bad ! so GOD a edhukku kurai sollanum .... so nammala namma nalla shape pannikanum ...

[Lambretta]

Hmm.....yet another thread on a topic I often think abt....:wink: :D

Well.......to make a loooong description short, I'd like my future wife to be more or less like the character played by Sridevi in Sikappu Rojakkal.....:D

[Lambretta]

:clap: super Fire !
No expectation ... aval avaLAga irundhAl podhum :-)
Unmaya thaan sollrengla BG?? :P :D
I thot u'd be as particular abt ur wife loving to wear Sarees, considering the strong support u showed for this, esp. w/ respect to the traditional aspect, in the Saree thread? :wink: :)

[Lambretta]

Yeaps....Actually we should not ask for qualities in a woman like as if we are looking for some car or shopping for some products..i feel it is not right as first we must also understand that women also wish how their husbands should look like...like BG said...aval avalaga irukkettum..naan naanaga iruppaen..kalyanam kalyanama irukkettum...:)
Yea hulk anna, its true tat women also hav expectations abt how their husbands shud be......they hav a right to hav too of course....
& yea we may or may not find sumone EXACTLY as we wish (wich is y I said "more or less like...." wen I mentioned how I want mine to be :))
But we cud surely expect atleast basic qualities to be present in whomevr we r gona marry......atleast wen it comes to Indian marriages....or atleast tat ther r sum qualities tat we hav in common, illeya? :)

[bingleguy]

Lamby ... avangalukku pudavai dhaan pudikkanummnnu naan eppadi varpurutha mudiyum .... enakku ennoda dressing la eppadi urimai irukko .. avangalukku avangaloda dressing la urimai irukku ....

[Lambretta]

Lamby ... avangalukku pudavai dhaan pudikkanummnnu naan eppadi varpurutha mudiyum .... enakku ennoda dressing la eppadi urimai irukko .. avangalukku avangaloda dressing la urimai irukku ....
Aama BG theriyum....athukaga venum-na podavai kattika virambaravanga kedaicha pannikilam.....:huh: :)

[bingleguy]

:lol: lamby ... namma wait panni kitte irukka vendi varumm nnu ninaikiren :lol:

well avangalukku avanga dress choose panna theriuaadhaa enna ... dressing sense avangalukku nambala vida jasthi undu ;-)

[Fire111999]

:lol: lamby ... namma wait panni kitte irukka vendi varumm nnu ninaikiren :lol:

hey vasanth! ethukkaaka wait pannanum-nu solra?

[Lambretta]

:lol: lamby ... namma wait panni kitte irukka vendi varumm nnu ninaikiren :lol:

hey vasanth! ethukkaaka wait pannanum-nu solra?
Hey thee.....how'u doing? :)
Well, u rem. wat I'd said in the Saree thread abt the situation of Sarees w/ respect to today's girls/young women......so I guess he's talking in tat context....:oops: :(

[bingleguy]

Hey FIRE .... lamby sonna maadiri ponnu venum na ... wait panna vendiyadhu dhaan nnu sonnen ! :lol:

Lamby ... expectation irundha dhaane, adhu nadakkalaena emaattram irukkum ... so no expectations !

[Lambretta]

Hey FIRE .... lamby sonna maadiri ponnu venum na ... wait panna vendiyadhu dhaan nnu sonnen ! :lol:
Yea, I know.......ellarum ippidi thaan sollranguh....:oops: :(
Jus thot u had similar dreams (wich I think is better than saying expectations...:P)...


Lamby ... expectation irundha dhaane, adhu nadakkalaena emaattram irukkum ... so no expectations !
:lol: Enna BG, neenga Shakespeare literature padipengla.....avarthu ithe mathiri oru quote oru tharuv padichen: "Expectation is the root cause of all heart aches"....:)

[Hulkster]

Yeppada...veetukku vanthachi...enna vishayam eppo?

[bingleguy]

Lamby :lol:

Vaayaa HULK ... sowkiyamaa ?

[Hulkster]

Ellam sowkiyam thaan...unga meeting periya comedya irukku pa...screenplay superu..:thumbsup:

[Fire111999]

fine, anna. thanks.

sri devi in red roses-a? i haven't watched that movie before, so can't comment.

[terminator]

Mudhalvan moviela vara joke thaan nyabagam varuthu..
Kili maathiri mooku, sangu kazhuthu.. meen kankal.. :lol:

[Hulkster]

Terminator aahaa :shock: unga expectations vanthu Manisha "Gorilla" Koiralavukka? Just Kidding :D


serious ah sollungapa....what are your basic expectations of your future wife?

[Lambretta]

Mudhalvan moviela vara joke thaan nyabagam varuthu..
Kili maathiri mooku, sangu kazhuthu.. meen kankal.. :lol:
:lol:
Termi, naan SR padathile avanga nadicha character patthi sonnen......avanga patthi ille.....:P :wink:

[Fire111999]

Mudhalvan moviela vara joke thaan nyabagam varuthu..
Kili maathiri mooku, sangu kazhuthu.. meen kankal.. :lol:

termi, like that cartoon? :lol:

[Lambretta]

Mudhalvan moviela vara joke thaan nyabagam varuthu..
Kili maathiri mooku, sangu kazhuthu.. meen kankal.. :lol:

termi, like that cartoon? :lol:
Wich one u mean? :?

[bingleguy]

:lol:

HULK ... thanks kannu :lol:

[Fire111999]

Mudhalvan moviela vara joke thaan nyabagam varuthu..
Kili maathiri mooku, sangu kazhuthu.. meen kankal.. :lol:

termi, like that cartoon? :lol:
Wich one u mean? :?

the one his father draws according to his description!

[Arthi]

Hey FIRE .... lamby sonna maadiri ponnu venum na ... wait ----- vendiyadhu dhaan nnu sonnen ! :lol:

Lamby ... expectation irundha dhaane, adhu nadakkalaena emaattram irukkum ... so no expectations !

Well said Bingle :clap:

[Lambretta]

Ohh....'think I missed seeing tat part....:?

[Arthi]

But here one said about their future better half :roll:

Let me start.. even I have only expectation that he should believe in God and follow rituals as much as possible. Nothing else I want

[bingleguy]

Well Arthi ... not a bad expectation ... but probably i may be wrong ... there are very few guys n gals ... who believe in the supreme power in the current generation .....

So ... say if u know a person who has all the other qualities ... but for this ... what would u do ?

If u say ... NO ... is that wise ?

[Lambretta]

But here one said about their future better half :roll:

Let me start.. even I have only expectation that he should believe in God and follow rituals as much as possible. Nothing else I want
Um....tats nice Arthi but personally I dont believe tat rituals/customs nec. indicate sumone being pious....also these sumthing we can only see being followed physically in front of us, so we wudnt know how genuine tat person really is......
I wudnt really be bothered if my wife wants to wear a thaali or not....ie. I'm neutral abt it......wil leave tat to her...
Neways....:D tats jus me!

[bingleguy]

Okay .. guys ... time for my bus too ... :wave:

:lol: lamby .. will pm u ;-)

[Anoushka]

Arthi: A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple. So keep your mind open :)

[rocketboy]

i'll marry only a scientist/researcher i.e if i am able to find one. else I'll learn to live alone. It won't be a problem for me either way as I am a loner and prefer to brood in solitude.

[Lambretta]

Arthi: A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple. So keep your mind open :)
Yea tats also true! To be good & to do good.....tats the whole point of religion, rite....:)
Even I've stopped going to temples (for a personal reason), except for the RK math temples.....but I still believe in our religious values & scriptures.....
Neways, 'not trying to brainwash neone here......:lol2:
Jus my views! :)

[Fire111999]

i'll marry only a scientist/researcher i.e if i am able to find one. else I'll learn to live alone. It won't be a problem for me either way as I am a loner and prefer to brood in solitude.

r u a scientist/researcher yourself?

[Alien]

Arthi: A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple. So keep your mind open :)
:clap: .... I too have almost stopped em .... am religious no more .... though I just do them(going to temples , that too rarely) to please others.....

[Lambretta]

i'll marry only a scientist/researcher i.e if i am able to find one. else I'll learn to live alone. It won't be a problem for me either way as I am a loner and prefer to brood in solitude.
r u a scientist/researcher yourself?
:lol:
Good question!
My father married my mother only bcos he wanted to marry only a doctor, being one himself.....he was of the opinion tat if he married sumone of the same profession as he was in, they cud both spend good time together, discussing similar subjects/topics at home...so tat way he wudnt hav to bore his wife (or vice versa), unlike otherwise.... :roll:
& also being doctors, one cud help the other in times of dire need..........well, tat was true of course, my mum cud help my dad a lot during his last days when he was ill.....
As for me, well......I dont wna marry neone in too high a profession as I cudnt adjust my life to sumone like tat....plus I'm never goin2 be in one myself.....def. not too busy profession, as I've learnt from observing my parents!
I'd at one point of time wanted to marry a (school) teacher (& still do) as tats one of the few professions I respect.....:)
'hav also been one for a while, altho only on part-time basis.....:(

[Fire111999]

I'd at one point of time wanted to marry a (school) teacher (& still do) as tats one of the few professions I respect.....:)
'hav also been one for a while, altho only on part-time basis.....:(

school teacher-a, anna? :shock: semma bore! (IMO, but if tt's ur opinion, fine!)

