Topic started by kumar (@ 203.145.184.108) on Tue Dec 10 08:22:37 .
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If given a chance what you would not repeat in life?
I would certainly drop my short temper which has ruined some excellent chances to succeed.

Responses:

• From: Skanthavelu Nadarajah (@ edtntnt13-port-44.dial.telus.net) on: Tue Dec 10 08:43:57
  
  I would like to get back something dear to me which was taken away from me in 1992. If I could get it back, I would see that better care is taken of it.
  
  I would like to have my old friend, Indira Bilgi, as my friend again. I won't mess up by telling people om the Net about our private discussions or make jokes about Sathya Sai Baba, whom Indira worships and follows.
  
  I would like to change the fact that I payed a guy in Vancouver $67.00 every second month for 8 issues of Veerakesari(Sunday edition).
  
  Stop people who have bullied me and gotten away with in the past from doing it again to me or anyone else and see that those people get caught.
  
  
• From: Vaanchi (@ cache-haw2.cableinet.co.uk) on: Tue Dec 10 09:29:00
  
  For many men it would be their first marriage...
  
  
• From: Kajan (@ wc05.ym.rnc.net.cable.rogers.com) on: Tue Dec 10 10:50:36
  
  Well matured when I was kid
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 217.158.120.226) on: Tue Dec 10 11:58:23
  
  kajan;
  
  >>Well matured when I was kid<<
  
  that's not good man :)
  
  
• From: stg (@ 12.151.162.21) on: Wed Dec 11 04:34:29
  
  vaanchi has hit the bulls eye
  
  
• From: Kajan (@ wc05.ym.rnc.net.cable.rogers.com) on: Wed Dec 11 10:59:19
  
  Raghu ,
  
  U didn't understant what I mean. There r lots ( good things )to learn even at childish.
  
  
  
• From: Raghu (@ 217.158.120.226) on: Wed Dec 11 11:56:50
  
  vaanchi;
  
  excellent, I wish i did not ...............................
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ bangdp-35-134.mantraonline.com) on: Fri Dec 13 04:30:50
  
  what would I not want? not repeat?
  
  1. Would have chosen a right career (in media)
  
  2. Would have been better if I had not met...........().........in my life
  
  3. Would not have been indifferent or little rude to my husband during the initial 1 to 3 months of my marriage.
  
  5. Would have learned to self-defend!
  
  (not too late though)
  
  6. Loved to have known my grandfather much better. (he knew and spoke and wrote books on upanishads, philosophy of life etc)
  
  anyway.......
  
  NO REGRETS!
  
  
• From: Skanthavelu "Nervous Wreck" Nadarajah (@ edtntnt4-port-222.dial.telus.net) on: Fri Dec 13 21:11:20
  
  I would like to change the fact that I have been attacked on various occasions on FH.
  
  Skanthavelu Nadarajah
  
  
• From: Ramadas (@ dclient80-218-22-184.hispeed.ch) on: Sat Dec 14 11:38:02
  
  Nadarajah,
  Why do become nervous for such small things?
  
  
• From: Skanthavelu Nadarajah (@ edtntnt3-port-219.dial.telus.net) on: Sat Dec 14 13:36:26
  
  Ramadas,
  I know that all those attacks I receive from several FH-ers since coming here are all just craps, but, still seeing them on the screen just upsets me. :( A fortnight ago, I spoke very supportively about the LTTE/praising them for holding peace talks with their long time enemies. :) In my peace praising jingoism, I said "Death to VP" because I felt that by putting those posts up in the untold stories of the LTTE thread he was trying to obstruct this last chance of Mother Sri Lanka regaining her peace and I got major attacks from Nisala and others because of it. ;(( Now, I don't want to delve into it anymore for fear of more attacks from Nisala. I know it is my view and Nisala can not stop me, but I am scared of putting the fat into the fire. :( And one would think that Nisala would respect my oppinions. No, I should of not said, "Death to VP", but, also, Nisala should of acted with me the way he would of had I not said that and dismissed the "Death to VP" statement as I was just yapping or something.
  
  
• From: Skanthavelu Nadarajah (@ edtntnt3-port-88.dial.telus.net) on: Wed Jan 1 15:15:38
  
  I wish I could change all the times I made a joke on Amma Karunamayis Holy Name. My heart still sinks even to this day wen I look back on Shakthis jokes thread and see all the joke I made on Sri Karunamayis Name. :( I feel like such an idiot when I think back on that. I am certain that Amma forgives me, but, I wish I could go back and erase a few pages from Shakthis jokes thread. AMMA!!!! :((((
  
  
• From: Kumar (@ 202.88.152.194) on: Thu Jan 2 01:25:45
  
  At last, I regret fighting with my parents when they treated every other sibling of theirs, all elders better than me. I do not know why? But my teacher in Art of Living course hit the nail on the head " eventhough it is a must for parents to treat children equally, they may like one for a reason and dislike another for some other reason"
  Since it is the fact,we cannot grudge on it.
  My father was rude to me till may 2001. Then he somehow admitted that he treated me bad.
  When We started moving well,he expired last year.
  SO IF THERE IS A REWIND IN ME I WOULD HAVE WANTED TO HAVE GOOD RELATIONS WITH HIM ATLEAST 2 YEARS BEFORE HE BREATHED LAST.
  This is why may be I was short tempered with all.
  Now I have reduced it to almost 50-60%. This year I will get rid of this, which has ruined my life and career for this long.
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ ppp-174.blr.eth.net) on: Thu Jan 2 12:49:49
  
  kumar,
  
  It was nice reading ur post. Sometimes we throw harsh words on others. If not for one;s temper world is a beter place to live in.
  
  Good atleast u were in good terms when ur father passed away. Sometimes we realise or love a person after the person vanishes away from life.
  
  life is like that!!!
  
  best wishes.
  shakthi.
  
  

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