Topic started by saran (@ 202.9.151.117) on Wed Sep 17 12:06:18 .
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folka, iam a tamil and iam marrying a bengali in a few months. forget about my love story. even though , itz interesting, itz irrrelevant to u folks. iam jes looking for someone here , a tamil of either sexes whoz married a bengali. so that, iam prepared for her way of life and i dunt disappoint her, when it comes to her customs and traditions and i dunt wanna embarass her in front of her folks. any tips, someone wud like to lemme know? thanx folks

Responses:

• From: saran (@ 202.9.151.67) on: Sun Sep 21 07:46:39 EDT 2003
  
  sob sob , no one cares, it seems :(
  
  
• From: Ramadas (@ dclient80-218-20-30.hispeed.ch) on: Sun Sep 21 10:24:03 EDT 2003
  
  I know atleast one couple (husband Bengali wife a Tamil), I worked with the guy. They are very happy.
  
  Why are u worried, Saran? Go ahead and marry!
  Best wishes for a Happy and Prosperous Married life.
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in) on: Sun Sep 21 12:46:29 EDT 2003
  
  Saran,
  
  I too knwo a couple where the wife is tamil and hus bengali........they decided to meet up with the family members and learn each others customs as a short term course. They are very happily married now
  
  My best wishes
  
  
• From: Khokila (@ p9-144.intnet.mu) on: Sun Sep 21 12:49:57 EDT 2003
  
  Happy married life from me too. i don't think u shud worry abt traditions n customs. we're in the 3rd millenium n the world's becoming a global village. we r all equal. so, enjoy life. wish u lots of happiness
  
  
• From: saran (@ 202.9.151.243) on: Sat Sep 27 04:32:06 EDT 2003
  
  hey folks,
  thanx for the responses...
  in fact, actually , iam not worried, iam such concerned, that we dunt embarass each other , in front of the respective families, in terms of way of life. rest , iam pretty much happy bwith what i have got.
  thanx anyways, folks.
  
  
• From: anbu (@ s00dad2.ssa.gov) on: Sat Oct 4 13:46:14 EDT 2003
  
  சரன், நீங்கள் நீங்களாகவே இருங்கள். எக்காரணத்திற்கொண்டும் தமிழ் கலாச்சார அடித்தளத்தை விட்டு கொடுத்து விடாதீர்கள். உங்களுக்கு எனது மனமார்ந்த திருமண வாழ்த்துக்கள்.
  
  In case you cannot see the tamil text: In IE, go to View->Encoding and select 'Unicode(UTF-8)'.
  
  
• From: saran (@ 202.9.151.100) on: Sat Oct 4 14:53:56 EDT 2003
  
  anbu, sorry mate, i still couldn't get the tamil fonts. all i got was a series of "?" this and thatz it. i sure as hell, wud like to know, wat u had written.
  thanx for responding and keep vibing
  
  
• From: Bala (@ ) on: Thu May 20 17:52:51
  
  hi saran,
  i don no by this time u wud hav got married.all i wanted to tell u and all others who reads this message is that who ever u have married or are about to get married,it does'nt matter what caste,creed,colour or culture they belong to,BECAUSE YOU ARE LOVING YOUR PARTNER ALREADY.LOVE IS ABOVE ALL TAHT WE WOULD EVER HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT.LOVE LIVES ALWAYS.
  
  I WISH SARAN FOR A HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.
  
  

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