[goodsense]

Anoushka wrote:

"A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple."

You can be both; religious and do good at the same time. They are found to be complimentary. Being religious don't mean going to temple all the time. I find it necessary to go (not necessarily frequently) and meditate with a group which is more effective than doing it alone.

The Gita clearly says, if one has to work and can't make it to places of meditation, the reason of work, is acceptible. If you are not working or can't make it to places of mediation/temples, you can listen to God's word; listening to bhajans is an acceptible compromise.

:)

[Lambretta]

I'd at one point of time wanted to marry a (school) teacher (& still do) as tats one of the few professions I respect.....:)
'hav also been one for a while, altho only on part-time basis.....:(

school teacher-a, anna? :shock: semma bore! (IMO, but if tt's ur opinion, fine!)
:shock: Y do u think so? Actually IMO its one of the most underrated professions here.....everyday is like, a challenge....:)
I find office jobs comparitively more booooring, esp. the typical routine desk jobs like receptionists etc...*yawn*
Oh btw, I meant to say I wasnt actually a school teacher, jus taught spoken english for adults, wich was conducted by a reputed school here (they also conduct computer classes, tally etc.)......only worked ther for 6 months last yr.....was indirectly shown the way out, after they found a 60+ lady who had nearly 40 yrs of experience plus job as a call centre trainee instructor @ HSBC here.....:roll:
So tats wen I stumbled into the Insurance line......:roll:
Neways, hav got another coupleo offers for teaching Spoken Eng. again ! :D

[Fire111999]

I'd at one point of time wanted to marry a (school) teacher (& still do) as tats one of the few professions I respect.....:)
'hav also been one for a while, altho only on part-time basis.....:(

school teacher-a, anna? :shock: semma bore! (IMO, but if tt's ur opinion, fine!)
:shock: Y do u think so? Actually IMO its one of the most underrated professions here.....everyday is like, a challenge....:)
I find office jobs comparitively more booooring, esp. the typical routine desk jobs like receptionists etc...*yawn*
Oh btw, I meant to say I wasnt actually a school teacher, jus taught spoken english for adults, wich was conducted by a reputed school here (they also conduct computer classes, tally etc.)......only worked ther for 6 months last yr.....was indirectly shown the way out, after they found a 60+ lady who had nearly 40 yrs of experience plus job as a call centre trainee instructor @ HSBC here.....:roll:
So tats wen I stumbled into the Insurance line......:roll:
Neways, hav got another coupleo offers for teaching Spoken Eng. again ! :D

ok, you've gone off into a long digr. but, isn't teaching the same thing repeatedly year after year boring? i've never been a teacher before, not even part-time. but i have done and still do science workshops for kids and that's totally different cos it's only fun activities and interesting facts. not mundane teaching like a school teacher!

[goodsense]

And I think Amousk, temples now and then, reinforces spirituality which I think all human beings need. It is not something you can maintain doing alone for long periods.

[Lambretta]

ok, you've gone off into a long digr. but, isn't teaching the same thing repeatedly year after year boring? i've never been a teacher before, not even part-time. but i have done and still do science workshops for kids and that's totally different cos it's only fun activities and interesting facts. not mundane teaching like a school teacher!
I agree its our rote & write education system tat has made this job mundane.....:(
Also the lack of motivation for this job bcos of factors like low pay etc....but wen I was teaching, I found it more fun to interact w/ differnt students from differnt backgrounds than keep in mind tat I'd be teaching the same thing again & again for each batch.....even at school we had many teachers who used to be lively & at times discuss many things other than the subjects they taught....so I feel its the interaction tat makes it go lively, as opposed to most office jobs & dont even talk abt customer service ones, wher almost the only interaction u hav comes in the form of complaints & frustrations.....:roll: added to tat, u hav to work for longer hours in most of these....!

Neways, been up for too long now.....signing off b4 my head hits the monitor! :lol: :wave:

[goodsense]

When we talk of respectable profession I think we refer to those professions traditionally respected. What is a respectable profession these days? When it comes to medical, you find he doctors are failing to support the patients, as they should when legal issues arise. They do all they can to prevent having to go to court. They only care for the patient up to a certain point. The reports they provide on patients are often not truly reflective of the patients' records.

When it comes to the teaching profession, tell me about it. I have seen lecturers slopping together bits of notes just before the lecture, no effort to get new materials on current issues etc. and just give you straight from the book which you can read yourself in your own time :wink: . In many places it's a regurgitation of the same material. It's common in places where research is limited, common in countries developing at a slow rate if developing at all. Thus, the quality of teaching is poor and it takes no big brain, hard work and dedication to get through exams. The questions are likely to be the same year after year, only asked in a different way. Notes of pass students can be easly obtained and there you go, become what you want, no real sweat :evil: .

As a mater of fact, certain counties live off reputation and when examined closely, the reputation is far from present day realities in maintaining reputation. No changes to meet them.

We all can't be in the same profession, we need a variety. We chose according to what we thing we will be good at and our aptitude and we are supposed to do our best at what we do. If one study how each profession evolved, one would know that they are all meant to be reputable, but in reality, most are not and it's not an individual issue.

I know of people who started off at medical school, drop out, then hop to law school and that kind of thing. Did they first enter medicine because they think it is a reputable profession and was that their only concern? If so why the hop? :wink:

[Ghlli]

shud be like simba :D

[Anoushka]

Anoushka wrote:

"A person who is not relegious or does not follow rituals is not a bad person. There are really genuine people who think doing good is much better than going to temple."

You can be both; religious and do good at the same time. They are found to be complimentary. Being religious don't mean going to temple all the time. I find it necessary to go (not necessarily frequently) and meditate with a group which is more effective than doing it alone.

The Gita clearly says, if one has to work and can't make it to places of meditation, the reason of work, is acceptible. If you are not working or can't make it to places of mediation/temples, you can listen to God's word; listening to bhajans is an acceptible compromise.

:)

Good Sense: I am not sure if I made myself clear. I have nothing against religion and I didn't say that a religious person is not good, all I said was a person who is not religious is no bad. And I do think relgion is a very private thing and each person can be religious in their own way, and there is nothing wrong in it. I was just telling Arthi to have a open mind about it, that is all :)

[Anoushka]

ok, you've gone off into a long digr. but, isn't teaching the same thing repeatedly year after year boring? i've never been a teacher before, not even part-time. but i have done and still do science workshops for kids and that's totally different cos it's only fun activities and interesting facts. not mundane teaching like a school teacher!

Fire: Teaching is not at all boring. The teachers I had in school used to love teaching. Each year a new set of students, a new challenge :) A good teacher uses his/her skills to take up the challenge of teaching the students from the best to the worst. They have to get the attention of the most inattentive student in the class, but at the same time keep the class interesting for the most brainy! Imagine catering to 30+ students of varying interests and concentration levels at the same time. How can that be boring? If a teacher does their job right then there is no boredom in that :)

[rajraj]

Anoushka: Besides, it makes you feel young ! :lol:

[Surya]

shud be like simba :D

Gaayu,
The lion cub from "The Lion King" :? :shock: :P

[Ghlli]

yeah :D
but i prefer human version :D :oops: :lol:


shud be like simba :D

Gaayu,
The lion cub from "The Lion King" :? :shock: :P

[Surya]

:? I have no idea how that would look...is it like T.Rajendar, except with much longer blonde hair? :P :lol:

[Surya]

Hmm...for me.....

Face = Shreya (Mazhai & Superstar's Sivaji!)
Eyes = Jothika
Lips = Trisha
Over all = Asin!

:rotfl:

Just Joking...Seriously...

The Biggest Thing!!

(1) Gotta be down with my ideologies...and have ones similar to mine....:P Mainly because I don't wanna be aruging with my wife like I do or used to in the Indian history section all my life about Periyar or other socio-political things. :wink:

This doesn't really matter that much..but
(2)Has to be somewhat good looking..there is no way I'm marrying a horse....but then again...my parents say that the actreses I like look like horses so.....:roll: WHAT-EVA! (srry for the cheerleader lingo. :P)

That's about it...I don't really care abt anything else...is she rich..is she educated...doesn't really matter. :P

I guess I'm too young to be thinkin about this....:P :lol:

[Thunderbird]

a neelambari :roll:

[Shakthiprabha.]

