Topic started by priya (@ bkj-cache83.jaring.my) on Sun Oct 7 09:25:55 .
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I am a teenage girl and I am seeking advice from anyone. I loved this guy and it has been six months since we broke up. That guy had to break up with me due to some unwanted reason. But at that time, he still loved me (6 months ago). He still cares for me and we meet everyday. The problem is, I can't get over him and I am really lost. I am seeking for good advice. You might think that I am just following foot steps in the movies, but I am not. I just cant forget that guy. Please help me.

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• From: - (@ occe4.156ce.singa.pore.net) on: Wed Nov 21 03:24:33
  
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• From: pothigai (@ 202.68.150.2) on: Wed Nov 21 03:38:39
  
  dear supposed teenaged and overaged,
  
  the best way to get out of the love bug is to sleep with him once. you will never forget to hate him thereafter.
  
  
• From: Rodney (@ 0-1pool4-244.nas3.columbia2.sc.us.da.qwest.net) on: Tue Jul 22 21:23:52
  
  Well I look at it this way and Love doesn't care if you been in love for 10 days are for 24 years, I was married for that long and to tell you the truth is isn't easy to get over someone you Love , But I found out that If I replace this Love with another Love it is the best way so instead of going back in love with another female I will first Fall in Love with Jesus and allow him to guide me to the next person if any he wants me to have. Well I hope this will help. Put Jesus first then it will work out, sign unheardsong1@juno.com ,Rodney
  
  
• From: ;aslkdfj;l (@ cache139.156ce.maxonline.com.sg) on: Tue Jul 22 22:04:53 EDT 2003
  
  //Fall in Love with Jesus and allow him to guide me to the next person if any he wants me to have//
  
  Who is this chap jesus - who after using a girl, chucks her to his friend. After the friend had that girl who have her next - whould jesus arrange that too. whose that pimp?
  
  
• From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in) on: Wed Jul 23 02:25:41 EDT 2003
  
  Priya,
  
  This thread probably has no value, anymore as its past some months, and i am sure, u w ould have got over it........
  
  Time is the healer!.......
  
  Its always better to
  
  marry a person who loves u..than
  to marry a person whom u are in love with
  
  (I mean if u are considering marriage with the person whom u love!)
  
  
• From: mayilvahanan (@ ac0.emirates.net.ae) on: Wed Jul 23 04:01:41 EDT 2003
  
  Everything in this world can be solved over a cup of tea!
  So go to Indian coffee house with this guy, ask for tea ( else they would serve coffee), and discuss the future of the relation ship for the whole day ( may be many cups of tea). Discuss using your intelligence not your emotions.
  Judge for yourself and decide.
  
  
• From: Ramadas (@ dclient217-162-115-14.hispeed.ch) on: Wed Jul 23 13:19:38 EDT 2003
  
  mayilvahanan,
  which brand of Tea to specify?
  
  
• From: TamilNattan (@ cvg-65-27-251-73.cinci.rr.com) on: Wed Jul 23 13:31:28 EDT 2003
  
  'Storm' vandhuRa pOvudhu !
  
  
• From: mayilvahanan (@ 213.42.2.8) on: Thu Jul 24 00:12:35 EDT 2003
  
  Ramdas, for the teenager I would recommend 'Tata tea' or equivalent with a pinch of elaichi to begin with. As the discussion goes on, the subjects either spicy or sour. If it turns spicy, she can go for Lipton mint or Lipton masala tea. And if it goes sour, she can be served with a cup of Capuccino(Italian). Finally if she cant' digest the outcome of the discussion, she may ask for a lemon tea.
  
  
• From: Ramadas (@ dclient217-162-115-14.hispeed.ch) on: Thu Jul 24 01:34:31 EDT 2003
  
  Capuccino is a type of tea? I always thought it was a coffee drink!
  Jokes apart, priya is advised to simply stop meeting the guy again. Out of sight, out of mind!
  
  
• From: mayilvahanan (@ 213.42.2.8) on: Thu Jul 24 03:20:09 EDT 2003
  
  I think priya should involve her parents or some senior people in the family, so that she feels more secure about the relation ship if at all she wants to continue.
  
  
• From: bliss (@ ) on: Wed Aug 4 16:00:57
  
  well a similar thing i s happenening to me and i believe you could work out your differences and pput God first and everything would be ok
  
  
• From: bliss (@ ) on: Wed Aug 4 16:01:18
  
  well a similar thing i s happenening to me and i believe you could work out your differences and pput God first and everything would be ok
  
  
• From: mark greatz (@ melchior.city.unisa.edu.au) on: Wed Aug 4 21:50:11 EDT 2004
  
  pothigai wrote the first response and said "
  the best way to get out of the love bug is to sleep with him once. you will never forget to hate him thereafter"
  - I believe you need to find someone else to sleep with - just find anyone in that tea or coffee shop - as time goes on and the more boys you sleep with, your memory of this first guy will fade.
  
  
  
  
  
• From: g (@ 203.195.244.5) on: Thu Aug 5 02:34:20 EDT 2004
  
  the best way to over come this is start looking another guy
  date more often than love.
  there are more grapes tasty than this sour one
  try
  goodluck
  bye
  cos i did it
  am happy
  
  
  
• From: rich (@ 210.187.121.166) on: Sat Aug 14 06:01:56 EDT 2004
  
  priya mail me...i may help u
  
  
• From: Observer (@ ncfmcc2.ford.com) on: Mon Aug 16 12:29:06 EDT 2004
  
  have you ever noticed? whomsoever posts a help thread..never visits nor replies and its the members who simply start arguing over it and the original girl "Priya" simply vanished...
  
  
• From: Jeril James (@ ppp98-78.dsl-pun.eth.net) on: Fri Aug 20 10:06:17 EDT 2004
  
  Well,Priya may have wanished for the better.If she hasn't she should know that there is a time for everything. All these memories will fade away once she takes a firm decision to cut off all ties with that fellow and allow god to let her meet the person created for her.
  
  

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