Snehidikku-- snehathirku
Topic started by K.Sudhakar(Srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com) on Fri Mar 19 00:00:55 EST 2004.
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Hello Friends,
Although I wrote to Shakthi encouraging him to gather himself on a personal shock, it has triggered a series of thoughts on my own recent loss of a friend to cancer. She was a wonderful humanbeing with lots of love and affection. As she stood as the pinnacle of friendship ( remember, even 10 years back, a boy talking to a girl with pure friendship in heart was taken in the society with jaundiced looks) and resisted all the elements of doubt in the relationships, I thought my outpourings are just emotional. Please join me in praying that her soul gets the peace.
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Responses:
- From: Pavalamani Pragasam (@ 220.226.17.35)
on: Fri Mar 19 01:51:28 EST 2004
Á¢¸×õ ¯Õì¸õ! ¬òÁ¡÷ò¾Á¡É ÀâŢý ¦ÅÇ¢ôÀ¡Î. ¸¡Âí¸¨Ç ¸¡Äõ ¬üÈðÎõ!
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- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Fri Mar 19 02:45:11 EST 2004
Hello PP Madam,
Thanks for informing me about Shakthi. It just shows what my friend had proved years ago - that friendship does not have gender barriers..
The frustration was more for me as I did not even know that she was dead in UK quite some time ago and only when I searched her name in google I came to know of an obiturary message posted on the institute's website... Till then I had kept on wirting and chiding for her silence on my mails...
As you have written, time is the best healer...Let us see.
- From: Roshan (@ 220.247.240.48)
on: Fri Mar 19 04:32:03 EST 2004
sudhakar,
I'm in tears...¯í¸û ¯½÷׸¨Ç ´ù¦Å¡Õ Å¡÷ò¨¾Â¢Öõ ÒâóЦ¸¡ûÇ Óʸ¢ÈÐ..
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- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Fri Mar 19 07:28:46 EST 2004
Thanks Roshan
- From: Shakthi (@ 203-195-199-244.now-india.net.in)
on: Fri Mar 19 12:49:59 EST 2004
((((
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þ¾Âõ «¼íÌõ «¾¢÷׸Ǣø, ¯ý¨É§¿¡ì¸¢
¿¡ý À½Á¡§Åý. ))
That was very touchy
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(((((((((( came to know of an obiturary message posted on the institute's website... Till then I had kept on wirting and chiding for her silence on my mails...
As you have written, time is the best healer...Let us see.)))))))))
Its sad. We pray time would heal u. :(
- From: Malligai (@ 63-227-27-188.dnvr.qwest.net)
on: Fri Mar 19 23:26:55 EST 2004
Sudhakar,
really sorry about ur friend...i know how difficult the loss of a dear friend could be...it is a haunting and recurring sadness...
mudincha enoda 'Ninaivil Irukumaa?' padichu paarunga...
//¯ý À¡¾îÍÅθ¨Çô À¾¢òÐô §À¡..
À¢ýÉ¡ø ÅÕõ ¿¡ý
¿ð¨À «ÅüÈ¢ø àÅ¢ ÅÕ§Åý. //---wow..
- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Sat Mar 20 03:30:54 EST 2004
Hello Shakthi and Malligai,
Thanks for your empathy. Malligai, Icould not get your Ninavil Irukumaa? What thread is that?
- From: suresh (@ 61.95.227.156)
on: Sat Mar 20 03:45:10 EST 2004
:-)
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Note: this is about my friend in college...he was a wonderful person and a great
friend...he joined the army after college and was posted in Kashmir, where he shot and killed
at a very young age, not by an enemy but by his own friend...
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- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Sat Mar 20 04:45:13 EST 2004
Hello Suresh
Thanks for "Ninaivil Irukkuma?". Malligai,I am grieved and moved by the simple and straight - from - the - heart words. The shock is profound when I read how your friend encountered his death...
By the way, do you really feel " Time is the best healer?". I have found the pain increasing with days passing by...
- From: Malligai (@ 63-227-27-188.dnvr.qwest.net)
on: Sun Mar 21 23:30:09 EST 2004
Suresh,
thankss for posting the kavidhai..
Sudhakar,
//By the way, do you really feel " Time is the best healer?". I have found the pain increasing with days passing by...//---maybe, i dont know...but close friends can never be forgotten...even now, when i am lost or desperate, i wish that he was here...afterall, he dint die recently u know...it was a few years ago...but i still miss him...
- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Sat Apr 3 03:16:36 EST 2004
Nice to see that the pages are back.... Any one having the thread of vivadha maedai?
- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Sun Apr 4 04:07:41
Hello Roshan,
I hope I have found that thread..
- From: geno (@ 61.2.225.220)
on: Sun Apr 4 05:36:47 EDT 2004
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;¡¸ÕìÌõ, ÁøÄ¢¨¸ìÌõ ±ý ¬úó¾ þÃí¸ø¸û :(
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- From: k.sudhakar(srimangai) (@ sngiapat1.net.asiapac.agilent.com)
on: Sun Apr 4 06:45:43 EDT 2004
'ÁÉ¢¾õ' º¡÷ó¾ §¾¼ø¾¡ý 'ÁÉ¢¾÷¸Ç¢ý' '§¾¼ø¸Ç¢§Ä§Â' ¾¨Ä¡ÂÐ
Nicely said Geno. I am writing on "Thaedalhal". Will publish soon for all yours comments
- From: Kathir (@ 212.138.47.26)
on: Sun Apr 4 11:24:21 EDT 2004
I am happy this thread got revived. // À¢ÃÀïºí¸Ç¢ø ±ø¨Ä¸Ç¢ø,
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¿ðÀ¢ý «îÍ ±Ð¦ÅýÚ.. // a highly emotional tribute to a beautiful friendship. each line echo the feelings within.
// I came to know of an obiturary message posted on the institute's website... Till then I had kept on wirting and chiding for her silence on my mails... // oh, life!!
- From: Kathir (@ cache9-5.ruh.isu.net.sa)
on: Mon Apr 5 06:07:50 EDT 2004
Sudhakar (Srimangai), We eagerly look forward to your 'THEDAL'. Pls do come out with it soon.
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on: Mon Aug 2 15:57:28
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