Talkin of profession,

ANY LEGAL PROFESSION is clean and good enough if dealt with in a clean way.

[Lambretta]

Fire: Teaching is not at all boring. The teachers I had in school used to love teaching. Each year a new set of students, a new challenge :)
Exactly wat even I was saying! :D
Whereas wat chances of such a thing happening do u hav in an office? Esp. if its like, customer service, u may get to interact w/ diff. ppl. every single day but the nature of interaction will usually be the same......each & every one wud usually hav sum complaint or need for sum service to talk abt.......& therez no way u cud interact w/ customers/encourage such interaction from them on ne other basis....its always (supposd to be) business-like, to-the-point. Tats it!


They have to get the attention of the most inattentive student in the class, but at the same time keep the class interesting for the most brainy! Imagine catering to 30+ students of varying interests and concentration levels at the same time. How can that be boring?
Exactly again! :D Even tho I was teaching only adults, tat too for jus 2 hrs a day, I had one batch full of lively & jovial students who wer not only quick in picking up but also became like good friends to me.....the next (last) batch was...well, ......:) but then ther wer only 6 students in it, so...! :D


If a teacher does their job right then there is no boredom in that :)
Exactly again! :lol:
The trouble is, teaching has lost its true value today wher most who take up this job do so as an only option for the time being or bcos of the convenience they get (less working hrs than office-goers & as GS says, no need for seeking more sources for teaching, enuff if u teach within the book syllabus!)......I'd notice the teachers in the school wher I worked......most of them looked like bored housewives going for daily shopping or on sum picnic! This lack of zeal within them themselves is responsible for making teaching a mundane, almost mechanical job! Apart form the fact abt low-pay!
Ironically, the Govt., wich is promoting techie jobs so much doesnt care abt a more important job like this!
Oh well! I seem to be digressing again.......! :P :lol:

[Lambretta]

shud be like simba :D
:? :roll: :lol:

[Fire111999]

ok, relax guys, i accept that teaching is a good profession. all i can say is that i can't see myself becoming a school teacher. possibly a prof doing research or some other job at the same time.

[Lambretta]

*digr
ok, relax guys, i accept that teaching is a good profession. all i can say is that i can't see myself becoming a school teacher. possibly a prof doing research or some other job at the same time.
Prof-aa?! Enaku athu ennum bore-aa thonathu! :P :lol:
Really, most profs. I've seen/herd of here take their jobs for granted....they come & take class wenever they feel like it......& all they do is stand & give a lecture for an hr, even if 1/2 the students r attentive/absent in the class, & then walk out..... :roll:
& the "research" most of them keep doing is to earn more initials after their names.....so they cud get guaranteed respectable status (& of course good salary), whether they work or not.....IMHO a school teacher def. has a far more commendable job, participating in relatively wholesome development of each student.....provided he/she realises this of course!
Neways, to each their own.....! :D
/digr

[Hulkster]

Ungalakku seriyana velai vanthu analayser thaan...your good at analysing...nichayam teaching ellam mudiayathu...school students ellam bayanthiduvaanga...Just kidding.

Simba as a expectation for a partner? ghili be prepared to be scrutinised by a playboy for your whole life since you beloved simba is one..:twisted:

[great]

shud be like simba :D
:? :roll: :lol:

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: Kutti karadi

[Hulkster]

kutti karadiya?...yeppa ungalakku simbuvodeiya appa pidikaathu nu theriyum athukaaga eppadiya?

[Lambretta]

Simba as a expectation for a partner? ghili be prepared to be scrutinised by a playboy for your whole life since you beloved simba is one..:twisted:
:shock: :lol:
My god, hulk........this is really..... :rotfl: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

[Hulkster]

Lamby...certain professors in my school spend time trying to work with a student his difficulties in the area of expertise...i guess it really depends on the character of the professor...one type is the position thaan uyiru and the other kattukodupethu thaan vazhkai.

[Hulkster]

Seri seri sirrikathaenge pa...ellei naa gaayu yenukku sangu uthiduvaanga...:oops:

[Fire111999]

*digr
ok, relax guys, i accept that teaching is a good profession. all i can say is that i can't see myself becoming a school teacher. possibly a prof doing research or some other job at the same time.
Prof-aa?! Enaku athu ennum bore-aa thonathu! :P :lol:
Really, most profs. I've seen/herd of here take their jobs for granted....they come & take class wenever they feel like it......& all they do is stand & give a lecture for an hr, even if 1/2 the students r attentive/absent in the class, & then walk out..... :roll:
& the "research" most of them keep doing is to earn more initials after their names.....so they cud get guaranteed respectable status (& of course good salary), whether they work or not.....IMHO a school teacher def. has a far more commendable job, participating in relatively wholesome development of each student.....provided he/she realises this of course!
Neways, to each their own.....! :D
/digr

in the place i study, the profs have very interesting breaking research to do. these research areas are closely linked with the next thing on the market! or they have some other job just as interesting. and the lectures are very interactive with demonstrations and they also talk abt the cool things they are doing research on. so i don't know abt the type of prof u r talking abt. i wouldn't become like that kind of prof anyway. if i were to become a prof i would come back to my uni here. but i am not totally interested in teaching actually.

[Lambretta]

Ok fire, peace! :)
Looks like we wer talking based on the types of profs. we see in our respective environments.....:)
But I still cudnt believe how u cud say tat school teachers hav mundane jobs....:roll:
I thot schools in Sing. do provide good interactive ways of teaching....? :?

[Hulkster]

Schools in sg?...yeah they are trained to watch out for the students reactions and develop their talents....but i believe there are other countries who also practise this.

[Fire111999]

I thot schools in Sing. do provide good interactive ways of teaching....? :?

yeah, in the best schools yes. like the schools i went to. but most of the other schools, no. and at school level of education, there is only so much one can do. whereas at a uni level, the prof will tell us sth according to the syllabus and then sometimes say sth like all that is crap and when u take this subject in the 2nd year, we will say sth else, which is also not totally accurate and then he will go on to talk abt his research and what has been found out and what is still being debated etc. and at times when they want to show us evidence of what they are teaching they will either bring along sth from their research or show us video clips and pics, etc. for eg, one of my profs is working on flat projection tvs which are capable of showing 3d images cos projection beats digital hands down except for the fact that projection tv can't be flat (i mean, that's why serious photgraphers use film cameras rather than digital cameras, though digital is also improving greatly.) but now projection tvs can also be flat. so we've got a winner!

ok, sorry for the long digression.

[Fire111999]

Schools in sg?...yeah they are trained to watch out for the students reactions and develop their talents....but i believe there are other countries who also practise this.

oh, pls. in neighbourhood schools? no way! montessori at primay levels, yeah. then u've got RI and RGS for secondary schools which do that. and then RJC and perhaps HCJC, but i don't think they do it as much as RJC!

[Hulkster]

Yes its true neruppu but nowadays the ways of interacting has gotten better...even my own school is practising such ways...maybe it was true then..only the best schools did that...after the special emphasis on education system to be changed to look at students development the way teachers interact with students has changed desirably.

[Fire111999]

Yes its true neruppu but nowadays the ways of interacting has gotten better...even my own school is practising such ways...maybe it was true then..only the best schools did that...after the special emphasis on education system to be changed to look at students development the way teachers interact with students has changed desirably.

after my time i guess. loads of changes with the education system recently. what with IP, etc. but i think they are actually stressing the kids out by giving them too many options. kids don't know whether to do AP or O levels. and there seems to be an entrance exam for nearly every JC. and removing the official ranking for schools is not going to change the fact that some schools will always be at the top!

[Hulkster]

Yeah...paavam kulunthaigal...over stress....there was a heated debate about the education system's change in the papers recently...families not being happy with the way their children are being stressed out..and the government have made changes to the system like no cca after 5 and weekends are free(no cca or any other school activities)...the situation is slightly better now though..:)

[Fire111999]

Yeah...paavam kulunthaigal...over stress....there was a heated debate about the education system's change in the papers recently...families not being happy with the way their children are being stressed out..and the government have made changes to the system like no cca after 5 and weekends are free(no cca or any other school activities)...the situation is slightly better now though..:)

yeah right! like that's actually happening! pls!

[Hulkster]

:shock:..you didnt know that weekends are free from cca and extra classes?.....of course if it is very important sometimes certain cca activities and extra class are held on saturdays but now it is no more...its already been implemented by the PM towards the end of 2004

[Lambretta]

Wow! Wat a digression I've created! From future spouses to state of education system.....:shock:
Shame on me! :oops: :P :lol:

[Hulkster]

:lol:....aduttuthu perarasuvodeiya take on schools pathi vara pogutha?..:lol:

[Fire111999]

:shock:..you didnt know that weekends are free from cca and extra classes?.....of course if it is very important sometimes certain cca activities and extra class are held on saturdays but now it is no more...its already been implemented by the PM towards the end of 2004

not that i don't know! :roll: but it's not working! my cousin bro is in red cross which is during evenings and sat. and he does german 3rd lang, same as i did, which is in the evenings as well.

[bingleguy]

Vanakkam

[Hulkster]

Yes....it does happen as sometimes they may have reasons like school curriculum congestion or in the case of the evenings to finish off the activites by weekdays due to the weekends rule....wokay lets get back to the topic....fire ungalodeiya expectations pathi solluvae elleiyae...neengalum sollunga.

[Hulkster]

Vanakkam

Vanakkam anbulla vasanth avargalae...yeppadi irukeerinreergal?

[bingleguy]

am fine hulk ... how r u doin?

[Hulkster]

Naan engae sugam....yeppa what qualities will you want in your future wife if you were really choosy?

[bingleguy]

IF I WERE CHOOSY ya ....... :lol: kitta thatta Chinna Veedu Bhagyaraj madiri irundhiruppen ....
Avaru thalai odambum kaalunnu dhaan pirichaaru ...

Naan Thalai, Kannu, Mooku, Udhadu, etc etc nnu varnanai senju .. andha madiri venum nnu kettirukkalaam :lol:

Seri .. appa amma kitta poi ... enakku indha madiri ponnu/paiyyan paarunga appadinnu payyian/ponnu ketpangala ? am asking specifically ... gunathai thavira matravaigalai kurippittu solvaargala ... for eg ... ponnu mudi neelamaa irukkanum ... paiyyan vazhukaiya illama irukkanum . ????????

[Fire111999]

my expectations-a? i don't really know. i respect pple more if they are more intelligent than me. so possibly he would be more intelligent than me. i tend to like dark guys better. but some astrologer said my husband will be fair and handsome. so not too sure what to expect in that aspect. esp since that astrologer is known to have been very right in his predictions for other pple!

oh, i know! :idea: one definite expectation: he must love me to bits !!!! :wink:

don't know what else to say.... but i think that expectation is enuf! :wink:

[Fire111999]

... for eg ... ponnu mudi neelamaa irukkanum ... paiyyan vazhukaiya illama irukkanum . ????????
:lol: :lol: :lol:

[bingleguy]

FIRE ... love u to bits .... adhaavadhu bit bit a LOVE pannanumaa ? :lol:
seri andha LOVE sharing a irundhaa ??? :lol:
just kidding

[bingleguy]

hello FIRE ... enna sirikireenga ? kelvikku badhil sollunga

[villan007]

some astrologer said my husband will be fair and handsome

:clap: ....... :roll:

[Fire111999]

hello FIRE ... enna sirikireenga ? kelvikku badhil sollunga

i don't think pple would actually ask their parents for stuff like that! doesn't it seem a bit odd, that you would place sth like that as equally important as values.

[bingleguy]

Vills ..... idhula muzhikkarthukku enna irukku ?! ippo avanga expectation ellam andh astrol sonnadhu unmai aaganumennu dhaan :lol:

[Fire111999]

some astrologer said my husband will be fair and handsome

:clap: ....... :roll:

ah..... excuse me!

anyway, i should add, that he said that right after he said that i would have been fair and pretty if some thing was in some box rather than in some other box. and then he added, but your husband will be fair and handsome!

[Fire111999]

Vills ..... idhula muzhikkarthukku enna irukku ?! ippo avanga expectation ellam andh astrol sonnadhu unmai aaganumennu dhaan :lol:

actually, if u read properly, i said that i seem to like dark guys better. so i don't see how u came to this conclusion! :?

[villan007]

fire , unga nalla manasuku nalladhave nadakum :smile2: :lol2:

[bingleguy]

idhula enna odd irukku ... avanga expectation share panna koodaadhaa ...

when u do that with ur friend, who plays a lil or no role in ur marriage...why not ur parents who are there for ur own welfare !

well idhu enakku puriyala ... we discuss many things with friends when our parents are more concerned about us :roll: just a thought !

[bingleguy]

Vills ..... idhula muzhikkarthukku enna irukku ?! ippo avanga expectation ellam andh astrol sonnadhu unmai aaganumennu dhaan :lol:

actually, if u read properly, i said that i seem to like dark guys better. so i don't see how u came to this conclusion! :?

naan ippo nnu dhaane sonnen ............. ;-) solrathukku munnadi appadi irundhu .. ippo maari irukkalaam illayaa :lol: just kidding !

[bingleguy]

ok :wave: time to study... c u later !

[Hulkster]

Eh?...konjam neram vera threadku poyirunthaen athu kullarae oru page pocha..:shock:...Neruppu always remember...its our choices that make our life..not by other people's perception about our lives..:wink:

BG true pa...discussing with our own parents about our life partners is nothing wrong...but yenga amma naan enna sonaalum...kavalai padathae..unukku mahalakshmi ponna varuvaa nu solli escape ayiduvaanga...:x

[Fire111999]

idhula enna odd irukku ... avanga expectation share panna koodaadhaa ...

when u do that with ur friend, who plays a lil or no role in ur marriage...why not ur parents who are there for ur own welfare !

well idhu enakku puriyala ... we discuss many things with friends when our parents are more concerned about us :roll: just a thought !

i guess you would most likely say that u would prefer sth like that, but not really put it down as one of your expectations. just say what kind of person you would prefer when you are casually talking. but not really go up to your parents when they are looking for a guy/girl and tell them that this is what you expect.

[villan007]

ippo chandrasekar ku yetha appo mahalakshmi enga irukaangalo ? :roll:

:rotfl:

[Shakthiprabha.]

///////mahalakshmi ponna varuvaa nu solli escape ayiduvaanga.../////////

mahalakshmiyE ponnu vantha, vishnu kochuka mattaarO?

[Fire111999]

its our choices that make our life..not by other people's perception about our lives..:wink:

i don't totally understand. but i'll just like to say that the fact that i like dark guys better generally, is not going to prevent me from falling in love with a fair guy, right? ok, anyway, i don't know if what i'm saying is related to what u just said.

[Fire111999]

ippo chandrasekar ku yetha appo mahalakshmi enga irukaangalo ? :roll:

:rotfl:
:lol:

[Hulkster]

ippo chandrasekar ku yetha appo mahalakshmi enga irukaangalo ? :roll:

:rotfl:

yennai kindal pennuvethukku oru kootamae alaiyethu pa.

SP akka nalla pointu....pesamal mahalakshmi mathiri oru ponnu varuvaal yendru sonaal vishnu kochikka mataar...avarae krishnan vesham pothukittu 16000 pondadiyoda happya irukaaru...oru mahalakhsmi mathiri ponnukuda naan happya irukka kudaatha?

Oh what i meant is that our decisions and choices make our life as in general...do not believe what others may say about how our life and lifepartners will be like..eg.astrologer..:twisted:

[Fire111999]

avarae krishnan vesham pothukittu 16000 pondadiyoda happya irukaaru

huh? :? don't know what u're talking abt again. anyway, just wanted to mention, that in the krishna radha story, radha is just a protrayal of how a true krishna devotee is supposed ot be like. and it's not really a love story, kind of. i just heard abt this. do u guys know more abt this?


Oh what i meant is that our decisions and choices make our life as in general...do not believe what others may say about how our life and lifepartners will be like..eg.astrologer..:twisted:

i didn't say i believe the astrologer. i just said i didn't know what to expect. which just means i'm keeping an open mind. which is really the best thing to do.

[Hulkster]

Fire about the krishnan comment...i read it from swami bhakthivedanda's book on krishna about the 16000 wives part(it seems he saved them from narakasuran)...i guess you can forward your queries to him...and it is also stated in the same book that all 16000 wives were forms of radha/lakshmi.

Neruppu if you know whats best for your life then that is good already..:thumbsup:..astrologer fair and handsome sonaarae...paarka aamir khan mathiri irupaan ellei madhavan mathiri irupaana sonaara?

[Fire111999]

paarka aamir khan mathiri irupaan ellei madhavan mathiri irupaana sonaara?

oh god, no! given that i don't like amir khan, definitely not like him! madhavan? he looks old! but anyways, the astrologer didn't say! :lol: and i don't want to compare with actors! :roll:

[villan007]

madhavan mathiri irupaana sonaara?

madhavan ellathukum killu keeraya poitaar :twisted:

[Hulkster]

Appadiya nalla ponnu....not like some people who want their partners to be like simba..:evil:..:D

[Hulkster]

madhavan mathiri irupaana sonaara?

madhavan ellathukum killu keeraya poitaar :twisted:

Athu ellei pa....ellarukkum pidikkum nu summa potaen...athukkum oru commenta?..seri enimel naan madhavan pathi pesa mattein...perarasu mathiri irupaara nu poduraen..okayva?

[Shakthiprabha.]

madhavan pathi enna pechu :evil:

fire madhavan old aa :roll: :evil:

athu sari...... :|

[Alien]

discussing with our own parents about our life partners is nothing wrong...but yenga amma naan enna sonaalum...kavalai padathae..unukku mahalakshmi ponna varuvaa nu solli escape ayiduvaanga... :x
:lol:

ippo chandrasekar ku yetha appo mahalakshmi enga irukaangalo ? :roll:

:rotfl:
:rotfl: ...... :P

[Fire111999]

madhavan pathi enna pechu :evil:

fire madhavan old aa :roll: :evil:

athu sari...... :|

uh.....sorry. :oops: r u a madavan fan?

[Fire111999]

Appadiya nalla ponnu....not like some people who want their partners to be like simba..:evil:..:D

chinna pasangalukku ettha chinna paiyan. :wink: but a pity he doesn't look good.

[Shakthiprabha.]

MADHAVAN FAN aaa yaraavathu illama irukka mudiyumo?

[Fire111999]

MADHAVAN FAN aaa yaraavathu illama irukka mudiyumo?

ok. fine. we shall just agree to disagree on that point! :D

i did like his earlier films, like kannathil muthamittal, dum dum dum, run, parthale paravasam (i think tha's the right name), etc. but was never his fan.

[Shakthiprabha.]

hmm fine fire. :D. He entered film at a late age (late 20z) hence was neve seen boyish.

He has good acting skills n looks too

yup ofcourse agreeign to disagree because all sorts to make the world u see :D

[Fire111999]

he's got good expressions. but i have not liked any of his recent movies. but i guess he has his own charm.

[Fire111999]

anyway, i'm going off now. bye!

[Ghlli]

hell no! :lol:


:? I have no idea how that would look...is it like T.Rajendar, except with much longer blonde hair? :P :lol:

[Lambretta]

///////mahalakshmi ponna varuvaa nu solli escape ayiduvaanga.../////////

mahalakshmiyE ponnu vantha, vishnu kochuka mattaarO?
:shock: Aiyayyo!! Blasphemy! :x :oops:
Kadavalae...... :roll:

Jus kidding! :P :lol:

[Hulkster]

Lambretta kavalai padathaenge....naan satharana ponnu thaan kalyana poga poraen..so vishnukku no prachanai.

[Shakthiprabha.]

haiyo lambretta,

spare me from such heavy accuse :lol:


Actually...I remembered an old drama..

There was a drama telecasted in DOORDARSHAN (good old great dd...... i still love it)

The name of the drama was

IYYA AMMA AMMAMMAA

It had kaathadi ramamoorthy in it. His dad would bring some prospective girls pic for him to chooose.

he would look at the first pic and say

"aaaaaaaa appa...... intha ponna enakku rommmmmmba pidichirukku.... apdiyE mahalakshmi mathiri irukkaa"

"arivu kettavanE....... athu mahalaksmiyE thaandaa... albumla muthal photo mahalakshmiya irukkatumEnnu oru sagunathukku vecha........... athai poi....... haiyo haiyo (would hit his head)" :lol: :rotfl:

[Lambretta]

It had kaathadi ramamoorthy in it. His dad would bring some prospective girls pic for him to chooose.

he would look at the first pic and say

"aaaaaaaa appa...... intha ponna enakku rommmmmmba pidichirukku.... apdiyE mahalakshmi mathiri irukkaa"

"arivu kettavanE....... athu mahalaksmiyE thaandaa... albumla muthal photo mahalakshmiya irukkatumEnnu oru sagunathukku vecha........... athai poi....... haiyo haiyo (would hit his head)" :lol: :rotfl:
:lol:
Good one SP! :lol2: Ithe jokes thread le post pannirkanum! :D

[crazy]

i expect ..............................eh? someone kind, someone who loves talking to me, somone who really loves walking with me, someone who is kind enough to lettting me adopt a child, someone who loves tamil eelam and india as much as i love! someone who cares for nature, someone who does believe in GOD, someone who stands up for his right, someone who never turn his back to my ppl, someone who could POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND ME THE WAY IAM,somone who is............................................that s all i can think so far!

i know that its all a dream, even if somone shows up like this, i dont think i could possibly fall in love with him!

lets wait and see, i got plenty of time, sO have to wait and SEE OR WRITE!

[selvakumar]

Good Thread Indeed !

But I am unable to contribute atleast for the time being :| :oops:

:wave: From this Thread

P.S: if I start writing, this thread might reach serveral pages immediately

[Chappani]

someone who loves tamil eelam and india as much as i love!
that was a good one crazy :thumbsup: ...

[swathy]

someone from south india. i shud be able to reach my parents in just a night. i dont want to go much far from them.

IR fana irundha kalakkal :wink:

[bingleguy]

Swathy ...... :lol: neenga oru vithiyaasamaana piravi

Americca vai thedi odum pennarasigalil
thaai naadai madhikkum neengal oru Pon Arasi !

[hi]

It remind me of this song :lol:

Pennai pennai pennai pennai,
Pennai paartthathum valibavan vaendaam,
Time kaettathum kulaibavan vaendaam,:hammer:
Naan solvathai seiybavan vaendaam,
Sollaathathai seiybavan vaendaam,
Chummaa umm-ina iruppavan vaendaam, :evil:
Dhinam jam-inu iruppavan vaendaam, :huh:
Pennai adikkadi rasippavan vaendaam,
Rasikkaamal iruppavan vaendaam, :twisted:
Rombavum rombavum oothima putthiran vaendaam,
Vaendaam vaendaam vaendaam,


Cell phone-galai maranthavan vaendum,
Tholaikaatchiyai thiranthavan vaendum,
Suya butthiyil vaalbavan vaendum, :D
Bya bakthiyil kuchondu vaendum, :D
Romba ailbaa nadappavan vaendum,
Veli padaiyaa iruppavan vaendum-mmm, :clap:
Eppovaachu kovikka vaendum, :wink:
Chella pair vatchu koopida vaendum, :P
Ada appavum ippavum eppavum engalin,
Nanbanaaga vaalnthida vaendum (vaendum!), :thumbsup:

[Hulkster]

Matham nambikkai illathavargalai yethu kolveergala?...anaal kaduvul nambikkei undu.

[Lambretta]

someone from south india. i shud be able to reach my parents in just a night. i dont want to go much far from them.

IR fana irundha kalakkal :wink:
Well.....I am very much from South, still want to live here only.....!:)
& yup Iam an IR fan too...8-) :mrgreen:

:lol: JUS KIDDING!! :P :rotfl:
Sorry! :oops: :D

But one thot- wat if he is from the south but later happens to (God forbid) be transferred to another part of the country? Esp. happens in central govt. jobs, rite?....:(
Neways, Good Luck! :thumbsup:

[Lambretta]

Swathy ...... :lol: neenga oru vithiyaasamaana piravi
Americca vai thedi odum pennarasigalil
thaai naadai madhikkum neengal oru Pon Arasi !
Athu nallathu thaane! :D

[hi]

- Who respect his / my parents
- Practical / Patience
- Cool / Understanding
- Emotional / Sensitive at times
- Hardworking / humble
- Give in easily
- Caring
- Don't loose his temper easily / not spending too much :D

[selvakumar]

- Who respect his / my parents
- Practical / Patience
- Cool / Understanding
- Emotional / Sensitive at times
- Hardworking / humble
- Give in easily
- Caring
- Don't loose his temper easily / not spending too much :D


:shock: :o I don't have even a single quality mentioned by you. :lol: would be better if MOST OF THE GALS WHOM I AM GONNA MEET DURING "PONNU PAARKUM PADALAM" won't expect this one from me :oops: :oops: :lol:

[hi]

Selva,

Hey.. how r u? :D

It's not my expectation.. it's already there.. for sumone :D

[Lambretta]

- Who respect his / my parents
- Practical / Patience
- Cool / Understanding
- Emotional / Sensitive at times
- Hardworking / humble
- Give in easily
- Caring
- Don't loose his temper easily / not spending too much :D
Um.....I thot u said u'd also like him to wear veshti? :? :D

[Lambretta]

Selva,

Hey.. how r u? :D

It's not my expectation.. it's already there.. for sumone :D
U mean already ther in sumone? Yea, tat'd be true.......only u got2 find tat sumone!

[hi]

- Who respect his / my parents
- Practical / Patience
- Cool / Understanding
- Emotional / Sensitive at times
- Hardworking / humble
- Give in easily
- Caring
- Don't loose his temper easily / not spending too much :D
Um.....I thot u said u'd also like him to wear veshti? :? :D

Hmm yes...

- he shd respect indian culture and tradition... and expect me to follow the same :D

Lamby,

already found one :wink:

sadly he don't know how to wear vesti

[great]

Selva,

Hey.. how r u? :D

It's not my expectation.. it's already there.. for sumone :D
U mean already ther in sumone? Yea, tat'd be true.......only u got2 find tat sumone! :lol: :lol: :lol:

[great]

- Who respect his / my parents
- Practical / Patience
- Cool / Understanding
- Emotional / Sensitive at times
- Hardworking / humble
- Give in easily
- Caring
- Don't loose his temper easily / not spending too much :D
Um.....I thot u said u'd also like him to wear veshti? :? :D

Hmm yes...

- he shd respect indian culture and tradition... and expect me to follow the same :D

Lamby,

already found one :wink:

sadly he don't know how to wear vesti

[hi]

Great,

:oops: :lol:

[great]

:lol: :lol:

[Lambretta]

Hmm yes...

- he shd respect indian culture and tradition... and expect me to follow the same :D
No no, I didnt suggest tat wearing 'desi' outfit alone means following our culture/tradition...:oops: :D


Lamby,

already found one :wink:
sadly he don't know how to wear vesti
Well...congrats! :D
But tats ok.....u cud get him to do it once u've won him over totally! :lol:

[Lambretta]

:lol: :lol:
Ayyo gr8! Ethuku avangle kuduma pathranguh! :P :lol:
Btw, anju...how come he doesnt know how to wear it? Is he telugu guy? (even sum of them do wear it....:?)
Or an NRI in Sing.? :)

[selvakumar]

Selva,

Hey.. how r u? :D

It's not my expectation.. it's already there.. for sumone :D

I am fine Anjali. I know THAT ULAGA MAGAA THIYAAGI :lol: (Just kidding :wink: )

marriageukku engala koopida maranthudaatheenga :D

P.S: verum SAMBAAR SAAPPAADU SAAPITTU BORE ADUCHIRUCHU. Plz provide some DELICIOUS NON-VEG FOODS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE :D :D

[hi]

Lamby,

Nope he is tamil.. frm chennai :oops:

main expectation... he shd cook on sat & sundays :rotfl:

[great]

:lol: :lol:
Ayyo gr8! Ethuku avangle kuduma pathranguh! :P :lol:
Btw, anju...how come he doesnt know how to wear it? Is he telugu guy? (even sum of them do wear it....:?)
Or an NRI in Sing.? :)

No he is punjabi !!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

[nms]

My wish list:

-To be open-minded;
-A Rational thinker;
-Not tooo sensitive to simple issues;
-Shud not be a couch potato - aprum enakku soru kidaikkadhu.;
- to be interested in Tamil literature: Reading tamil literature will make one's mind broad;
-Be practical and assertive.

N Important of all these - Rasippu thanmai....similar to the creative design that Kamal Hassan & Madhan will do from the spilt dish in the film "Anbe Sivam".



lots more...LOL

[selvakumar]

Lamby,

Nope he is tamil.. frm chennai :oops:

and more thing main expectation i expect him to cook on sat & sundays :rotfl:


:rotfl:

ONly 2 days.. What about MONDAY TO FRIDAY :rotfl:

P.S: Just reminds me SOMEONE WHO PREFERS THE HUBBY TO PLAY TO ROLE OF A DRIVER :rotfl:

[nms]

Lamby,

Nope he is tamil.. frm chennai :oops:

and more thing main expectation i expect him to cook on sat & sundays :rotfl:

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

[hi]

I am fine Anjali. I know THAT ULAGA MAGAA THIYAAGI :lol: (Just kidding :wink: )


No other choice :rotfl:



marriageukku engala koopida maranthudaatheenga :D

Kandipa :D



P.S: verum SAMBAAR SAAPPAADU SAAPITTU BORE ADUCHIRUCHU. Plz provide some DELICIOUS NON-VEG FOODS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE :D :D

Ada naangae veg .. anyway shall arrange :D

[great]

Lamby,

Nope he is tamil.. frm chennai :oops:

and more thing main expectation i expect him to cook on sat & sundays :rotfl:

:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

NMS , are u from chennai !!!

[nms]

No,
I am a coimbatorean living in chennai.

[great]

wogie :)

[villan007]

No,
I am a coimbatorean living in chennai.

:roll:

[swathy]

Swathy ...... :lol: neenga oru vithiyaasamaana piravi

Americca vai thedi odum pennarasigalil
thaai naadai madhikkum neengal oru Pon Arasi !

hihi adhu vandhu madurai vittu vandhadhilaye relatives niraya perai vittu dhoorama vandha madhiri irukku innum vilagi poga manam illai

ingeye jeikkanumnnu aasai :D

[swathy]

someone from south india. i shud be able to reach my parents in just a night. i dont want to go much far from them.

IR fana irundha kalakkal :wink:
Well.....I am very much from South, still want to live here only.....!:)
& yup Iam an IR fan too...8-) :mrgreen:

:lol: JUS KIDDING!! :P :rotfl:
Sorry! :oops: :D

:D


But one thot- wat if he is from the south but later happens to (God forbid) be transferred to another part of the country? Esp. happens in central govt. jobs, rite?....:(
Neways, Good Luck! :thumbsup:

nice question I can manage North India but I pray I dont want to go abroad :-)

[bingleguy]

:lol: Swathy !

[P_R]

I want a wife who will work and send me to school. And while I am going to school I want a wife to take care of my children. I want a wife a wife to keep track of the children's doctor and dentist appointments. And to keep track of mine, too. I want a wife to make sure my children eat properly and are kept clean. I want a wife who will wash the children's clothes and keep them mended. I want a wife who is a good nurturing attendant to my children, who arranges for their schooling, makes sure that they have an adequate social life with their peers, takes them to the park, the zoo, etc. I want a wife who takes care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arranges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, I cannot miss classes at school. My wife must arrange to lose time at work and not lose the job. It may mean a small cut in my wife's income from time to time, but I guess I can tolerate that. Needless to say, my wife will arrange and pay for the care of the children while my wife is working.

I want a wife who will take care of my physical needs. I want a wife who will keep my house clean. A wife who will pick up after my children, a wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper place so that I can find what I need the minute I need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife who is a good cook. I want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shopping, prepare the meals,serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I want a wife who will care for me when I am sick and sympathize with my pain and loss of time from school. I want a wife to go along when our family takes a vacation so that someone can continue care for me and my when I need a rest and change of scene. I want a wife who will not bother me with rambling complaints about a wife's duties. But I want a wife who will listen to me when I feel the need to explain a rather difficult point I have come across in my course of studies. And I want a wife who will type my papers for me when I have written them.

I want a wife who will take care of the details of my social life. When my wife and I are invited out by my friends, I want a wife who take care of the baby-sitting arrangements. When I meet people at school that I like and want to entertain, I want a wife who will have the house clean, will prepare a special meal, serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when I talk about things that interest me and my friends. I want a wife who will have arranged that the children are fed and ready for bed before my guests arrive so that the children do not bother us. I want a wife who takes care of the needs of my quests so that they feel comfortable, who makes sure that they have an ashtray, that they are passed the hors d'oeuvres, that they are offered a second helping of the food, that their wine glasses are replenished when necessary, that their coffee is served to them as they like it. And I want a wife who knows that sometimes I need a night out by myself.

I want a wife who is sensitive to my sexual needs, a wife who makes love passionately and eagerly when I feel like it, a wife who makes sure that I am satisfied. And, of course, I want a wife who will not demand sexual attention when I am not in the mood for it. I want a wife who assumes the complete responsibility for birth control, because I do not want more children. I want a wife who will remain sexually faithful to me so that I do not have to clutter up my intellectual life with jealousies. And I want a wife who understands that my sexual needs may entail more than strict adherence to monogamy. I must, after all, be able to relate to people as fully as possible.

If, by chance, I find another person more suitable as a wife than the wife I already have, I want the liberty to replace my present wife with another one. Naturally, I will expect a fresh, new life; my wife will take the children and be solely responsible for them so that I am left free.

[bingleguy]

MOtham ethanai wife venum prabhu sir ungalukku :shock:

[Shakthiprabha.]

PR

:ROLL:

:SHOCK:

I THOUGHT U ARE MARRIED AND GOT probably 2 KIDS :oops:

[P_R]

MOtham ethanai wife venum prabhu sir ungalukku :shock::-)

[swathy]

prabhu ram:

mm mm mmm mm no comments

[P_R]

PR

:ROLL:

:SHOCK:

I THOUGHT U ARE MARRIED AND GOT probably 2 KIDS :oops:

Actually this is lifted from Why I Want a Wife by Judy Syfers (1971)
Here's thw whole thing: http://www.cwluherstory.com/CWLUArchive/wantawife.html

I justed posted that part to send a little shock in this otherwise quaint thread :-)

[Shakthiprabha.]

pr,

I guessed so :P

:D

I wish therez

http://www.wantahusband.htm

which many women can post :roll:

[swathy]

PR

:ROLL:

:SHOCK:

I THOUGHT U ARE MARRIED AND GOT probably 2 KIDS :oops:

Actually this is lifted from Why I Want a Wife by Judy Syfers (1971)
Here's thw whole thing: http://www.cwluherstory.com/CWLUArchive/wantawife.html

I justed posted that part to send a little shock in this otherwise quaint thread :-)

hihi :-)

[P_R]

When I was in college this was a piece that was recommended by my teacher. Hard hitting and funny is a deadly combination. Most memorable piece of feminist writing I have come across. It stings precisely because the exaggeration is only mild.

[bingleguy]

:lol:

[swathy]

BG neenga rachel annana :wink:

[crazy]

someone who loves tamil eelam and india as much as i love!
that was a good one crazy :thumbsup: ...

thank u!

[dsath]

Prabhu Ram that article was sarcasm at its heights. Wonderful reading............ :)

[Raikkonen]

Enna vida engamma appava respect panra wife than enakke venum.
Enakke support ah irukkanum...

Nalla vayaadi ah iruntha better...
Because im sort of quite kind of guy....
Nalla pairing naa nalla argue pannanum...

[swathy]

Enna vida engamma appava respect panra wife than enakke venum.
Enakke support ah irukkanum...

Nalla vayaadi ah iruntha better...
Because im sort of quite kind of guy....
Nalla pairing naa nalla argue pannanum...

nee quitea :roll:

[Raikkonen]

Yessu....

Mothathile Manju matiri oru wife wantha naan romba happy ah iruppen...

[Thunderbird]

prabhuram, that was a masterpiece.. I was what :shock: :o

:)

[rachel]

prabhuram, that was a masterpiece.. I was what :shock: :o

:)

i just read his masterpiece... :shock: :shock:

[Thunderbird]

rachel, check his post :poke:

:rotfl:




Actually this is lifted from Why I Want a Wife by Judy Syfers (1971)
Here's thw whole thing: http://www.cwluherstory.com/CWLUArchive/wantawife.html

I justed posted that part to send a little shock in this otherwise quaint thread :-)

[rachel]

ah....

[Lambretta]

*digr
ah....
Wow rachel! Wat a LOOONG post!! :shock: :oops:
Longest I've ever seen in the hub in quite a while, really! Itthe padikarambodhu time patthi maranthe poyite!
Shooooh! :roll:

:poke: :lol: :rotfl: :rotfl:

/digr

[Raikkonen]

Enakke vara pora wife, 8 conditions eh fill pannirukkanum...

[thamizhvaanan]

conditions podatheenga, appuram antha SVe sekkhar padam madiri ayidum :lol:

[Raikkonen]

Sari enakke vara pora wifeku

rendu kannu irukkanum
rendu kaathu irukkanum
Oru vai irukkanum..

Moolai?
Atha karumam iruntha enna illaina enna..

[Lambretta]

Sari enakke vara pora wifeku
rendu kannu irukkanum
rendu kaathu irukkanum
Oru vai irukkanum..
Moolai?
Atha karumam iruntha enna illaina enna..
Avun-anna, unga kannu-ku aveh ILLEANA va iruntha entha karmam iruntha enna ILLAINA enna! :wink: :P :lol:

[Raikkonen]

Apdiyum sollalam

[Ghlli]

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


Sari enakke vara pora wifeku

rendu kannu irukkanum
rendu kaathu irukkanum
Oru vai irukkanum..

Moolai?
Atha karumam iruntha enna illaina enna..

[Raikkonen]

RESPECT..

Ya that is something..
Yengamma koda ennai Dei Siva nu kopdathillai..

Anna ippave Avange Dei, Vaada, Poda levelthan..
Marriage achunna..

Ayyayo....

[crazy]

my ......................

ennakku samaikka theriyaadhu, adhanaala nalla(illa oralavu sumara) samaikka therincha var kidacha nalla irukkum! :)

[villan007]

my ......................

ennakku samaikka theriyaadhu, adhanaala nalla(illa oralavu sumara) samaikka therincha var kidacha nalla irukkum! :)

:lol:

[Hulkster]

my ......................

ennakku samaikka theriyaadhu, adhanaala nalla(illa oralavu sumara) samaikka therincha var kidacha nalla irukkum! :)

:lol:

Crazy neenga villathi villainai kattikunga...rombo overa sirrikiraaru...:twisted:

[crazy]

hallo seriousa solluren sirikireenga

ennakku oru thangamaana purushan ellam venam
oru porukki (ippi tamil cinemala hero in laam appadi thaan kaadhalikkiraanga) adhuvum nalla samaikka therincha porukkiya thaan naan kalyaanam pannikuven!

[Hulkster]

Villathi villain semma porukki...thala kootathin thalaivar...neenga nalla kattikunga avarai...:D

[crazy]

hulk neenga ippadiyellam pesa avar kovichu kidhu poha poraar, naan avarayum vidha oru better porukkiya thaan kalyaanam seyyven

f.ins
thirudhu paayale porukki
chidiram pesudhadhi porukku
aaru porukki
vera ella cinema porukki thaan enakku vendum!!!!!!!

[Hulkster]

Orae oru porukkiyoda thaan settle aaga mudiyum..intha mathiri 3 porukki kattikittaal oorae thaangaathu.

[crazy]

Orae oru porukkiyoda thaan settle aaga mudiyum..intha mathiri 3 porukki kattikittaal oorae thaangaathu.

no no naan ippadi niraya porukki meet panni avangala yellam love panni appuram yaar athila BEST PORUKKInnu paarthu avan kudhdha appuram kalyaanam!

[Hulkster]

Aaahaa...ithu kathalakkae maha insultae...enimel yentha commentsum varaathu...:banghead:

[crazy]

sarippa naan vena oruthanaye kaadhalikiren
aana yaara kaadhalikka ennakku BEST PORUKKI thaan vendum!

[villan007]

sarippa naan vena oruthanaye kaadhalikiren
aana yaara kaadhalikka ennakku BEST PORUKKI thaan vendum!


8-)

[crazy]

sarippa naan vena oruthanaye kaadhalikiren
aana yaara kaadhalikka ennakku BEST PORUKKI thaan vendum!


8-)

enna villan enga ponaalum emotion kodukireenga? vaaya thirandhu pesura ennam illayaa?

[Hulkster]

Avarakku Rachelitis vanthuthu...athaan emotiocona poliyiraaru.

[crazy]

enn rachelum ippadi thaan emotions poduvaangala?

[Hulkster]

Ithu hub leh keikum tappana kelvi....avanga emoticons rani nu hubbukkae therincha vishayam...ithu mettum ellei...bush kuda rachelai paarthu thaan emotioncons voda pesa arambichaar.

[crazy]

Ithu hub leh keikum tappana kelvi....avanga emoticons rani nu hubbukkae therincha vishayam...ithu mettum ellei...bush kuda rachelai paarthu thaan emotioncons voda pesa arambichaar.

ok here is my emotions then :cry: :cry: :cry: :lol: :P :roll:

[Hulkster]

ungalai emoticons poda naan sollulae...intha keikaatha velai ellam seiyuruthu intha hougang chandraseharku pidikaatha velai...:evil:

[crazy]

ungalai emoticons poda naan sollulae...intha keikaatha velai ellam seiyuruthu intha hougang chandraseharku pidikaatha velai...:evil:

aama unga areal niraya donkeys irukkuma?

[Hulkster]

Yaen...neenga kazhuthai meika poraengela?..:D

[crazy]

Yaen...neenga kazhuthai meika poraengela?..:D

illa avanga representative kudha pesikidhu irukkene engira oru santhosathula kedhen, avalo thaan!

[Hulkster]

Representative ah?..:shock:..:evil:....ada guruvayurappa...enna kodumai pa ithu...:banghead:

[crazy]

Representative ah?..:shock:..:evil:....ada guruvayurappa...enna kodumai pa ithu...:banghead:

sorry unga avatara paathu thappa ninachuthen, neenga human enpadhaye marandhudhen!

[Hulkster]

Yennodeiya avatar vanthu donkey ellei ma....spiritbreaker...its a two legged panni...who is very strong.

[crazy]

Yennodeiya avatar vanthu donkey ellei ma....spiritbreaker...its a two legged panni...who is very strong.

ayyo appo neenga donkey kudha illaya, panniya

ayyo ayyo hulk hulk :rotfl: :rotfl: :poke: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

[thamizhvaanan]

inga enna nadakkuthu, fire vandhu paatha uyiraye vittuduvaanga.

en thread chat thread ayidichennu kadaruvanga.

hulk!! :shock: u too brutus!!! :shock:

[crazy]

ok for once and all

my future better(loosu) half should be

1 nalla samaiykaarar
2 a bit loosu
3 good in tamil
4 good talker
5 good walker
6 PORUKKI (coz its getting fashioned to fall in love with porukkis, like in cinema)
7 love my tamil culture and tamils
8 love tamil eelam and india
9 love travelling
10 must not be a kanjus
11 SHOULD ALSO LOVE MY FELLOW HUBBER
12 must believe in GOD/HINDUISM, other religions ok too!
13 being update person, not conservative..........
14 helping me in ...............everything
15 loves working for social/political cause
16 must not drink alcohol and must not smoke
17 i dont want a srirama chandran, but should be a raman after marrying me,( can also change after divorcing me, i dont care!)
18 hm stands up for his/my/communities/countries/our ppls rights!
19 vera enna irukku................hm ngaabagam vandha marupadiyum ezhuthuren!

idhanaiyum ulla oruvan kidaikka anaivarum enakkaha saamikidha vendungal!

ippadikku anbulla
crazy. :)

[thamizhvaanan]

19 pointsla 1 and 12 mattum cross pannunga, mathathellam tick :D

application OKvaa??? :lol:

[crazy]

19 pointsla 1 and 12 mattum cross pannunga, mathathellam tick :D

application OKvaa??? :lol:

ok! idhu kedachadhe periya vishayam!
samaikka theriyaadhi enna, yaar veedilavadhu osi saapadhu saapidalaam!

12 hmmmmmmmmmm dont believe in GOD................OK BUT DO U BELIEVE IN DARWISM THEN?

[thamizhvaanan]

i beleive in god, not much in hinduism :D

[crazy]

i beleive in god, not much in hinduism :D

dont u see, i also welcomed other religions, i believe i can convert him, if not its allright, coz GOD IS ONE AND SAME FOR ALL!

[Ghlli]

hmm....
veetu velai nalla seya therinjakanum :lol:

[Hulkster]

ok for once and all

my future better(loosu) half should be

1 nalla samaiykaarar
2 a bit loosu
3 good in tamil
4 good talker
5 good walker
6 PORUKKI (coz its getting fashioned to fall in love with porukkis, like in cinema)
7 love my tamil culture and tamils
8 love tamil eelam and india
9 love travelling
10 must not be a kanjus
11 SHOULD ALSO LOVE MY FELLOW HUBBER
12 must believe in GOD/HINDUISM, other religions ok too!
13 being update person, not conservative..........
14 helping me in ...............everything
15 loves working for social/political cause
16 must not drink alcohol and must not smoke
17 i dont want a srirama chandran, but should be a raman after marrying me,( can also change after divorcing me, i dont care!)
18 hm stands up for his/my/communities/countries/our ppls rights!
19 vera enna irukku................hm ngaabagam vandha marupadiyum ezhuthuren!

idhanaiyum ulla oruvan kidaikka anaivarum enakkaha saamikidha vendungal!

ippadikku anbulla
crazy. :)

1) Konjam Konjam samaikka theriyum..fried rice antha mathiri.
2) Konjam ellei ara loosu
3) Tamilae pesi pesi thaan sg tamil pulavar pattam vaanginaen
4) Naan debate leh pesum minukkae yennodeiya teamku victory..avala bayangaramana speaker naan..:evil:
5) Naan daily yennodeiya districtai sutthi naduppaen..10km
6) Nammai paarthu red...sullan nu yenga schoolae sollavaanga so naan yenna mathiriyana porukki nu eppo therinchirukkum.
7) Tamil culture pidichaalum sila superstitious/unproven beliefs follow pennuvethu ellei...tamilargal pidikkum
8) India pidikkum....tamil eelam pathi rombo periya doubt
9) Travelling ah.....naan eppo varikkum yennodeiya country vittu 48 km thooram thaan poirukkaen.
10) Naan alli alli kodukkum vallal(kaasilum..adilum..:twisted:)
11) Sorry naan pondadi mettum thaan kaathalikka mudiyum..hubbers ellam only like
12) Kaduvul yes...vehemently against religion
13) Neither conservative or update..follow what is right and what is wrong...but im terribly behind in terms of trends and fashion sense
14) Help pennuruthukkae peru yeduthuvan naan..athai pathi kavalai vendam.
15) social causeku velai seiyvethae yen polappa pochi.
16) smokodeiya smell yetinaalae yenukku health confusion aayidum...alcohol kandaalae vaanthi varum.
17) Naan unnum yentha ponnum melae kaiyi veichuthu ellei...athu naalae confirm yennodeiya first touch pondadikkae(divorce...english leh yenukku pidikaathu keitha vaarthai..:evil:)
18) People's rightsku nikkuvethae nammodeiya onnuru polappu

[Thirumaran]

Kanavu kaanum vaazhkai yaavum..
Kalainthu poagum megangal..
:cry:

I feel sad for u all :rotfl: :mrgreen:

[Hulkster]

Kanavu kaanum vaazhkai yaavum..
Kalainthu poagum megangal..
:cry:

I feel sad for u all :rotfl: :mrgreen:

Anaal yenukku kalayanthukku ponnu anupinaal podum nu yerkanavae mention pennitaen...so yenukku no sadness...:mrgreen:

[Thirumaran]

Kanavu kaanum vaazhkai yaavum..
Kalainthu poagum megangal..
:cry:

I feel sad for u all :rotfl: :mrgreen:

Anaal yenukku kalayanthukku ponnu anupinaal podum nu yerkanavae mention pennitaen...so yenukku no sadness...:mrgreen:

Do u mean in character or external structures :roll: :rotfl:

So sad :cry:

[Hulkster]

rendumae thaan pa...intha nakkal nayaandi ellam yenukku pidikaathu...:evil:

[Thirumaran]

rendumae thaan pa...intha nakkal nayaandi ellam yenukku pidikaathu...:evil:

:oops:

Sari seekiram neenga thaedra maathiri ponnu kidaikka vaazhukkal :cry:

First time, nadakaatha oru visayathukku vaazhthu sollraen :cry:

[Hulkster]

Appadina...yenukku ponnae kideikaathu solluraenge....Mr Thiruthirumaran....unnum oru vaarthai ellei emoticon type adichaenge...engae naan adikira melam stamfordleh ratha puyala vara poguthu...jakarthai!..:evil:

[thamizhvaanan]

heh

[crazy]

ok for once and all

my future better(loosu) half should be

1 nalla samaiykaarar
2 a bit loosu
3 good in tamil
4 good talker
5 good walker
6 PORUKKI (coz its getting fashioned to fall in love with porukkis, like in cinema)
7 love my tamil culture and tamils
8 love tamil eelam and india
9 love travelling
10 must not be a kanjus
11 SHOULD ALSO LOVE MY FELLOW HUBBERS
12 must believe in GOD/HINDUISM, other religions ok too!
13 being update person, not conservative..........
14 helping me in ...............everything
15 loves working for social/political cause
16 must not drink alcohol and must not smoke
17 i dont want a srirama chandran, but should be a raman after marrying me,( can also change after divorcing me, i dont care!)
18 hm stands up for his/my/communities/countries/our ppls rights!
19 vera enna irukku................hm ngaabagam vandha marupadiyum ezhuthuren!

idhanaiyum ulla oruvan kidaikka anaivarum enakkaha saamikidha vendungal!

ippadikku anbulla
crazy.

sorry i forgot 2 important things

20 he should allow me to adopt children( i love kids, so i want as much as kids as possible)
21 he should have a job, how could i else live? a man who can support/provide for me and my future kids!

thats it for now!

[Lambretta]

2 a bit loosu...............6 PORUKKI (coz its getting fashioned to fall in love with porukkis, like in cinema)
Um.....well, I thot porukkis r loosu....? in character tat is! :? :oops:
Of course if they r jobless then they also roam around loose! :lol:


11 SHOULD ALSO LOVE MY FELLOW HUBBER
ONLY 1 HUBBER??!! Inge ore oru hubber kanda thaan pidikuma unglaku?! :shock: :(


21 he should have a job, how could i else live? a man who can support/provide for me and my future kids!
Ana appo vanthu avaru 'porukki' status lenthu disqualify aiporaru illeyyo?! :P :lol:

[bingleguy]

Crazy Chellam :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: ada da ennaala sirippa adakka mudiyalaye !

[crazy]

Crazy Chellam :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:
:lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol: ada da ennaala sirippa adakka mudiyalaye !

enn ivalo sirippu, enna thappa sollidhen? enakku ippadi orudhara vennumnu kedhkiradhu thappa?